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You were created for greatness.
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There's a hero hiding
somewhere inside of you.
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At some point in your
life you truly believed that,
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that's because it's true.
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God made you to be great
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and He has a plan
for you to be a hero
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on a team of heroes.
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Come, find the path
to your greatness.
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- Hey, welcome to
week one of The Journey.
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My name is Kyle.
This is Crossroads.
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We believe that you
were born for adventure
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and we exist
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to guide and equip you
on that adventure.
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Now question, right off the bat:
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Do you want to be a hero?
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I'm thinking of the song in
Frozen, you know the one
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where it's like do you
want to build a snowman
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or whatever?
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Anyway, the point is
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you were designed for greatness.
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The world says there's
a path to get there.
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There's a way
that you get there,
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things you should
do to get to greatness.
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Jesus has a different path.
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Now today, our senior
pastor, Brian Tome,
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is going to be unpacking
all of that for us.
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Spoiler alert: the way
to greatness is not up,
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it's about going down.
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- They want you to behave,
to settle in, settle down,
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and dear God, not
make any waves.
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They want you to be average
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and build a nice, sensible
house on Normal Street.
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They want you to
stay inside, plugged in
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and numbed out on
your digital pixel slab.
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They want you to
dream small, think tiny,
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and most of all,
behave yourself.
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They want to know
your place and stay there.
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But you weren't
born for average.
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You weren't made for settling.
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You weren't created
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to watch other people
go on adventures,
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wait for other people
to jump into action
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and sit by and
consume until you die.
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You were created to make
waves and walk on them.
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You were born to find
the road to greatness
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and travel every curve on it.
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This is The Journey there:
The Path to Greatness.
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It's not what you've been told.
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There are five
forks in the road,
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five distinct choices
you must make.
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This Journey will
walk you to each.
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The choice will be yours.
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- No matter who you are,
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no matter what you've
done or not done,
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you're meant for more.
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You can be great,
you can be heroic.
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One of the more
reluctant heroes in our time
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is the great Shrek.
Remember Shrek?
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Come along now, Donkey.
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You know, Shrek
didn't want to be a hero,
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but he actually
ended up being a hero.
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I use the word hero
very tentatively because
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we're not talking about
having our limbs blown off
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or doing something that
all of the world knows about.
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In fact, when you talk to people
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who are legitimate
physical heroes,
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Medal of Honor recipients,
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first responders
who rushed into
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a burning building,
or some such thing,
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all of them are uncomfortable
with the word hero.
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They say again and again,
"I was just doing my job."
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That's the thing.
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And here's the thing,
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the people who are
the heroes of the faith,
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they were just
doing their job, too.
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They were simply
following what God wanted
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and then as a result, they
ended up being heroes.
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Jesus says in the Book
of Matthew 18:1, He says:
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You might think
that Jesus would say,
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"Oh, whoa, whoa, what are
you doing wanting to be great?
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No one should want to be great.
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It should all be equalzies.
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It should all be same fairzies,
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everyone does the same
minimum amount of work
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and everyone gets
exactly the same.
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He doesn't say that.
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He goes on to say,
"Hey, to be great
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in the Kingdom of God,
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you have to humble
yourself like a child."
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To be clear, Jesus
is pro you being great,
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so long as you
understand what it means
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to be a hero inside
of God's eyes.
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And a hero doesn't
mean being a celebrity.
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There's two different
aspects there.
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Is an actor who memorizes
lines at somebody else wrote
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and then they just recite them
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and they earn millions of
dollars, are they a hero?
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No, they're a celebrity.
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Maybe they're a hero
for some other reason,
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not because of that.
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Is a social media influencer,
somebody who has
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hundreds of
thousands of followers
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and makes hundreds
of thousands of dollars
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endorsing products,
are they a hero? No.
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They're a celebrity.
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They might be heroic
in some other way,
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but that does make
somebody a hero.
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If you party like a rock
star, what are you?
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You're a rock star,
that's all you are.
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You're a rock star.
You're not a hero.
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This is really
important to understand
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that many of us think that
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being well known is the goal.
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That's what it
means to be great.
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That's that means to be hero.
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No, that's not true.
It's not true at all.
