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        - Well, hey, welcome to
Crossroads. My name is Andy.
       
    
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        And today we're talking
about all things celebration.
       
    
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        All things celebration.
       
    
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        You might remember
this one on July 4th, 1776,
       
    
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        the signers of the
Declaration of Independence
       
    
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        named three Inalienable Rights
       
    
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        that they believed
came from God.
       
    
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        And what were they?
       
    
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        Life, liberty and the
pursuit of happiness.
       
    
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        Do you remember those?
       
    
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        Well, if that's
literally part of
       
    
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        what our nation was built on,
       
    
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        then why do so few
of us seem happy?
       
    
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        Please hear me, this
isn't a political thing at all.
       
    
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        It's just meant to be an
honest recognition that
       
    
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        we're missing out on some
of the ideals and values
       
    
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        that I think we most desire.
       
    
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        And that's true not
just of our country,
       
    
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        but I believe, of our faith.
       
    
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        Did you know that Jesus
wants you to be happy?
       
    
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        He really, really does.
       
    
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        And today I want to help
you step into a practice,
       
    
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        the practice of celebration
that can help you
       
    
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        experience more of the happiness
       
    
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        that Jesus has
and wants for you.
       
    
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        - In 1996, in the
suburbs of Cincinnati,
       
    
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        a handful of regular
people who followed Jesus
       
    
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        had a crazy idea
to start a new church
       
    
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        to reach their friends
who had given up
       
    
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        on church as they knew it,
but were still seeking God.
       
    
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        - We were so tired of
church being a place
       
    
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        where everybody that
was really good at faking it
       
    
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        got together to compare
notes, you know?
       
    
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        And just the idea of
being a real place that
       
    
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        that was through everything.
       
    
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        We're not -- we're not
getting together to fake this.
       
    
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        We're not getting together
       
    
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        to pretend that we
have it all together.
       
    
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        That, for me, was a
huge breath of fresh air.
       
    
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        - God has used a
scrappy group of people
       
    
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        willing to say yes to
whatever He asked,
       
    
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        no matter how bold the division,
       
    
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        no matter how impossible.
       
    
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        He took our yes, it exploded it
       
    
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        way beyond our
expectations every single time.
       
    
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        Today, we celebrate more stories
than we can possibly tell.
       
    
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        This isn't us. This is God.
       
    
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        - You've met this Jesus.
       
    
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        There are so many
things wrong with
       
    
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        this picture of Jesus, I don't
even know where to start.
       
    
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        Well, here we go.
Jesus wasn't white.
       
    
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        He wasn't this,
like, well groomed,
       
    
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        pretty dainty looking guy.
       
    
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        He was a construction
worker who was accused
       
    
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        by the religious of being
a glutton and a drunkard.
       
    
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        He just looks so freaking sad.
       
    
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        He looks like He's overcome
by the weight of the world.
       
    
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        That's not the
Jesus of the Bible.
       
    
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        Do you know what?
       
    
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        Jesus is described in the
Bible as being anointed
       
    
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        with the oil of gladness
more than all his companions.
       
    
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        There's even a
translation of that line that
       
    
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        articulates this as saying
       
    
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        Jesus was the
happiest person alive.
       
    
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        And I love that.
       
    
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        I love that Jesus was
the happiest person alive,
       
    
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        and that He invites you and me
       
    
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        to follow His lead and example.
       
    
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        So, think about it.
       
    
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        What was Jesus's first miracle?
       
    
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        It was a wedding, okay?
       
    
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        And the party had run
out of wine and there was
       
    
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        still two days left
in the celebration.
       
    
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        So what did Jesus do?
       
    
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        He turned that water into wine,
       
    
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        and not just boxed wine,
       
    
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        not even Barefoot or Yellowtail.
       
    
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        He turned it into the
most amazing, vibrant,
       
    
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        flavorful drink that
people had ever had.
       
    
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        I don't if you guys have
heard of the show The Chosen,
       
    
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        it's like a show that
tells the life of Jesus.
       
    
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        I just immediately thought
it was going to be terrible.
       
    
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        A buddy of mine
was on me for months
       
    
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        telling me I should watch it.
       
    
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        Man, I could not have
been more wrong.
       
    
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        This scene in particular
is an incredible depiction
       
    
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        of a guy you'd like
to hang out with,
       
    
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        a guy who was
the life of the party,
       
    
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        who served and cared for
people and joked and laughed
       
    
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        and was just a joy to be around.
       
