The Step Every Follower Must Take

Jesus can do extraordinary things in your life. But, and this is a big but, it requires you wrestling with your own character flaws. Kyle explores tangible ways to relate to Jesus.

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    - Welcome to Crossroads.
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    I'm Andy and I'm so glad you've joined us today.
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    Every week we learn from a book in the Bible,
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    and today we're reading from
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    the book of Mark as a church together.
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    And specifically we're focusing in
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    on the idea of lines and circles.
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    Now, what do lines and circles
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    have to do with Jesus in the Bible?
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    Hey, we'll get there in just a little bit.
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    Right now we're going to spend some time worshiping together.
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    We believe the lyrics that we sing
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    are actual truths about God,
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    and that we can do this wherever you are,
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    whenever you're worshiping.
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    Let's do this together right now.
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    - Here's the story of His love for us.
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    - There's nothing more that I want for you today
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    than to hear the invitation of Jesus.
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    Listen. Listen to the circle
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    that He puts around all of us.
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    His words says this Jesus said,
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    "Who needs a doctor, the healthy or the sick?"
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    I'm here inviting outsiders, not insiders.
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    That's me. Anybody else?
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    An outsider, not an insider.
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    An invitation to a changed life.
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    Changed inside and out.
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    It's because Jesus has changed my life inside and out
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    that I'll sing these next words.
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    They're a response to His invitation
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    and it never grows tired.
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    When I forget it, I need to come back to it
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    and say, "Okay, every time we sing these words,
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    I'll throw my hands up.
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    Every time we sing these words, I'll throw my heart out.
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    And I'll put my voice out there and say,
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    'You're my king because of what You've done.'"
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    My response to Him.
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    - Jesus, I don't -- I don't attempt to--
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    I don't attempt to speak for everyone in this space.
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    But you are my king because You've changed my life,
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    because You've brought hope when there was hopelessness,
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    because You've healed things that were broken,
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    and because You keep inviting me in
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    to more and more life, more peace,
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    more strength, more perseverance.
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    All of it comes from You and I've found that to be true
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    and so You are my king. I praise You, Jesus, above all.
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    I do all this because of You. Amen.
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    So good. So good to be with you today.
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    Hey, that's not just a statement that's just
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    on a screen that many of us in this space just say.
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    I don't throw words around lightly in my life.
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    I don't throw those words around lightly.
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    So my decisions, my choices, my actions,
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    I want all of it to say He's my king.
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    Not perfect, not at all.
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    But that's where I'm aiming my life at.
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    And my wife and I, my family, we do that also with our wallets.
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    So we say, I want my money to be where my heart is
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    and You're my King, so You can have it.
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    We put our money to His work, not ours.
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    And we do that at Crossroads.net/give.
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    great. You're in the right place.
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    Don't worry about that.
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    But if you're saying Jesus is my King,
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    it shows up also at crossroads.net/give. Right?
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    make your way back to your seats.
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    and rolling hills, a less visible
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    but profound struggle unfolds,
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    a battle against poverty and educational disparities.
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    Post-apartheid, deep rooted inequalities
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    have created two drastically different worlds
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    for children inside the country
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    when it comes to access to education
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    and basic necessities.
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    - Amid these challenges,
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    hope shines through groups like Build the Future.
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    - Transforming communities and bringing
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    lasting change to children's lives
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    by helping make their dreams of bright futures accessible.
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    Crossroads partnership with Build the Future
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    ensures funds for education and the aid
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    of thousands of volunteers coming alongside
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    these communities, fighting for the future
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    of South Africa's youth.
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    As South Africa transforms, we stand by these children.
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    Every child deserves a chance to learn,
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    grow, and reach their potential.
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    Investing in their education means investing in
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    a brighter, more inclusive South Africa
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    for generations to come.
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    - For over two decades, God has called Crossroads
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    to go and change the world.
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    When it comes to solving the really big problems
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    of injustice, poverty, and exploitation,
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    people often think that someone else will step in.
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    Well, hey, congrats! Your name is someone else.
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    We believe that the church, and not just Crossroads,
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    but the church everywhere, is God's plan
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    for restoration and healing. That's why we go.
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    And serving others is one of what we call
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    seven proven practices that lead to growth.
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    The work including aiding vulnerable children,
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    at risk communities, and exploited individuals,
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    it's always done in partnership with organizations
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    local to that area that understand
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    how to implement sustainable change.
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    You can check out all of our Go Trips,
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    both global and domestic to the US
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    at crossroads.net/Trips.
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    This really is an invitation
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    to step into an adventure with God,
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    to be a part of changing someone's life,
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    and it might even change your own life.
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    Now, today begins our first week going through the book of Mark.
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    We'll see in Mark that Jesus was really good
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    at drawing lines, or put another way,
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    providing clarity between two different viewpoints.
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    Jesus was all about challenging people
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    to something better, asking them
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    to cross over the lines into His Kingdom.
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    And it's always through an invitation
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    to anyone that's interested.
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    - Some of us see lines as divisive,
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    limiting and restrictive.
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    Others see lines and think, "Sweet.
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    Now we know exactly where to go and what to do."
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    In their purest form, lines provide clarity
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    about the space between two points.
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    What if I told you that
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    Jesus was really good at drawing lines?
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    He was all about challenging people to something better.
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    Jesus constantly challenges people
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    to step over the line, to receive more.
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    When we choose to step over the line Jesus draws,
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    we are stepping into more of His goodness.
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    Circles, on the other hand, they're just lines that curve.
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    A circle shows us
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    where the energy is concentrated in the middle.
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    A circle surrounds and identifies what is valued.
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    Everyone wants to feel valued and known.
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    All throughout history, Jesus has been weaponized
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    or minimized by people who want Him to fit into
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    their circle, club, or the in-crowd.
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    Jesus drew His own circle, and it turns out
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    it was bigger than anyone could have ever expected.
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    Whether you resonate more with lines or circles,
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    Jesus calls you
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    to step into more of His concentrated goodness.
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    Jesus wants all of us to step over the line
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    into His giant circle.
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    - Well, hey, just like that video said,
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    today we are starting a new series in the book of Mark
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    and looking about how Jesus drew circles and lines.
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    If we've never met, I'm our Lead Pastor, Kyle.
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    I also did lose the Super Bowl of Preaching this weekend.
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    Uh, just in case you were there, for the record,
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    for the record, we did six of them live,
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    and me and Alli and Hannah, we actually won three of them.
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    It's just the one that went online is the one where we lost,
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    which my kids were very disappointed about.
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    I came home and they were like, "Did -- dad, did you win?"
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    I was like, "No." And they're like, "Well, why not?"
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    I was like, "Hey, relax, kids, relax."
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    Speaking of kids, I know a lot of people I feel like
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    right now who are about to have their first kid.