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Heroes and great people
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can be well known,
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they can be celebrities,
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but celebrity is never the goal
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and celebrity never defines
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whether or not you are heroic.
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Jesus himself was
great, He was a hero,
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and He was a celebrity,
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according to Psychology
Today, it says this:
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Therefore, He has
a level of celebrity
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that came with Him.
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In a moment, I'm going to
talk about Jewish mothers.
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I know it sounds weird.
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It'll make much
more sense after this.
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- Then the mother of
the sons of Zebedee
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came up to Him with her sons,
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and kneeling before Him
she asked Him for something.
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And He said to her,
"What do you want?"
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She said to Him, "Say
that these two sons of mine
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are to sit one at
Your right hand
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and one at Your left
in Your Kingdom."
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Jesus answered, "You do
not know what you are asking.
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Are you able to drink
the cup that I am to drink?"
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They said to Him, "We are able."
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He said to them,
"You will drink my cup,
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but to sit at My right
hand and at My left
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is not mine to grant.
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But it is for those for whom
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it has been prepared
by My Father."
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And when the ten heard it,
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they were indignant
at the two brothers.
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But Jesus called
them to Him and said,
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"You know that the
rulers of the gentiles
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lorded over them
and their great ones
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exercise authority over them.
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It shall not be so among you.
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But whoever would
be great among you
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must be your servant.
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And whoever would
be first among you
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must be your slave.
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Even as the Son of Man
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came not to be
served, but to serve
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and to give His life
as a ransom for many."
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- It's pretty well documented
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that those who are
Jewish are doing
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way above the mean,
way above the average
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in terms of overall
economic impact.
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The number of
billionaires and millionaires
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that are in our
country or in the world
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far outpaces the percentage
of other nationalities.
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If you go to New
York City, the amount
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of real estate that's held
by the Jewish community
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is really astounding.
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I heard a speaker talk
about this one time,
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and he said, "You
want to know why?
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You want to know why
we're so successful?'
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He said, "It's because
of our Jewish mothers.
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That's why."
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I don't know that, I don't
have a Jewish mother,
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but here we have in
that story a Jewish mom
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is going to Jesus and
saying, "Hey, my sons,
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I want them to sit on
your right and on your left.
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I want them to be great."
That's what great was.
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If Jesus was in heaven,
He was in the Kingdom of God,
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the people closest to Him,
because He is the greatest,
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would be greater than others.
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And again, you would
think Jesus would say,
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"What are you talking
about? No, no, no.
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You're not asking
the right question."
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He doesn't say that.
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Instead, He again
and again redefines
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exactly what it
means to be great.
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Matthew 23:11, He says:
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He wants us to be
great, it's just a matter of
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what form of
greatness and how fast
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and how far are
you going after it?
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Three things about heroes.
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Heroes are submitted.
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Heroes submit themselves to God,
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and they serve others.
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That's what it means
to be submitted.
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Man, I read this amazing
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quote recently, it said this:
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Brilliant.
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OH, that's my book:
Welcome to Revolution
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by Brian Tome available
on Amazon right now.
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That's what God wants,
He wants you to give up.
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He wants you to submit to Him.
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That's how you become great,
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because when we do that,
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we also start serving others.
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And we all know those are
the folks who are heroes,
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those who have selflessly
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served other people.
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I've gone down the rabbit hole
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looking at modern
day heroes, who it is
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who's gotten Medal
of Recipient awards
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and that kind of thing.
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And one thing that happens
again and again and again
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is they don't like to
call themselves heroes.
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They are, but they don't
like to call themselves heroes.
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They say things like,
"I'm just doing my job."
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One person is Travis Mills.
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He was serving in Afghanistan.
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He had his legs and
his arms taken off.
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He now walks around
with like two kind of
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prosthetic pegs on
his legs, very short,
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and he has one prosthetic
arm that he can use.
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And here's what
he says. He says:
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He doesn't like to
be called a hero.
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He is one; doesn't
like to be called one.
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You know who he says a hero is?
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He says, "The true hero,
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the only hero I
know is my wife."
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Because when he came
back from Afghanistan,
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as he was half the
man he was before,
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physically half the man.
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He said to his bride,
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"This is probably the
time for you to get out.
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You need to go
off, you have a life,
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and it shouldn't be me because
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this is going to be
a rough, rough go."