    
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        He was the
happiest person alive,
       
    
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        and He's apparently also the guy
       
    
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        who's willing to make
a supernatural beer run
       
    
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        so that the celebration
can keep going.
       
    
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        So, Jesus was one of the guys
       
    
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        that was invited
to the party, right?
       
    
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        I know we've all met
some Christians that you
       
    
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        wouldn't really like want
at a party of any kind.
       
    
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        Hey, that's not the kind
of guy that Jesus was.
       
    
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        He's also the kind
of guy who helped
       
    
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        keep the party
going by celebrating.
       
    
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        That whole water
into wine thing.
       
    
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        Jesus took jars, big,
like, vats, big jars of water,
       
    
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        and told the servants
to fill the jars to the brim.
       
    
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        Then He proceeds to
turn that to the brim water
       
    
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        into the biggest chef's kiss.
       
    
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        Wine, like, best tasting
wine anybody had ever had.
       
    
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        Now Jesus uses really
similar language in John 15
       
    
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        to you and me when He
says, "I've told you this
       
    
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        so that my joy may be in you
       
    
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        and that your joy
may be complete."
       
    
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        That word complete means
to the brim and then some.
       
    
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        It means overflowing.
       
    
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        Now, Jesus didn't come
to make your life easy
       
    
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        and all your troubles go away.
       
    
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        I'm sorry, but He did make
a way for you to be filled
       
    
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        to the brim with happiness
in the midst of life,
       
    
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        no matter what comes your way.
       
    
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        Today, as promised, I'm
going to give you one habit,
       
    
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        one habit you can lean
into, you can step into
       
    
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        to experience more happiness.
       
    
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        And I'm not just going
to tell you about it.
       
    
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        We're actually going to
practice it together today.
       
    
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        Those vases, if you imagine
       
    
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        Jesus filling them
up to the brim,
       
    
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        they're a lot like
yours and my spiritual
       
    
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        and emotional gas tank.
       
    
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        There are lots of things
that want to drain you.
       
    
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        Maybe it's your phone,
       
    
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        maybe it's social
media in general.
       
    
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        Maybe it's your
work, your family.
       
    
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        I don't know, it could
be all kinds of things.
       
    
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        But there's also things
that want to fill you up,
       
    
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        and that's what we're
going to be looking at today.
       
    
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        I want you to
experience more of that
       
    
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        to the brim happiness so
that you and I can be filled up.
       
    
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        And one of our best tools
to fill us up is to celebrate,
       
    
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        to intentionally take time
away, to acknowledge
       
    
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        that while your life
may not be perfect,
       
    
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        there good things in it
that you didn't put there.
       
    
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        Right?
       
    
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        To spend some time recounting
the good things in your life.
       
    
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        Maybe they're small day
to day stuff, like your kids,
       
    
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        maybe that cup of delicious
coffee from this morning,
       
    
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        maybe it's your home,
       
    
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        that you have a home
or your community.
       
    
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        Or maybe it's bigger, like,
       
    
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        part of your life story stuff,
       
    
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        the moments you shouldn't
have survived, those --
       
    
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        the challenging
seasons of your life
       
    
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        that you came through stronger.
       
    
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        The times in your life
when God showed up
       
    
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        celebrating the stories
of how God has moved
       
    
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        increases your and my spiritual
and emotional bandwidth.
       
    
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        It resets our equilibrium
in a way that, man,
       
    
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        the near-constant tide of
bad news from our phones
       
    
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        just -- just can't
most of the time.
       
    
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        Celebrating really is
simple. It's telling stories.
       
    
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        Revelation 12:11
says that we overcome
       
    
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        by the Blood of the Lamb.
       
    
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        That's the stuff that Jesus did.
       
    
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        And by the power
of our testimony.
       
    
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        There's stuff that Jesus
does, the Blood of the Lamb,
       
    
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        and then there's
stuff that you and I do,
       
    
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        which is just the
recognition of the stories
       
    
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        that God has done in our lives.
       
    
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        This is something we do every
Wednesday as a staff team
       
    
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        when our whole 300 plus
staff members are together,
       
    
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        we always spend
30 to 60 minutes,
       
    
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        not just looking at spreadsheets
       
    
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        or PowerPoint presentations,
but just telling stories,
       
    
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        celebrating the good
things that God has done
       
    
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        since we were last together.
       