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    Anybody else know somebody expecting,
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    about to become a new parent for the very first time?
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    It's a very exciting time to become a parent
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    for the very first time.
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    You know, a lot of people will tell you
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    you need to grow and expand in things like love and patience.
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    And those people are right,
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    but they're hiding half the truth from you
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    because there are other things
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    you're going to need to grow and expand in.
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    For instance, your hostage negotiation skills
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    will have to go up if you want to be a good parent.
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    Another skill you're going to need to improve, lying.
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    You're going to have to get way better at lying
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    if you want to be an effective parent.
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    You're like, "Really, lying?" Yes, lying.
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    Here's what's going to happen.
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    Your kid at some point is going to draw you a picture,
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    and they're going to walk up to you
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    with that picture like it's the Mona Lisa.
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    Go, "Look, isn't it great?"
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    And in that moment, your words, your face,
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    your body, everything is going to have to lie
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    and go, "Yeah, wow, that's great."
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    My kids are walking up to me with things
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    that they've drawn, you know, like, "Daddy, look at this."
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    I go, "Oh wow. What -- What is it?" You know?
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    And they say guess. And this is the part I'd always hate.
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    Like, "Guess. Okay. Um, to be honest,
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    it looks like a rabid grizzly bear
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    eating a horse made of spaghetti. Is that what it is?"
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    They're like, "No, it's a picture of mommy."
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    Like, "Oh. Okay, let's not ever show it to her.
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    That's not gonna -- That's just.
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    It's so good, you know? You can't show it to her."
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    That's kids. It's amazing.
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    One of my favorite Instagram accounts
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    is this guy who takes pictures of his kids' drawings
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    and then makes them into realistic images like this one.
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    I don't know if that's a sheep or a llama.
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    I'm not entirely sure. That's amazing.
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    That I think is a squirrel.
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    I don't know, very realistic. Giraffe. Great.
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    You can practice right now. Wow. It's great.
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    Just practice. You've got to practice your lying.
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    That's a bird, I think. Um, I'm not sure.
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    And then that's the Mona Lisa.
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    That's what their drawings look like.
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    It's amazing. It is very funny. Right?
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    When a kid hands you a drawing, it's very, very funny.
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    You can't -- You can't understand what it is.
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    You don't know what it's supposed to be.
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    But there's a deep truth in here that I want us to see.
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    It's this: It is very possible to look at
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    a picture that someone has drawn
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    and not see what they intended you to see,
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    and this is actually what happens
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    for a lot of us with Jesus.
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    Jesus draws pictures with words
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    and we don't see what He intended us to see.
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    And when this happens, the problem is
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    we don't just miss the words that He said,
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    we miss who He is and who He says that we are.
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    It's a tragedy to miss what He's saying. It's tragedy.
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    Now to understand what His words are,
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    we have them recorded, they're in
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    the four authorized biographies of His life:
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    Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.
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    That's where we can get His words.
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    And the key to understanding them,
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    the key to understanding the pictures He's drawing
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    is what you've heard and saw in the video just a minute ago.
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    It's this: Jesus always draws circles and lines,
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    always together, circles and lines.
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    What's a circle? A circle is an invitation to belong.
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    It's a gift. Oh, come in here. Belong.
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    You're welcome here. That's the circle.
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    And a line is a line of demarcation,
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    like a line in the sand.
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    As in cross the line or go no further.
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    Another way to think about it is His grace and truth.
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    Grace is the circle. Welcome.
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    Let me give you more than you deserve.
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    And truth is the line.
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    Here's a truth you must face and agree with,
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    or you can go no further.
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    Now, in our culture, most of us, we tend to be
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    either a grace or a truth person.
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    Think about yourself at work.
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    Maybe you're a manager at work.
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    How would you know if you're a grace or truth person?
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    Well, are you the kind of manager
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    who struggles to give your employees candid feedback?
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    Like they really messed up and you want to tell them,
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    but you don't want to hurt their feelings.
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    You're just going to cut the corners a little bit.
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    Are you a parent who struggles to discipline your kids?
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    You might be somebody who errs towards the grace side.
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    Or maybe you're on the other side of the equation.
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    You're the manager who's like, "Everybody works for me
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    knows exactly what I think of them.
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    I always like I'm tough."
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    Okay, well, you might want to encourage sometimes.
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    You might be on the truth side of the spectrum.
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    See, every one of us defaults to one or the other.
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    But part of what makes Jesus in His Words
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    and the pictures He draws so unique is that
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    He came full of both grace and truth,
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    not deficient in any way.
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    This is from John 1:14:
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    And the word became flesh, that's Jesus,
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    and dwelt among us and we beheld His glory,
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    the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,
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    full, full of grace and truth.
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    This is where the idea of this series stems from.
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    I heard somebody say a few months ago,
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    they made a comment like, you know,
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    "Jesus drew circles, not lines."
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    And I thought, "No, no, he didn't. He he drew --
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    He drew both, He drew both."
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    But see, this kind of view of Jesus, I think,
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    is becoming increasingly common for a reason.
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    It's because we increasingly live in a sound bite culture.
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    Everything's a sound bite.
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    Think about the last time you actually clicked
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    on an article online and you read the whole thing.
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    I couldn't tell you. I read the headline.
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    I read the first sentence, I skip down,
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    I read some stuff, I skip to the bottom,
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    and then I'm on to the next one.
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    This is how -- this is how we digest stuff.
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    And what it leads to is misjudgments,
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    half baked hot takes, and missing the true story.
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    We have an epidemic of an attention span
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    that is being eroded and eroded and eroded away.
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    And I think we're all generally aware of this,
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    but did a little bit of research to kind of study
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    about how it's been changing,
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    because it feels like it's changing faster than ever.
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    And the truth is that it it is.
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    You take social media, for instance, best practice
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    for making a social media video
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    only a couple years ago was measured in minutes.
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    How many minutes did you want the video to be?
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    Well, now best practice is measured in seconds.
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    In fact, the people who are best at doing TikTok
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    will tell you that the best length for
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    a TikTok video is between 10 and 15 seconds. That's it.
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    The National Institute of Health recently
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    named a new condition, it's called TikTok use disorder.
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    There was a study, it's a real one.
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    It's actually in there. You can go look it up.
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    It does not take much Googling to find these stats.
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    It does not.
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    There is a study that came out that kind
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    of put some numbers and quantified
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    to what is TikTok use disorder,
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    how is it eroding attention span.
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    And what it found is that for teenagers who use TikTok,
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    their average attention span is nine seconds.
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    That's the longest they can hold attention.
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    Now, for teenagers who don't use TikTok,
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    the average attention span isn't a whole lot better,
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    it's about 12 seconds.
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    And before we make this about somebody who's not us,
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    let me just say all of us are in this boat.
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    I'm not immune. I live in the same culture.
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    I might not digest TikTok all day long,
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    but I love me some YouTube reels. It's the same thing.