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He tried to release
her and she said,
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"Absolutely not, staying."
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That's his hero. Why?
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Because she submitted
to the relationship
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and she's serving him.
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That's who great people are.
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That's what great people
do, whenever you can,
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whatever the opportunity is.
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Oh, gosh, couple months
ago, I was coming into work
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and as I was coming in I
saw an older Toyota car
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that was broken down
the side of the road
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and there was a kid
who was pushing it,
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pushing the car.
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And I've been in that
situation many times,
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driven old cars and
they break down.
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So, I immediately had
a bit of a heart for it.
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And actually what I felt was
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if that was me, Jesus
would stop from me.
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If that was me,
Jesus would serve me.
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So I pulled over thinking
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I might be a little
late for my meeting.
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That's OK.
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Pulled over, put my
hazards on, went back.
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While I was going back,
there was another guy
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in a van who was
thinking the same thing.
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So now there's two guys
converging on this car.
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And then started to
see what was happening.
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I'm a white guy,
he's a white guy,
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and we have two
African-American teenagers
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that are here in this vehicle.
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I don't know if
you know it or not,
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there's a lot of African-
Americans who do not have
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a lot of positive interactions
with white people
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in pickup trucks and vans.
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And I felt like, "Ooh,
this has now gone --
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This has deeper
stakes with it right now."
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We came up to these kids
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and asked them
how they're doing.
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Apparently ran out of gas.
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Heart went out to
them and we said,
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"OK, well just steer
and we'll push you over."
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And they were kids.
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They don't know all
about mechanics of a car.
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They weren't turning
over where they could
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because the
engine wouldn't start
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so the power steering was off.
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They just, you
know, so we're trying
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to get the steering wheel
turned and everything.
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We get it over, we stop.
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I said, "You guys okay?
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You guys have money for gas?"
"Yes, we do."
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"Are you okay
to get the gas station?
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There's one right over there,
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but I'm happy to
take you if you need."
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"No, we'll get there."
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I wasn't sure
they had money.
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"Are you sure you have money?
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Because I can give you
money if you need some,
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if you need some gas."
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They said, "No,
no, no, we're okay."
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I said, "Okay, great, great,"
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so shook their hand
and off we went.
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I didn't do that because I said,
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"Hey, this is going to be
a great sermon illustration
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on week one of The
Journey called Heroes."
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No, I just wanted to serve
somebody who was there.
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But I'll tell you
this right now,
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I'm pretty sure those
kids looking back
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on what we did to help them
and get them going that day,
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I'm pretty sure they
viewed us as heroes.
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Anybody who serves you
and submits to something
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that is greater than themselves
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is a legitimate
hero that we love
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and that we need in our world.
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And our world needs
and our world wants
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more people like you
to be great, to be heroic.
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Heroes are submitted.
Heroes are connected.
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They're connected.
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No one ever becomes
a hero bingeing Netflix.'
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Nobody ever becomes a hero
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having their introvert time
on the couch.
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No problem bingeing Netflix,
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no problem having your
introvert time on the couch,
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just understand it's
not in those moments
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where you will be a hero.
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It's when you're connected
with other people.
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Even the story that
we're looking at right now
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with the disciples
and the Jewish mother
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of James and John,
they're all connected.
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They hear this, the disciples
are like, "Wait a minute.
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Wait a minute, you
can't be asking that."
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Because they're
thinking themselves,
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"I wanted to ask that.
Darn it, I didn't ask it."
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I think that's what
they're thinking.
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They're upset with it.
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Like did this Jewish
mother and James and John
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beat them to the punch because
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they weren't bold enough
to actually ask this?
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They're seeing this
and they're learning
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these things while
they're connected.
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You're never going
to get the next level
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unless you get connected.
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In this Journey called
Heroes, there's a cap,
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there's a cap to your greatness
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that you will
attain to if this is
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your isolated solo
thing that you're going
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to reflect on for
five or six weeks.
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You've got to get in a group.
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You've got to get
around other people
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to hear other people's
stories, them hear your story.
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You've got to do that.
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Heroes are always
connected, for no other reason,
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if you're not connected,
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then you don't have
anybody to serve,
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let alone have new
insights and new passions
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and new powers.