    
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        So that's what we're
going to do right now,
       
    
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        to hear stories of
how God has shown up
       
    
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        and showed off in
the lives of people
       
    
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        just like you and me.
       
    
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        Let's hear our
first story right now.
       
    
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        - Hi, my name is
Chris Mester, and I'm
       
    
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        the Crossroads East Side
Student Ministry director,
       
    
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        and I have a story to
share with you today.
       
    
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        In our high school ministry,
       
    
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        I have a leader named Chelsea,
       
    
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        and Chelsea leads a
group of high school girls.
       
    
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        And in her group
she has a student.
       
    
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        And that student
in parts of her life
       
    
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        has been deemed the bad kid.
       
    
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        But here's the thing,
Chelsea didn't believe
       
    
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        that about her,
and neither did I.
       
    
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        I don't believe there's
such thing as bad kids.
       
    
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        There's bad behaviors.
       
    
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        If we're being honest,
       
    
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        this student did have
a lot of bad behaviors.
       
    
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        She was making a
lot of poor choices
       
    
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        that were affecting her
life and her relationships.
       
    
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        She was also using
drugs and abusing alcohol.
       
    
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        And she was also
struggling with a lot of things
       
    
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        like depression, things
that a lot of high schoolers
       
    
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        deal with today.
       
    
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        And with all of that,
Chelsea makes a choice.
       
    
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        See, Chelsea decides to
not give up on the student,
       
    
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        but to run after her.
       
    
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        And Chelsea ran after
her like I've never seen
       
    
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        somebody run after
somebody else before.
       
    
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        See, Chelsea brings
her into our life.
       
    
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        She consistently
spends time with her.
       
    
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        She communicates with
her just to let her know
       
    
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        that somebody cares about her,
       
    
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        to let her know
that she is loved.
       
    
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        And Chelsea ends up
having a significant impact
       
    
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        on this student's life.
       
    
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        And this student this
last summer goes to camp
       
    
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        and has this life changing
experience at camp.
       
    
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        And I believe she had
an encounter with God.
       
    
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        And she opens up with
Chelsea for the first time
       
    
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        and she tells Chelsea
that earlier this year
       
    
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        she attempted to commit suicide.
       
    
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        But even more so,
she tells Chelsea,
       
    
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        "That it's because of
you chasing after me
       
    
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        that I kept going on."
       
    
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        Because of Chelsea
running after her,
       
    
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        this student kept going on.
       
    
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        And this student
comes out of camp
       
    
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        and is now thriving
       
    
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        and passionately
running after Jesus.
       
    
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        And now she's even serving
in our middle school ministry
       
    
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        because she wants to
have an impact because
       
    
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        somebody had an
impact on her life.
       
    
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        God is doing something
extremely drastic
       
    
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        in this student's life.
       
    
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        And my friends, that is
just one of many stories
       
    
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        of what God is doing
in Crossroads' students.
       
    
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        - What's up, Crossroads?
       
    
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        I'm Craig. This is
Judd from Man Camp.
       
    
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        What? Do you want
to say your name?
       
    
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        - I'm Judd, apparently,
from Man Camp.
       
    
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        - Well, we were here.
       
    
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        We were asked to
tell Man Camp story.
       
    
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        So, you have a pretty great one.
       
    
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        - Yeah. Gosh, we're the ones --
       
    
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        There's hundreds,
literally hundreds of them.
       
    
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        One of them that
just jumps out to me is
       
    
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        a guy came to one of
the early Man Camps.
       
    
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        I think it might be the first
or second one on base camp.
       
    
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        Didn't know anybody.
       
    
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        Not even sure he
went to Crossroads.
       
    
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        Somehow heard about it,
found out about it and came.
       
    
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        And he tells a story that, like,
       
    
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        the Monday before Man Camp,
       
    
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        he finds out his
wife's cheating on him.
       
    
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        He's devastated. He's rocked.
       
    
      - 
        
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        He almost doesn't come to
camp, somehow decides to come.
       
    
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        He said, "I'm walking in
with these guys I never met
       
    
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        and I don't know, ready
to end my marriage,
       
    
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        convinced it was done."
       
    
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        Over the course of the
weekend through solitude time
       
    
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        and all the stuff that
happens at Man Camp
       
    
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        and discussions with these guys
       
    
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        and just God working
with this guy's heart,
       
    
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        he left, he said, "With
a band of brothers
       
    
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        and a firm, resolute decision
to fight for my marriage
       
    
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        and to save it."
       