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    It's the same thing, everybody.
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    Like I watch Instagram. Same thing. It's the same thing.
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    And the problem is that we take
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    this 21st century attention span and we apply it
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    to the life of Jesus and the words that He has in Scripture.
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    We are doomed, doomed if we take that approach
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    to try to understand Him, we never, ever will.
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    At best, we'll get a part of the picture.
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    At best, we might glimpse a little bit of grace,
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    but not even all grace, and completely missed truth.
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    Or at best, we might glimpse just a little bit of truth,
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    but not even the whole truth, and never even touch grace.
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    And so we have to do, if we want to understand
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    the way that Jesus describes life and reality
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    and what we're made for and what He thinks about us,
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    we have to slow down so much.
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    And that's what we're doing in this series.
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    We're slowing down to take a look at the life of Jesus
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    and the gospel of Mark, how he described
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    that the way that it works, because we want you to know,
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    I want to know and follow the real Jesus.
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    Not a picture that I imagined, not a fake version,
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    but the real version of Jesus.
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    And before we go further, let's pray that
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    that happens for all of us a little more today.
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    God, I'm asking that You'd show up,
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    You'd give me Your Words to speak and that all of us
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    would move a step closer to you today. Amen, Amen.
  • 00:32:50
    So we are in the book of Mark.
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    A great question to start with is
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    who wrote the book of Mark?
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    What do you think? Not -- a guy named Mark.
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    Not a guy named Steve? Doug? Any Doug, votes for Dougs?
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    What about John? Anybody votes for John?
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    Anybody? What do you think? Sticking with Mark?
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    Okay, we're I'm hearing with sticking Mark.
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    Um, actually you're wrong. It was John.
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    I'm not even kidding.
  • 00:33:17
    The author of the book of Mark is a guy named John
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    who has a secondary name, Mark.
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    He's a guy who is not one of the 12 apostles.
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    He shows up later in the New Testament in the book of Acts.
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    Here's the first time he appears, Acts 12:11 says:
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    Why? Why does he have two names? I have no idea.
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    Let me warn you today that we're going to encounter
  • 00:33:48
    several characters who are AKAs.
  • 00:33:50
    Not the sorority, but people who have multiple names.
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    It's going to happen a couple more times.
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    He's John, also called Mark.
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    Now, he was not an eyewitness of Jesus's life.
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    He wasn't one of the 12 apostles.
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    He's somebody who heard about His life second hand
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    from the apostle Peter,
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    who was one of Jesus's three closest friends.
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    And so when we read the book of Mark,
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    I want you to know that what you're reading
  • 00:34:15
    is what John Mark wrote down from
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    Peter's first hand eyewitness account of Jesus.
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    Now, Mark is significant in that it's also,
  • 00:34:25
    historians agree on this, was the earliest recorded gospel.
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    And so as we're in this series,
  • 00:34:31
    as we're reading these words today,
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    I want you to know that these are
  • 00:34:34
    the earliest recorded sayings and instructions of Jesus.
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    And so we're going to look at and start with
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    the earliest written instruction that Jesus ever gave.
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    It's exactly six words long, and it comes from Mark 1:15.
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    These are the six words Jesus said:
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    repent and believe the good news.
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    He gives a line in a circle.
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    His first teaching, by the way,
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    is the spine of every single teaching He ever gives
  • 00:35:06
    forever after, a line and a circle,
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    repent and believe the good news.
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    And the line is the word repent.
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    It's metanoeo in Greek, and what it literally means
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    is to change one's mind.
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    That happens when you and I walk up to a line of truth,
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    we're going along our day and we're just coming along,
  • 00:35:25
    and we go, "Whoa, okay, that's -- that's not what I thought."
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    And what it means to repent, to change your mind,
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    is to go, "Okay, I've been wrong,"
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    which means I believed a lie
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    and crossed the line of truth,
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    having adopted it into your mind.
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    That's what it means.
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    And the circle is believe the Good News.
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    Now, if you go through the Greek of Good News,
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    it's euangelion, and what it means is
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    a reward for good tidings, a reward for Good News.
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    See, believing the Good News actually has a reward to it.
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    When you cross the line and you say yes to the new truth,
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    what happens is there's a reward.
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    There's a circle that happens in your life,
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    there's a new grace given to you,
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    there's new experiences that you can have.
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    There's new favor that God puts on your life
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    after you cross the line, repent and believe the Good News.
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    Now there is a first time, there's a first time
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    in your life where this will happen for you,
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    where you'll cross the line of faith.
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    You'll say, "Jesus, yes, I do believe
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    that You are who You say You are."
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    And in that moment you'll step
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    into the circle of the family of God.
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    There's a first time, but this is not, not, not
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    a one time instruction.
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    The call of Jesus isn't repent and believe
  • 00:36:33
    the Good News once, when you were five or 15 or 25.
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    No, this is a daily active thing.
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    Every day repent, every day believe the Good News.
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    The life of following Jesus is the life
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    of constantly, constantly, constantly being brought
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    to new lines and invited into new circles.
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    That's the way that it goes. We'll never stop.
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    Now, when you read Mark, you'll see this.
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    And that's our hope is to help you
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    see these circles and these lines.
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    Let's take, for instance, just to start off with
  • 00:37:05
    the calling of Peter himself, who, by the way,
  • 00:37:09
    is another dude with two names.
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    I'm going to read you, you're going to see the word,
  • 00:37:13
    the name Simon, it's Simon Peter.
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    Why does he have two names? I don't know.
  • 00:37:17
    I think Jesus gave him Peter later on as a nickname.
  • 00:37:20
    It's still like two first names. I don't get it.
  • 00:37:22
    But there we go. He's a two name guy.
  • 00:37:24
    This is his re-counting of his own calling from Jesus
  • 00:37:29
    as told to John Mark. Mark 1:16 it says:
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    As He, that's Jesus, walked by the Sea of Galilee
  • 00:37:34
    He saw Simon and Andrew, his brother,
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    casting a net into the sea, for they were fishermen.
  • 00:37:38
    Then Jesus said to them, "Follow Me," that's a line,
  • 00:37:42
    "and I will make you become fishers of men."
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    That's a circle.
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    They immediately left their nets and followed Him.
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    Now follow me is a line, because it's a moment of truth.
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    When you walk up to follow me,
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    what's required to cross it is to believe and go,
  • 00:37:56
    "Oh my gosh, follow You? I've been following me.
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    I've been living a self-directed life."
  • 00:38:03
    And the truth you must embrace is
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    "I'm not the best person to lead my life.
  • 00:38:07
    I better follow Him. I think he is."
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    And what Simon does is he crosses the line
  • 00:38:13
    and starts following Jesus.
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    And when he does that, he's invited into the circle
  • 00:38:17
    to become something more than he was.