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Jesus wants you to be
great, wants you to be a hero,
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and we do that when
we're connected with Him.
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He says in John 14:
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Jesus, that's a call
for you to be great
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and do greater things.
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Are you preparing for that?
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Are you leaning into that?
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Do you know who you are?
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Do you know who or
what are submitted to?
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On the other side of a story
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we're going to show right now,
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I'm going to talk to
about what it means
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to get unlocked because
we're going to hear
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how somebody is great
and we need to understand
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how all of us can
in kind be unlocked.
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- We'll get back to
Brian in just a minute,
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but first, this entire
Journey is only possible
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00:16:16
because of the generosity
of everyday people
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just like you and just like me.
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If you're one of those
generous givers to Crossroads,
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on behalf of everyone
experiencing this right now,
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00:16:25
thank you for giving.
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00:16:27
Or if you want to become part of
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the community of
generosity around here,
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00:16:30
you'll be joining
thousands of people,
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my family included.
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You can do that by going
to Crossroads.net/give.
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Check out this story
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of one of the heroes
in our community.
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- Hey I'm Jay. I serve
on the worship team
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and I play guitar
on the weekends.
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00:16:45
I was in bands from
the time I was 15
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00:16:47
till the time I was 30-ish.
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00:16:51
But I would say
like that lifestyle
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00:16:53
of staying out in bars
late, playing in bars,
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you know, drinking, partying
is not super conducive to,
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00:17:00
you know, being a great
dad or being a great husband
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00:17:04
or getting up in the
morning, you know,
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00:17:06
when you're when
your kid gets up
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00:17:07
and taking care of them.
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00:17:08
I definitely associate
a lot of negativity
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00:17:11
and darkness with
that kind of lifestyle.
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00:17:13
The direction that that
was pointing my life,
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00:17:16
and it wasn't the direction
that I wanted to go.
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00:17:19
So ultimately, I quit,
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sold all my gear
or gave it away.
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You know, and that was it.
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But it wasn't until
I kind of started
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coming to Crossroads
and seeing music
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done in a different way
that I started to kind of
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feel that pull again
toward music.
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00:17:36
Our family had this
incredible blessing where, like,
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basically these people
showed up on our doorstep
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00:17:41
one day and wanted
to buy our house
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00:17:43
and like kind of
in one fell swoop
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00:17:45
we were out of our debt
and we had a surplus.
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00:17:49
I had prayed to God like,
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"Hey, this is an
incredible blessing.
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What do you want me
to do with this money?"
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00:17:56
God said, like, mission trip.
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And then like the next day
there was an email from,
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00:18:02
like, I think it was the
first Go Nicaragua trip,
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00:18:06
so I just signed up.
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So on the way down to Nicaragua,
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I happened to be seated
on the plane next to Mike.
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It turns out that he was
worship leading that trip
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in Nicaragua that week.
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- Hi, my name is Mike,
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and I volunteer on
the worship team.
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2016 I went on the
first Go Nicaragua trip
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and I remember I
was working on lyrics
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for the songs that
we were going to sing.
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And Jay was sitting next to me
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and started asking me
questions about the songs,
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how long I've
been playing music.
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Eventually invited him to
come serve on the music team.
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I think the change in
Jay from when I met him
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that first time kind
of seeing him step in
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to join the team,
to use as gifts,
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really stepping
into like the identity
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00:18:50
of who he is to be who
God called him to be.
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- I think the reason
that I was hesitant
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was that I was still just
rejecting that side of myself
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00:19:00
and pushing it down
and pushing it away.
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00:19:03
I came to this realization that
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God had given me this
gift and these talents,
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00:19:11
and maybe I had just been
using them the wrong way.
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00:19:15
God completely redeemed
that musical aspect of my life.
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But I would say the
biggest thing is since
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in that time period
that I started serving,
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I got baptized and I was
also able to baptize my wife.
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All because -- Sorry.
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All because I said yes.
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- What's up, man? - What's up?
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- Just seeing how you've
grown as a follower of Jesus,
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just you have just
grown exponentially
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by using your gifts to
lead others in worship.
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You're always looking
to build into people
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and to encourage them.
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And I just, I think
it's awesome.
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Thanks, man.
- Yeah.