    
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        And that's pretty astounding.
       
    
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        I think that's a pretty great
thing worth celebrating.
       
    
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        So, yeah.
       
    
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        - He said the Lord
was working on him.
       
    
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        - Yeah, the Lord just,
he said, and this is --
       
    
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00:10:59
        this sounds like this guy,
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:00
        church wasn't a
whole part of his story,
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:02
        but it definitely
was that weekend.
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:04
        Yeah. So he said that his
heart literally was changed
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:08
        during the end,
during the weekend.
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:11
        - I just love that
picture of community.
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:15
        So, I say this a lot,
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:16
        I'm gonna say it again
before this thing's done,
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:18
        we are not content,
we're community.
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:20
        And if you want more
people that are in your corner,
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:23
        more people praying for
you, a more deep and beautiful
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:26
        and vibrant picture
of what it looks like
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:28
        to have community,
would love for you to join
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:32
        our upcoming community cohort.
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:34
        This is a way to get
more understanding
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:36
        of what real life giving
community can be
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:40
        and how to build
it for yourself.
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:43
        And like, the best thing,
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:45
        it's not like a class
that you show up for.
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:46
        It happens asynchronously.
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:48
        You can do it in a way
that fits your schedule
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:51
        and you can connect with
people all over the country
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:54
        in a way that is convenient
and works for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:58
        So, click the link to join our
upcoming community cohort.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:01
        We'd love to have you
there and have you build
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:04
        this Crossroads anywhere
community alongside us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:07
        All right.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:08
        We've got another
great story for you
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:10
        and another great reason
to celebrate right now.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:14
        - I went on a mission trip
this year to go South Africa.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:17
        An absolutely amazing trip.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:19
        I went with my 17
year old daughter.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:21
        While I was there,
one day I got up,
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:25
        but I wasn't feeling
right that day
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:29
        And I just was kind
of feeling down,
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:32
        it's like I wasn't connecting.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:34
        And Nikita reached out
and just wanted to kind of
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:36
        get to know me a little
bit, you know? It was great.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:38
        She asked how I
was doing that day,
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:40
        and I mentioned to her
that I wasn't feeling that great
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:43
        and I wasn't sure why.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:46
        And all of a sudden
it kind of hit me.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:48
        It was the anniversary
of my mom's death.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:52
        My parents had been in a
car accident three years prior,
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:56
        both my parents, and
they were hit head on
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:59
        by another driver that
crossed over the line.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:01
        And my mother was killed.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:05
        My father was the only
survivor of the accident.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:08
        It had been three
years since it happened.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:12
        And in that time I
had been handling
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:16
        a whole lot of settlement stuff.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:18
        You know, after
the car accident,
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:20
        there was a lot to take care of.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:22
        But I realized I
never really had time
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:25
        to mourn my mother's death.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:27
        I never had that time to really
just process what had happened.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:32
        And Nikita and I
started talking about it.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:36
        And I started just
really understanding
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:40
        what was going on
that day, because it was
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:42
        the first day in three years
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:44
        where I had time in my life
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:47
        to just process
what had happened,
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:53
        to mourn my mother's death,
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:55
        to realize it was the
anniversary of her death
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:58
        and to process it on
my own, you know,
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:00
        in a place far away from
where everything happened.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:04
        And to have the downtime
to do so without having
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:09
        all the hustle and bustle
of everything from life.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:16
        Nikita explained to me
what she and her family do
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:21
        when they have a
death in the family
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:24
        and on the anniversary
of that death
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:26
        they go out and
they find a rock.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:32
        And in order to kind of
say goodbye or process
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:38
        that loss they kind of,
you know, to say goodbye,
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:43
        to say goodbye to that loved one
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:46
        that is no longer
on earth with them.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:49
        I went back and later
that evening after dinner
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:53
        and all of our other prayer
and worship time that night,
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:57
        I went for a walk by myself
and I came across a stone.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:04
        And I picked up the
stone and I held on to it
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:07
        and I prayed and I thought.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:09
        And I thought and I prayed.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:11
        And I kept trying to toss
the stone over into the brush
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:16
        that was on the other
side of of our cabin.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:18
        And I couldn't do
it. I couldn't let go.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:23
        It probably was a good
20, 30 minutes later
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:27
        when I was finally
able to toss the stone
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:33
        and let go and mourn
and say goodbye
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:38
        and finally processed
and put to rest
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:42