  • 00:38:19
    He was just a normal fisherman
  • 00:38:21
    working on a normal fishing boat,
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    bringing in a normal catch.
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    And Jesus says, "I'm going to make you more than that.
  • 00:38:29
    I'm going to make you something
  • 00:38:30
    you can't even possibly imagine."
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    Later on, He says to Peter, He says,
  • 00:38:34
    "Upon this rock I will found My church."
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    Peter, by the way, means rock, little, little rock.
  • 00:38:39
    He gives him this amazing position. Amazing position.
  • 00:38:44
    Now there is a line here, right?
  • 00:38:46
    If you look in the life of Jesus
  • 00:38:48
    when He calls His disciples, He always starts this way.
  • 00:38:50
    He says, "Follow me," and they have a decision to make.
  • 00:38:53
    What we don't know is how many people He said follow me to.
  • 00:38:58
    It was probably more than 12.
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    What we know is that people who followed H
  • 00:39:03
    im, their lives changed.
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    What we don't know is the people who did not cross the line.
  • 00:39:10
    Now, the other story we're going to look at
  • 00:39:12
    for the rest of our time is our last
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    two named character to introduce for the day.
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    Thank goodness. His name is Levi, AKA, Matthew.
  • 00:39:21
    And right after John Mark records
  • 00:39:24
    Simon and Andrew's following of Jesus,
  • 00:39:27
    he records what happens with Levi.
  • 00:39:30
    He says this in Mark 2, he says:
  • 00:39:32
    Once again Jesus went out beside the lake.
  • 00:39:34
    A large crowd came to Him and He began to teach them.
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    As He walked along, He saw Levi, son of Alphaeus,
  • 00:39:40
    sitting at the tax collector's booth.
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    That was his profession.
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    He was a tax collector, which was not a good thing.
  • 00:39:46
    Okay, not not great.
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    Right now you're like, "I don't want to admit
  • 00:39:49
    that I work at the IRS."
  • 00:39:50
    Yeah, it was way worse than that.
  • 00:39:52
    It was so much worse, he's a tax collector.
  • 00:39:54
    "Follow me," Jesus told him,
  • 00:39:57
    and Levi got up and followed Him.
  • 00:39:59
    He draws the line. Will you follow Me?
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    Will you admit that you're not the one to lead your life?
  • 00:40:03
    And Levi crosses the line and follows Him.
  • 00:40:06
    And the next thing that happens
  • 00:40:08
    is Jesus goes to Levi's house.
  • 00:40:11
    And Levi has this party, seemingly.
  • 00:40:12
    There's all these people there.
  • 00:40:14
    It's a lot of tax collectors and sinners.
  • 00:40:16
    It says this in Mark 2:15:
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    While Jesus was having dinner at Levi's house,
  • 00:40:20
    many tax collectors and sinners
  • 00:40:22
    were eating with Him and His disciples,
  • 00:40:24
    for there was many who followed Him.
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    Basically, what happens is Jesus shows up
  • 00:40:29
    and he, oh, there it is. Here we go.
  • 00:40:32
    He invites them all to a table. It's an open table.
  • 00:40:35
    Now, at this moment, just to be really clear,
  • 00:40:38
    this is a circle where Jesus sits with people
  • 00:40:41
    who, when you're a rabbi, you're not supposed to be around.
  • 00:40:44
    You don't want to be around the sinners
  • 00:40:46
    and the tax collectors.
  • 00:40:47
    That's not where you're supposed to be.
  • 00:40:48
    But Jesus invites them in.
  • 00:40:50
    It's a circle of sorts.
  • 00:40:51
    This is the kind of church, by the way,
  • 00:40:54
    that we aspire to be, this kind of place
  • 00:40:56
    that we say this often,
  • 00:40:58
    and I'll never get tired of saying it
  • 00:40:59
    because it's so true.
  • 00:41:00
    No matter who you are, no matter what you believe
  • 00:41:03
    about God or church or any of it, you are welcome here.
  • 00:41:07
    That's basically the moment with Jesus.
  • 00:41:10
    They get to enjoy Him. They get to be around Him.
  • 00:41:12
    We are such a "you're welcome here church"
  • 00:41:15
    that it oftentimes makes other churches uncomfortable,
  • 00:41:18
    other Christians uncomfortable.
  • 00:41:20
    Earlier you heard about the opportunity
  • 00:41:22
    to go on a Go Trip. That's a mission trip.
  • 00:41:24
    Now for most churches to go on a mission trip,
  • 00:41:27
    you have to have crossed the line of faith
  • 00:41:30
    that Jesus is who He says H
  • 00:41:31
    e is. But at Crossroads we say, "No, man,
  • 00:41:33
    your motivation for going to serve
  • 00:41:35
    might be different than mine, because I believe
  • 00:41:37
    Jesus called me to go love my neighbor as myself.
  • 00:41:40
    That's why I go. He called me to change the world.
  • 00:41:42
    That's why. You might have a different motivation,
  • 00:41:45
    but if you want to go, man, you're welcome.
  • 00:41:47
    You truly are.
  • 00:41:49
    But I want to be abundantly clear
  • 00:41:51
    because you can sit in this auditorium,
  • 00:41:53
    or you can sit at home and watch these videos
  • 00:41:55
    for years and years and years,
  • 00:41:58
    and you can walk up to the line of faith
  • 00:41:59
    and believing Jesus is who He says He is,
  • 00:42:01
    and it's possible to never cross it.
  • 00:42:03
    And I just want you to know,
  • 00:42:04
    while we are so excited that you're here,
  • 00:42:07
    there is so much more for you that you will not get
  • 00:42:10
    if you never cross the line.
  • 00:42:12
    There's more in the family of God
  • 00:42:14
    that you will not enjoy, that you won't experience
  • 00:42:17
    if you never cross the line.
  • 00:42:19
    This place is built for you to come to the table
  • 00:42:21
    and step into the family of God.
  • 00:42:23
    That's the good news. That's the good news.
  • 00:42:26
    See, when you when you join the family of God,
  • 00:42:28
    you have a place at God's table forever.
  • 00:42:31
    It's actually a place you can never, ever lose,
  • 00:42:34
    which, by the way, makes it different
  • 00:42:36
    than the kind of circles that the world draws.
  • 00:42:38
    Because the world draws circles and lines.
  • 00:42:41
    Now, in the world circles, you have to do
  • 00:42:44
    the right things to maintain your place at the table,
  • 00:42:46
    to stay in good standing.
  • 00:42:48
    Sometimes it's literally as simple as
  • 00:42:49
    you got to keep paying your membership dues,
  • 00:42:51
    and if you don't, you're kicked out of the club.
  • 00:42:54
    Sometimes it's you got to maintain the right beliefs
  • 00:42:56
    or the right behaviors, the right actions
  • 00:42:57
    or the right attitudes, otherwise you get fired.