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- That I had been --
that's a side of myself
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that I had pushed
down for a long time.
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And it really wasn't until
I met you on that plane
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that I started thinking about
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that this could
be a possibility.
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From walking in there
and having somebody
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like Mike who was
very invitational.
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To me you model
what it looks like
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to like serve through music.
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I never saw you say no.
You always said yes.
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That was a huge
inspiration to me because
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I was in that process
of saying yes.
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It's everything I
ever dreamed of
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when I was a young kid.
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00:20:33
It's the lights, it's
the fog and all that.
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But it's really like
knowing that you can be in
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a position where you're
submitting yourself to His will.
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00:20:49
You know, everybody's been given
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a unique gift by God
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00:20:53
and I think if you
just think about
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what that gift is and
how you can put it
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00:20:58
to work for His purposes,
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you just might be surprised
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00:21:02
at what He has in store for you.
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00:21:04
- Jay is a hero
who's been unlocked.
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Heroes are unlocked.
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00:21:12
Joseph Campbell,
who certainly coined
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or at least made the
phrase "the hero's journey"
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very, very popular,
he says this:
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Heroes are unlocked.
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Heroes aren't looking
for the fantasy life
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00:21:43
that's going to make
them well known.
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00:21:46
.08% of all high
school football players
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00:21:49
will get to the NFL.
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00:21:51
.03% of all high school
basketball players
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00:21:54
will get to the NBA.
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00:21:56
That's like nobody,
that's like nothing.
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00:21:57
And even those
ones that are there,
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they only last one or two years,
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00:22:00
and then often times
when they're done,
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00:22:02
they've made bad decisions
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00:22:03
and they have nothing
financially to show for it.
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00:22:05
They're not -- there's
nothing heroic about that.
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00:22:07
You can be heroic and
just view your grades
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00:22:11
and be in the NBA
and be in the NFL,
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00:22:14
but simply attaining
something like that
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00:22:17
doesn't mean it,
doesn't make it great.
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00:22:19
You've got to find
out who you are.
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00:22:22
You've got to
unlock who you are.
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00:22:24
And if you're not
6'5" and 250 pounds,
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00:22:27
you're probably
don't have a destiny
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00:22:28
as a professional
athlete in those areas.
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00:22:31
But you do have a
destiny in something
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that you could be great at.
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00:22:35
There is some way that God
has prepared you to be great,
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00:22:40
but you've got to
know what that is,
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00:22:42
you've got to get
unlocked from it.
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Unlocked to do it.
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00:22:49
Hopefully, you've gotten
one of these Journey guides,
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00:22:51
or you're going to get one.
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00:22:53
This is the thing
that takes us through
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00:22:55
this whole Journey,
it's a multi prong thing.
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00:23:00
I'm giving you information now.
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00:23:01
We're going to try to have
great creativity for you.
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00:23:04
We get in groups where
we can sharpen one another,
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00:23:07
be connected with one another.
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00:23:09
And then we also do
personal reflection work
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00:23:12
where we might be
able to get unlocked.
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00:23:14
And the very first part
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00:23:16
of the first section
of your guide,
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00:23:18
I just want to read it
for you. It says this:
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You'll experience a
full, exhilarating life
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00:23:24
when you spend yourself
on a worthy cause.
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00:23:27
But first, you need to discover
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00:23:30
what you've been given to spend.
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00:23:32
This week, we'll explore
the way God made you
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00:23:36
and get a first taste of
the bold, world-changing
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00:23:40
and surprisingly joyful
mission ahead of you.
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00:23:45
I love that line: Joyful
mission ahead, joyful.
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00:23:50
Being a hero isn't
an arduous thing.
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00:23:53
Being great isn't
painful necessarily.
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00:23:58
It's joyful because it's
in line with who you are.
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00:24:01
I am stunned, the more
I've submitted myself to God,
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00:24:05
the more I've connected
with other folks,
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00:24:06
the more I've tried to
have things inside of me
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00:24:09
that I didn't even know that
we're there get unlocked.
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00:24:12
Or the more I've just
unlocked myself from baggage
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00:24:16
and tradition and bad
ideas I used to have
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00:24:20
and bad values I used to
have or whatever it was,
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00:24:23
I am stunned by what
God is doing in my life
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00:24:27
and has done, utterly stunned.