        what I'd been holding on
to for the last three years.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:45
        I'm very grateful
that Nikita was there
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:48
        to share that with
me, to give me that,
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:53
        the little nudge that I
needed to say goodbye
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:57
        to my mom for one last time,
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:59
        the nudge I
needed to get past it.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:03
        - Is it just me or are you
thankful for Kelly's honesty,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:07
        like, for her vulnerability
in talking about,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:11
        man, One of the most
challenging things, right?
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:13
        The loss of a loved one.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:14
        I unfortunately know
from personal experience
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:16
        that when I lost my mom,
like, that burying a loved one
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:20
        and grieving a loved one
are not the same thing.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:24
        And that for us to grieve well,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:26
        for us to move towards
wholeness and healing,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:29
        that's a really challenging
thing to do alone.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:32
        So, I love that Kelly was
a part of a community
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:35
        where she had people encouraging
her towards wholeness
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:38
        and encouraging
her towards healing
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:40
        and even had an
Nikita alongside her.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:43
        I love that picture of going
past your comfort zone,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:46
        even to a place
like South Africa
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:48
        where you can experience
God in a fresh way.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:51
        And that idea of going
outside of your comfort zone
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:55
        to experience more of God,
I think is really important.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:58
        And there's actually something
I want to invite you into
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:00
        that might be just
a little bit of that.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:02
        We do a thing every month,
the first Thursday of the month
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:04
        called Monthly Night of Prayer.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:06
        And it's a time where
we've seen God
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:09
        show up in big ways.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:11
        It happens on Zoom and
hey, don't write me off,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:13
        like, it's a good Zoom call.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:15
        I don't know if you knew
such a thing could exist,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:17
        but there's a time of worship
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:18
        that actually I get
to lead with a band.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:20
        It's really, really fun
and a time for you
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:23
        to receive prayer from
one of our vetted, gifted,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:27
        trained, equipped
prayer team members.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:29
        They're awesome
and they will actually
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:30
        listen to God on your behalf.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:32
        It's a thing called prophecy.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:34
        And they'll ask God to
talk to them and give them
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:37
        something encouraging
and strengthening for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:41
        It's a beautiful time where
we've seen God show up
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:43
        and speak to people and
even seen God show up
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:47
        and bring, like, emotional
and physical healing
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:50
        in beautiful, beautiful ways.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:52
        It's a whole list of stories
that I could celebrate
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:54
        just on that.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:55
        But I'd love for you to join us,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:58
        11/3, November 3rd
7:30 p.m. Sign up.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:01
        We'd love to pray for
you and have you join us
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:04
        for Monthly Night of Prayer.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:05
        All right, let's keep
this party going.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:07
        We've got another story to
help you celebrate right now.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:11
        - Last year, November
6th, my husband and I
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:15
        had a miscarriage
of our first child.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:18
        And through that, God
showed up in many ways.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:22
        But specifically, He
helped us uncover that
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:25
        I had a couple underlying
health conditions
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:27
        that was causing
our infertility.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:29
        We'd been trying for
baby for about a year
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:32
        and we thought that we
had an absolute miracle,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:34
        and we did.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:36
        Our baby was
absolutely a miracle.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:38
        But God helped us uncover
some pretty significant issues
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:43
        that I had regarding
our fertility.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:45
        And through that I have
now gotten the go ahead
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:48
        for my doctor that we are good,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:51
        that all of my tests
came back positive
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:53
        and that we are able to
start trying for another baby.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:56
        But also through
that miscarriage,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:58
        my husband showed up
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:00
        in a way that I've never
needed him before
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:02
        and never seen
him show up before.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:04
        He was absolutely
touched by God,
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:09
        specifically at Couples Camp.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:10
        After losing our baby in May.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:13
        We were due in May and
Couples Camp was in May.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:16
        And we went to the
prayer tent together
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:19
        and that was the first
time that he ever asked
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:20
        to receive prayer
from anybody else.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:22
        And it was the first time
he ever felt moved by God
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:25
        or felt like God
was in his presence.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:27
        And through that, our marriage
has grown tremendously.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:30
        His faith has grown
tremendously.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:33
        God has shown up in other ways.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:35
        It's opened a door for
us to go back to school
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:37
        and to get our
degree and just --
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:40
        just to start a
great new journey.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:41
        So, God has shown
up in many ways,
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:43
        sometimes not the
way that we want,
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:45
        but sometimes the
way that we need.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:47
        - Man. I love Hannah's story.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:50