  • 00:43:00
    You get kicked out. You're no longer one of us.
  • 00:43:02
    This is how the world's circles work.
  • 00:43:05
    But Jesus has a different kind of circle.
  • 00:43:07
    It's one in which no matter what you do,
  • 00:43:09
    you always have a spot.
  • 00:43:11
    You don't have to earn and maintain your identity.
  • 00:43:14
    And the reason for this is because
  • 00:43:16
    God the Father's grace is very different
  • 00:43:19
    than us earthly fathers and our grace.
  • 00:43:22
    Which brings me back to being a parent.
  • 00:43:24
    As a father, I've experienced some things,
  • 00:43:28
    and I oftentimes will hear new fathers to be
  • 00:43:32
    or parents who are thinking they'll do things
  • 00:43:34
    that seem critical to me.
  • 00:43:35
    We've all been in the moment, right,
  • 00:43:37
    where we've been out to dinner and our kids are going crazy.
  • 00:43:39
    And us veteran parents, what do we do?
  • 00:43:42
    We hand them our phone. "Here you go, kid. Calm down."
  • 00:43:47
    And sometimes I'll spy somebody in the corner of my eye.
  • 00:43:49
    And, you know, just maybe I'm making it up,
  • 00:43:51
    but it feels like brand new parent
  • 00:43:52
    who's looking at me, judging me with a thought
  • 00:43:54
    in their mind that when they have kids,
  • 00:43:57
    they're not going to do screens.
  • 00:43:59
    And if that's your goal, that's awesome.
  • 00:44:02
    That's so -- I don't mean to poo-poo on your goal.
  • 00:44:04
    I find it so cute and naive. There's just --
  • 00:44:10
    That's okay. There's something you don't know yet
  • 00:44:12
    about the universe and I'll share it with you.
  • 00:44:14
    It's that screens aren't screens.
  • 00:44:16
    Screens are free babysitters. That's what they are.
  • 00:44:19
    Screens are like wine for kids.
  • 00:44:22
    You know how wine calms you down, that's what --
  • 00:44:25
    That's what a screen is.
  • 00:44:26
    And you could give your kid wine,
  • 00:44:28
    but the parent protective services
  • 00:44:30
    would probably be called on you.
  • 00:44:32
    So you give them screens.
  • 00:44:34
    Another thing I think new parents imagine
  • 00:44:36
    is that bedtime will be awesome. You know?
  • 00:44:39
    Kids thrive on routine
  • 00:44:40
    and so we're going to have the best routine.
  • 00:44:42
    We're going to light a candle at 7:00.
  • 00:44:45
    We're going to sing a little song.
  • 00:44:47
    It's going to be beauty.
  • 00:44:48
    It's going to be like the Von Trapp family.
  • 00:44:49
    It's going to be like this when they go to bed it's going to --
  • 00:44:52
    - So long. Farewell. Auf Wiedersehen. Good night.
  • 00:44:56
    - I hate to go and leave this pretty sight.
  • 00:45:02
    - That's what it's gonna be, right?
  • 00:45:03
    That's what you think?
  • 00:45:05
    You want to know what's actually like?
  • 00:45:08
    It's like this. Those little monsters.
  • 00:45:11
    - All right, come on, come on. Get on my back.
  • 00:45:13
    - Trying to get him in there.
  • 00:45:15
    You're just trying to get him upstairs.
  • 00:45:18
    And they're just fighting and clawing
  • 00:45:19
    with everything they got.
  • 00:45:21
    That's what it's like, wrestling a lion.
  • 00:45:23
    That's what it's like.
  • 00:45:25
    I've been a parent for 13 years.
  • 00:45:27
    Every single night, bedtime is like
  • 00:45:31
    it's my kids' first time ever doing it, you know?
  • 00:45:34
    First time. That's that's their general attitude.
  • 00:45:36
    They're like, "Hey, dad, relax. It's our first time.
  • 00:45:39
    And we're new at this."
  • 00:45:41
    I'm like, "Okay, no, we're not. We're not new at this.
  • 00:45:43
    We're not new at this."
  • 00:45:44
    There are exactly three rules to Ranson bedtime.
  • 00:45:48
    They have always been the same.
  • 00:45:49
    They have never changed. They are these:
  • 00:45:52
    Rule 1: go upstairs.
  • 00:45:54
    Rule 2: Stay there.
  • 00:45:57
    Rule 3: You may only come out of your room
  • 00:46:00
    if you have to pee or have an emergency.
  • 00:46:04
    Qualifier: An emergency is not
  • 00:46:07
    I have an urgent question about koala bears.
  • 00:46:09
    I need -- no, that can wait till tomorrow.
  • 00:46:12
    Actually, we're fine.
  • 00:46:13
    An emergency is I am actively and profusely bleeding.
  • 00:46:16
    If that happens, you may come out of your room.
  • 00:46:19
    Otherwise, go upstairs and stay there.
  • 00:46:22
    These are the rules.
  • 00:46:23
    But every single night, they don't do it.
  • 00:46:26
    Every single night they don't do it.
  • 00:46:27
    And as a parent, at some point,
  • 00:46:28
    all of us would just have enough, right?
  • 00:46:30
    We just sort of run out of patience,
  • 00:46:32
    run out of grace, run out of mercy for them.
  • 00:46:34
    Why? It's because we have human mercy.
  • 00:46:38
    Human mercy is something like a pie, you know,
  • 00:46:41
    imagine a pie. This is mercy right there.
  • 00:46:45
    Let's say it's apple.
  • 00:46:46
    And the basic experience is that
  • 00:46:48
    your kids do something you don't like.
  • 00:46:51
    And so you cut off a piece of the pie
  • 00:46:53
    and you give it to them, and then you put the pie away.
  • 00:46:56
    And then the next day they do the same exact thing.
  • 00:46:59
    So you cut off a piece of the pie
  • 00:47:00
    and you give it to them, and you put the pie away.
  • 00:47:03
    And again and again, day after day,
  • 00:47:05
    after doing this again and again and again,
  • 00:47:07
    what you're left with is this:
  • 00:47:09
    a bunch of sticky goo and nothing, nothing, nothing.
  • 00:47:13
    This is the human experience of giving grace.
  • 00:47:17
    But God is very, very different than this.
  • 00:47:20
    God's grace never runs out. Lamentations 3:22 says:
  • 00:47:24
    The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases;
  • 00:47:28
    His mercies never come to an end;
  • 00:47:30
    They are new, new every single morning.
  • 00:47:34
    Great is your faithfulness. What does this mean?
  • 00:47:37
    It means that when God gives mercy,
  • 00:47:39
    God comes out and He's like, "Okay, here you go.
  • 00:47:43
    You need some mercy? All right, here you go.
  • 00:47:45
    You messed up. There's some grace for your day."