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00:24:28
Every person who's
on the path to heroism
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00:24:31
or greatness is always
said, "I have been stunned.
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00:24:34
I would have never,
ever, ever seen it coming."
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00:24:37
And I haven't arrived
yet, by the way.
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00:24:39
I'm certainly not your model.
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00:24:41
I'm in this Journey
because I want more
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00:24:44
and I know you do.
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00:24:46
I know you want great.
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00:24:47
No one wants to go to the casket
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00:24:50
at the end of their
life and just say,
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00:24:52
"Man, well, I didn't make
any huge mistakes that life."
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00:24:55
No one wants to go to
the casket at the end of life
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00:24:57
and say, "Well, I'm really glad
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00:25:00
I read the Bible
every once around."
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00:25:01
No one wants to go
to their casket and say,
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00:25:04
"Well, I got a 3.0.
That's what I did."
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00:25:08
You and I want
to go to our casket
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00:25:09
because we had a great life,
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00:25:11
because our life mattered,
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00:25:13
because we were
submitted to God,
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00:25:14
because we poured
it out from the people,
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00:25:16
because we were
connecting with others
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00:25:17
and we were unlocked
to be the full version
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00:25:19
of who you and I are.
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00:25:21
That's what you're
going to get this Journey.
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00:25:23
Engage. Take it seriously.
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00:25:25
God, I ask You that You
would continue to teach us,
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00:25:29
mold us because
we want more of You
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00:25:31
and we want more the
life that You want for us.
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00:25:34
We pray these things in
your name, Jesus, Amen.
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00:25:40
Hey, songs can
often times drive home
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00:25:43
a deeper spiritual meaning
to solidify something in us.
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00:25:48
That's what this one is
going to do for you right now.
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00:29:46
- This is a game changer.
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00:29:47
The path to greatness
modeled by Jesus
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00:29:49
isn't about striving to get up.
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00:29:51
It's about getting down.
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00:29:53
Heroes use their gifts to serve.
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00:29:56
Heroes use their gifts to help
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00:29:58
and they don't do it alone.
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00:29:59
Next week on Crossroads
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00:30:00
we have an exciting
episode for you.
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00:30:02
And make sure you get the app.
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00:30:04
It's completely free and you
need it to do The Journey.
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00:30:06
See you next week!
Check this out!
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00:30:10
- Back in November
2019, I was church hopping.
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00:30:15
I went to a lot of churches.
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00:30:17
I felt like I didn't belong
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00:30:19
and threw my hands
up in the air and said,
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00:30:22
"I'm done, I'm not
doing this anymore."
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00:30:24
So I'm sitting at
my kitchen table
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00:30:26
and I had this
deep longing desire
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00:30:32
to be back in community.
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00:30:35
We're in the middle
of a pandemic.
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00:30:38
What am I going to do?
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00:30:39
I can't go anywhere.
Church is closed.
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00:30:42
I can't even go see
my family members.
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00:30:44
What am I going to do?
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00:30:46
I'm on Facebook and a
Crossroads Church ad came up,
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00:30:52
it was sponsored.
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00:30:53
So I clicked on the message
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00:30:56
that was on the Facebook
page and I listened to it.
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00:31:00
And I'm like, "Oh,
wow, this is pretty neat.
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00:31:03
This is pretty cool."
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00:31:04
I think it was in July of 2020
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00:31:08
where I kind of wanted
to have a little bit more,
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00:31:13
to be more in community.
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00:31:16
As I explored I was
really mesmerized
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00:31:22
just by the work of what
Crossroads was doing,
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00:31:26
that the church
members were giving
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00:31:29
and where that money was going.
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00:31:31
I loved seeing that
Masters of Disaster
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00:31:36
went to Texas to
help flooding victims,
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00:31:39
Puerto Rico to capture messages,
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00:31:43
when Crossroads
paid medical debt.
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00:31:46
I just started
giving financially.
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00:31:49
It's just so it really
makes me feel like
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00:31:52
I'm a part of the community,
even though it's online.
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00:31:57
It's just -- it's fantastic,
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00:31:59
and I don't know
how else to explain it,
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00:32:03
but with thanks giving.