        I love hearing the
story of someone
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:52
        who's really, really
honest and real about, man,
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:56
        one of the most painful
things that you can experience.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:59
        But the story not
ending there, right?
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:01
        Like, of her and her
husband leaning in
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:05
        in the midst of that challenge,
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:07
        in the midst of that pain.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:08
        Leaning in and going
past their comfort zone
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:11
        and experiencing God and
experiencing fresh hope,
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:15
        fresh life, fresh joy.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:18
        I just love it.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:19
        It's one of the things we
say around here all the time,
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:22
        that we're not just
content, we're community.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:24
        We're not just stuff to watch.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:27
        We're a group of
people like Hannah
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:30
        who are trying to lean
in and expecting to see
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:34
        more of God move
in our own lives,
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:37
        that God will give us
more reasons to celebrate.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:40
        I actually want to tell
you a story that I heard.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:42
        I was having lunch with a
guy and he shared this story
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:46
        with me of a guy named Tommy.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:48
        And Tommy lives in Kentucky
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:51
        and is a part now of our
Lexington community.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:54
        But when the story began,
his addiction had actually
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:58
        brought him to a really
sketchy situation, we'll say,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:01
        down at Red River Gorge.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:03
        And he ended up
falling off of a cliff,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:06
        falling off of a cliff
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:08
        and breaking his foot
really, really badly.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:11
        And so much so that
it took him two days
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:15
        to crawl back
out to civilization,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:18
        to crawl out of the woods,
out of the wilderness,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:21
        back where he was found.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:22
        And over those two days,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:24
        it was actually the
weather was really bad.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:26
        He had frostbite so
bad that by the time
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:29
        he got to a hospital,
his doctors were afraid
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:31
        they were going to
have to amputate his foot.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:34
        And it's in that moment
he actually realized, like,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:38
        he had a moment with
God, had a moment with God
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:40
        where he felt like he
needed to reach out
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:43
        and experience
a faith community.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:45
        And he did that with Crossroads
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:46
        through our Facebook
page of all things.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:48
        And you know what he did?
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:50
        He liked our Facebook page.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:51
        And that's not the
end of the story.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:53
        One of our team members,
a coworker of mine,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:56
        reached out and
just introduced herself
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:59
        and asked if she could
pray for him for anything.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:01
        He mentioned his surgery,
mentioned his addiction,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:04
        and and mentioned that
he had a surgery coming up
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:06
        that would determine whether
or not he got to keep his foot.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:11
        This coworker prayed for
him and the surgery went great.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:15
        God showed up with those doctors
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:17
        and in the midst of that surgery
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:19
        and he was able
to keep his foot.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:21
        Well, he realized then
that he didn't just need
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:24
        a moment with God or
even just an answered prayer.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:26
        He didn't need a
moment with God.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:27
        He needed more of God,
on going as a part of his life.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:32
        And he started watching
Crossroads online.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:35
        And then he started
joining our community
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:38
        in Lexington, Kentucky,
and experiencing God
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:41
        to the level where
it's not just him,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:43
        but actually he's
inviting friends
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:45
        from the Recovery
home where he lives
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:47
        to experience church
alongside of him.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:50
        I love those stories,
stories that fill us up,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:53
        that put gas in the tank,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:55
        that don't drain
the life from us,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:58
        stories that, man, show
us that God still moves,
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:02
        still shows up, is still
for you and me today,
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:05
        that we can expect
good things from God
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:08
        when we look to the future.
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:10
        Man, I love the chance to
celebrate the good things
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:13
        that God is doing in your life
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:15
        and in the lives of people
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:16
        all over our
Crossroads community.
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:20
        Man, we want you to
experience happiness.
       
    
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00:23:23
        We want you to experience joy.
       
    
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        We want you to experience
       
    
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        more and more
reasons to celebrate.
       
    
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        Hey, next week we've
got a new series starting off
       
    
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        called The Blessed Life.
       
    
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        We hope you'll join us then.
       
    
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        See you next time.
       
    
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        Next week on Crossroads.
       
    
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        - Growing up, things were tight.
       
    
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        I always held money
close to my chest
       
    
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        and spent it my way.
       
    
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00:23:51
        It wasn't until I decided
to trust in God fully
       
    
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        that the fear of not
having enough faded away.
       
    
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        Now I'm living a blessed life.
       
    
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        God always gives me what I need.