  • 00:47:47
    Awesome, pie goes back in.
  • 00:47:50
    Next day, pie comes back out. Pie is whole.
  • 00:47:52
    This is mercy. Every single day.
  • 00:47:57
    See, I think there's something to us
  • 00:47:59
    who've been following God for so long,
  • 00:48:01
    we think we've understood all there is to understand of grace.
  • 00:48:04
    We think we've received all the grace we can possibly receive.
  • 00:48:07
    That at some point, God must get sick of us.
  • 00:48:09
    I felt this way as a dad and I made a joke about it.
  • 00:48:12
    But man, sometimes I just get so mad at my kids
  • 00:48:14
    and so angry and I've been trying to work on anger
  • 00:48:16
    and trying to get better.
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    And I see some growth and I see some some progress.
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    But some days I'm just like,
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    "God, you must be sick of me as a dad.
  • 00:48:23
    You must just want to give up on me."
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    Yet every single day God goes, "No, man.
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    It's a brand new mercy. Brand new mercy."
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    You know that God is love, you've heard that before?
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    That's from the book of 1 John, by the way.
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    It says God is love.
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    If you go to 1 Corinthians 13, it describes God as love.
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    You know what it says about Him?
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    It says that love/God keeps no record of wrongs.
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    Fresh baked mercy, day after day after day after day.
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    That's what you get when you cross the line.
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    Let me be really clear, you don't get it
  • 00:48:57
    if you don't cross the line, you have to cross the line.
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    Crossing the line is to face the truth,
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    the truth about who you are,
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    the truth about who God says you are
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    is to face the truth.
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    Now, at that same dinner party where they were eating
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    with the tax collectors and the sinners,
  • 00:49:12
    it's Jesus and Matthew. They're all hanging out.
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    These Pharisees show up.
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    These are the guys who are anti-Jesus.
  • 00:49:17
    They think He's crazy.
  • 00:49:19
    "How could you ever eat with tax collectors and sinners?"
  • 00:49:21
    They say stuff like that.
  • 00:49:22
    They're the self-righteous people.
  • 00:49:24
    And this is Jesus's response to them, Mark 2:17:
  • 00:49:27
    On hearing this, Jesus said to them,
  • 00:49:29
    "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick.
  • 00:49:34
    I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners."
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    Jesus throws two lines at them that are the same.
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    He goes, "Look, man, I'm a doctor
  • 00:49:43
    and I'm here for sick people.
  • 00:49:45
    And if that's not how you identify,
  • 00:49:47
    then I guess I'm not for you.
  • 00:49:48
    Hey, look I'm here for sinners.
  • 00:49:50
    If that's not how you identify,
  • 00:49:51
    then I guess I'm not here for you."
  • 00:49:53
    See, the line is really clear:
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    to get the doctor's help, you must admit that you are sick.
  • 00:49:59
    To get Grace, you have to admit that you are a sinner.
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    And some of us who get up to the line and we balk at it.
  • 00:50:07
    We balk at the line.
  • 00:50:09
    Now the world also has lines. The world has lines,
  • 00:50:12
    but the world's lines are different than God's lines.
  • 00:50:15
    And I think sometimes we look at God's lines
  • 00:50:17
    and we apply the world's standards and practices to them.
  • 00:50:20
    And it gets very confusing and it makes us not like the line.
  • 00:50:23
    Why? Well, it's because the world draws lines
  • 00:50:26
    that are very exclusive that some of us just can't cross.
  • 00:50:30
    That's the lines the world draws.
  • 00:50:32
    You got to have the right resume.
  • 00:50:34
    You got to have the right GPA to get in.
  • 00:50:36
    Got to have the right background, the right pedigree,
  • 00:50:38
    the right skin color, the right voting record,
  • 00:50:40
    the right whatever, you got to have the right something.
  • 00:50:43
    And some of us are just totally excluded.
  • 00:50:46
    I learned a few years ago about a practice called redlining.
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    You can look this up. This is a historical fact.
  • 00:50:51
    It started in 1935.
  • 00:50:53
    The Federal Home Loan Bank board basically set out,
  • 00:50:57
    and they commissioned a team to go out
  • 00:50:59
    and look at the top 239 most populous cities
  • 00:51:03
    in the United States.
  • 00:51:04
    So basically every city of any size and go outline
  • 00:51:07
    all of the neighborhoods inside each of those cities
  • 00:51:10
    and rank them based on their risk to give a loan.
  • 00:51:14
    And they did this. They did four tiers.
  • 00:51:16
    There was green, blue, yellow, and red.
  • 00:51:18
    Red was the lowest. If you lived in a red zone,
  • 00:51:20
    you were not going to get a loan.
  • 00:51:22
    You were too risky.
  • 00:51:23
    Do you know that only six African American neighborhoods
  • 00:51:26
    in the entire United States were not redlined?
  • 00:51:30
    And you might hear that and go like, "That's crazy."
  • 00:51:32
    You can look it up. And you might go, "That's impossible."
  • 00:51:36
    Is it? This is what the world does.
  • 00:51:38
    The world draws lines that exclude some of us.
  • 00:51:42
    But Jesus's lines are the opposite.
  • 00:51:45
    Jesus's lines are inclusive lines. Why?
  • 00:51:48
    Because anybody can cross it.
  • 00:51:50
    Anybody from slave to king, and the cost is the same.
  • 00:51:54
    I believe You are who You say You are.
  • 00:51:56
    That's all it takes. I believe I'm a sinner.
  • 00:51:59
    I believe I'm sick. That's all it takes to cross the lines.
  • 00:52:02
    Jesus invites every single one of us across.
  • 00:52:05
    The question is, will you cross? Will you cross it?
  • 00:52:10
    Now, I think the other reason we kind of rebuff
  • 00:52:13
    against these lines is we live in a truth avoidance culture.
  • 00:52:16
    We don't we don't like the truth a whole lot.
  • 00:52:18
    It scares us. We don't love it.
  • 00:52:20
    Now, an unwillingness to face truth,
  • 00:52:22
    just so we're clear, won't just hold you back spiritually.
  • 00:52:25
    It will hold you back in every area of your life.
  • 00:52:28
    I was reading a shareholder letter
  • 00:52:30
    that Jeff Bezos wrote a number of years ago.
  • 00:52:32
    And he talked about this, about how as a business,
  • 00:52:35
    you have to face reality if you want to get ahead,
  • 00:52:38
    and if you're unwilling to face the truth,
  • 00:52:40
    you will not make it where you want to go.
  • 00:52:43
    And he used a metaphor of a friend of his
  • 00:52:46
    who wanted to learn how to do a handstand.
  • 00:52:48
    And this friend couldn't do it,
  • 00:52:51
    and so she hired a handstand coach,
  • 00:52:53
    which is apparently a thing.
  • 00:52:54
    If you are a handstand coach in here. Congratulations!
  • 00:52:56
    I did not know your profession existed
  • 00:52:58
    until I read this letter. Very exciting.
  • 00:53:01
    They hire the handstand coach
  • 00:53:02
    and this is what the coach said:
  • 00:53:34
    How hard is it going to be?
  • 00:53:36
    You know, long before Jeff Bezos,
  • 00:53:37
    Jesus had the same view of facing truth, same exact view.
  • 00:53:42
    It was absolutely essential.
  • 00:53:45
    That's why He always drew lines of truth.
  • 00:53:46
    And for some of us, they're not pleasant,
  • 00:53:48
    and so we kind of balk at them.
  • 00:53:50
    We kind of rebuffed them.
  • 00:53:52
    But we have to understand Jesus's point of view.
  • 00:53:55
    Truth is not meant to hold you back or put you in your place.
  • 00:54:01
    The point of the truth line is to set you free.
  • 00:54:05
    He says this in John 8.
  • 00:54:07
    So Jesus said, "If you abide in My Word,
  • 00:54:09
    and you're truly My disciples,
  • 00:54:10
    then you will know the truth,
  • 00:54:12
    and the truth will set you free.
  • 00:54:15
    This is mind blowing to some of us.
  • 00:54:16
    It's not the circle that creates freedom.
  • 00:54:19
    It's the line. It's the line. Why?
  • 00:54:22
    Well, because we're bound by lies, all of us are.
  • 00:54:25
    Lies that we believed about our mistakes,
  • 00:54:29
    how they'll follow us forever,
  • 00:54:30
    how we can't get past them.
  • 00:54:32
    Lies we believe about how we'll always be alone,
  • 00:54:34
    how we're never be enough.
  • 00:54:35
    All of us are bound by lies.
  • 00:54:37
    It's because right after He talks about
  • 00:54:38
    the truth will set you free, Jesus says
  • 00:54:40
    it's because you have an enemy.
  • 00:54:41
    It's the father of lies, and he's got you all bound up.
  • 00:54:45
    But as we've been talking about today,
  • 00:54:47
    the truth of God is a line.
  • 00:54:49
    And I want you to know it's a sharp one, like a sword.
  • 00:54:53
    It's actually the only thing
  • 00:54:54
    that can free you from a lie is the truth of God,
  • 00:54:58
    also known as the Word of God.
  • 00:55:01
    Hebrews 4:12 says:
  • 00:55:02
    For the Word of God is living and powerful,
  • 00:55:04
    sharper than any two edged sword,
  • 00:55:07
    piercing even to the division of soul and spirit.
  • 00:55:10
    Like I said,
  • 00:55:11
    all of us have different places that we're bound.
  • 00:55:13
    Some of us it's I'll always be alone.
  • 00:55:16
    Some of us it's I'll never be enough.
  • 00:55:18
    Some of us it's I'll never get past my mistakes.
  • 00:55:20
    Some of us it's I can never be forgiven.
  • 00:55:23
    Some of us it's no one will ever want me.
  • 00:55:25
    We all have these mistakes in our lives.
  • 00:55:27
    I don't know what yours is. Put it on this one.
  • 00:55:30
    And we think that we can never get over them.
  • 00:55:33
    Never, ever, ever.
  • 00:55:34
    But see, the line, just like the circle
  • 00:55:36
    is better than we could ever imagine, so is the line.
  • 00:55:39
    Because the line, the line is actually a conveyor belt
  • 00:55:43
    that takes all of that away from us.
  • 00:55:46
    Where do I get that idea? Psalm 103:12, it says:
  • 00:55:50
    As far as the east is from the West,
  • 00:55:52
    so far has He removed our transgressions from us.
  • 00:55:55
    See, when you walk up and you face the truth,
  • 00:55:58
    what happens is the line kicks on
  • 00:56:00
    and all that stuff goes away. It doesn't come back.
  • 00:56:06
    It's a one way street and it's gone forever.
  • 00:56:08
    It just falls off into nothingness.
  • 00:56:10
    This is going to fall off on the stage over there,
  • 00:56:12
    so if you're in this room and you're like,
  • 00:56:14
    "It's still there," I know, I know, it's still there,
  • 00:56:18
    but this is what happens for us.
  • 00:56:19
    God says, "I will separate all your mistakes
  • 00:56:22
    and every lie as far as the East is from the West."
  • 00:56:25
    It's gone, gone, gone, gone, gone.
  • 00:56:28
    See the whole picture that He gives,
  • 00:56:31
    repent and believe the Good News
  • 00:56:33
    is better than you can possibly imagine.
  • 00:56:36
    My question to you is where in your life
  • 00:56:39
    are you not wanting to face the truth?
  • 00:56:42
    Where in your life has God been poking on you?
  • 00:56:45
    Maybe it has something to do with your habits.
  • 00:56:47
    Maybe has something to do with your body.
  • 00:56:49
    Maybe has something to do with your beliefs.
  • 00:56:51
    I don't know.
  • 00:56:52
    Maybe it's -- Maybe it's the way you use money.
  • 00:56:54
    Where is God pressing on you?
  • 00:56:56
    Where have you seen a line of truth already
  • 00:56:58
    that you haven't yet crossed?
  • 00:57:00
    Whatever it is, I want you to know His invitation
  • 00:57:03
    to you is not to limit your life,
  • 00:57:04
    it's to set you free.
  • 00:57:06
    Will you step across the line?
  • 00:57:08
    See, repent is a gift. It's a gift.
  • 00:57:12
    I was named Lead Pastor, as you probably have all heard
  • 00:57:15
    a couple weeks ago, I don't know, early January or so.
  • 00:57:19
    Now there's a service in which we announced that,
  • 00:57:21
    but the time that became public for the first time
  • 00:57:23
    was that a staff training.
  • 00:57:25
    We had all Crossroads staff
  • 00:57:26
    in the room that I'm in right now,
  • 00:57:27
    and we told them that this was happening.
  • 00:57:30
    That was the moment
  • 00:57:31
    I was sort of publicly the Lead Pastor.
  • 00:57:33
    Now, that's significant because of
  • 00:57:35
    what happened right after that was announced.
  • 00:57:39
    See, the day before that meeting,
  • 00:57:41
    I had had a meeting with our music team,
  • 00:57:42
    Justin and Robbie, who lead it,
  • 00:57:44
    and it was one of those, like, rushed meetings.
  • 00:57:46
    You know, I had 15 minutes, probably needed like an hour.
  • 00:57:48
    And so I just rolled in, like,
  • 00:57:50
    "I got to cut to the chase. I'm a busy guy.
  • 00:57:51
    Here's what I don't like. Here's what I want you to change."
  • 00:57:54
    Boom boom boom boom boom boom boom, and I left, gone.
  • 00:57:57
    And they responded fine. It was fine.
  • 00:57:59
    But the next morning I showed up to our staff training
  • 00:58:02
    and it's amazing, we get to start
  • 00:58:03
    with 30 minutes of worship together as a staff.
  • 00:58:05
    One of my favorite times of the week.
  • 00:58:07
    And I'm looking at people on this stage
  • 00:58:08
    exactly where I am right now, our worship leaders,
  • 00:58:11
    our music team that Justin and Robbie have led so well,
  • 00:58:13
    and they're doing an amazing job.
  • 00:58:15
    Not just like performing really well,
  • 00:58:17
    but genuinely worshiping.
  • 00:58:19
    And I felt this conviction in that moment from God.
  • 00:58:22
    I felt this conviction, He's like, "Hey, man,
  • 00:58:24
    sometimes it's okay to move fast.
  • 00:58:25
    Sometimes it's okay to give candor,
  • 00:58:28
    but you are full of truth with no grace.
  • 00:58:30
    That's not okay. That's not okay.
  • 00:58:32
    You need to apologize. You need to repent to them."
  • 00:58:35
    So in the moment I texted them, I said,
  • 00:58:37
    "Hey, some things are about to happen.
  • 00:58:39
    As soon as this meeting is over,
  • 00:58:40
    I really need to talk to both of you."
  • 00:58:42
    So the meeting happens, I get announced,
  • 00:58:44
    I walk off the stage, I go find them.
  • 00:58:46
    And I say, "Hey, guys, I'm so sorry.
  • 00:58:47
    I need to repent to you.
  • 00:58:49
    I should have been more gracious.
  • 00:58:50
    I should have told you what a great job you're doing.
  • 00:58:53
    I should have told you how awesome the music is.
  • 00:58:55
    I should have told you how songs like
  • 00:58:57
    God of the Breakthrough and Always Moving
  • 00:58:58
    have blessed me personally, have blessed my family personally.
  • 00:59:01
    I'm so thankful for you."
  • 00:59:03
    And they are so gracious. They said,
  • 00:59:05
    "Hey, man, it's fine, don't worry about it."
  • 00:59:07
    Then I went back to my desk
  • 00:59:08
    and it was probably an hour or so later,
  • 00:59:11
    all of a sudden this thought hit me.
  • 00:59:13
    I was like, "Oh, forever and always,
  • 00:59:16
    the very first thing I'll have ever done as Lead Pastor
  • 00:59:20
    is apologize for make a mistake, is repent."
  • 00:59:25
    And my first thought was like, "Ah, dang it,
  • 00:59:28
    that kind of sucks, you know?
  • 00:59:30
    That's like a bad sign, right out of the gate,
  • 00:59:32
    you mess up, it's the first thing?"
  • 00:59:35
    And then I remembered the first six words
  • 00:59:38
    Jesus ever gave as instructions:
  • 00:59:40
    repent and believe the Good News.
  • 00:59:43
    And all of a sudden I thought, "You know what?
  • 00:59:45
    Maybe that's exactly the way it should be."
  • 00:59:48
    See, every day God's invitation to me is
  • 00:59:52
    to repent and believe the Good News.
  • 00:59:54
    Every day there's a new line.
  • 00:59:56
    Every day there's a new circle.
  • 00:59:58
    Tomorrow there'll be another one.
  • 00:59:59
    Every day in your life
  • 01:00:01
    God's going to give you a line in a circle.
  • 01:00:04
    Today there's one and tomorrow there'll be another one.
  • 01:00:07
    And the question for each of us is, will we trust Him?
  • 01:00:10
    Will we believe that He is who He said He is,
  • 01:00:12
    that He's good, that He has more for us
  • 01:00:14
    than we can possibly imagine, and step across the line?
  • 01:00:17
    Will we be willing to embrace grace and truth?
  • 01:00:22
    If we will, we'll experience something
  • 01:00:25
    few people get to experience: the real Jesus.
  • 01:00:27
    We'll see something few people get to see:
  • 01:00:30
    the actual God of the universe,
  • 01:00:33
    full of grace, full of truth.
  • 01:00:36
    That's our hope of what happens in this series.
  • 01:00:38
    Let me pray for you before we leave.
  • 01:00:40
    God, thank You so much for everybody.
  • 01:00:41
    Thank You for the the time to talk about You.
  • 01:00:43
    Thank You for the unbelievable reality of You.
  • 01:00:46
    Thank You for the moment to step out of
  • 01:00:48
    our culture of soundbites and quick hits,
  • 01:00:50
    and to dig deeper into You.
  • 01:00:52
    I pray that you would use this time
  • 01:00:54
    to change all of us, make us more like you. Amen.
  • 01:00:58
    - Hey, thanks so much for watching.
  • 01:01:00
    But you should know Crossroads isn't just content to watch.
  • 01:01:02
    We are a community that you can belong to.
  • 01:01:04
    And if you want to grow, I'd highly recommend
  • 01:01:07
    you check out our upcoming cohorts.
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    These are opportunities for growth and connection
  • 01:01:10
    that you can do on your own time,
  • 01:01:12
    but still alongside other people.
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    They involve small daily challenges,
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    some weekly input and training, and way more
  • 01:01:18
    to help you get traction in a specific area of your life.
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    Starting in just a few weeks, we have
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    21 days to build a marriage you'll love,
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    led by my wife, Rachel and I,
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    and also 21 days to Better Dating.
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    If you want to make the step from watching church
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    to being a part of this church,
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    we're also hosting a Digital Connect event
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    led by my buddy and teammate Daniel Montgomery
  • 01:01:38
    on February 18th, 12 p.m. Eastern Standard.
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  • 01:01:43
    and help you get connected to others in the community.
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    You can head to Crossroads.net/anywhere
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    to find out more. We'll see you back next week.

Process, journal or discuss the themes of this article - here's a few questions to get the ball rolling...

Welcome to the Weekend-Follow Up! This is the group part of the Bible Challenge, so your questions are based on specific Bible passages from the weekend message. Each week, your group will discover what God might be saying to you, and how you can respond through a group discussion.

  1. What’s the most incredible (or incredibly funny) piece of art you’ve ever created or witnessed?

  2. What stood out to you most from the message?

  3. Would you describe yourself as a circle or a line person (or a grace or a truth person)? Why?

  4. What kinds of lines or circles do you draw in your own life? How do they affect your relationships with the people around you?

  5. Read Mark 1:15. Which is more difficult for you - crossing the line of repentance, or stepping into the circle of belief? What makes it hard?

  6. When you hear Jesus’ message, the line he draws and the circle he offers, how do you receive it?

  7. How do the lines and circles you’ve encountered (or created) in your life compare to the ones Jesus creates?

  8. What’s one step you can take this week to either cross the line of repentance or embrace belief? Share it with the group.

  9. Let’s end with prayer. You can say something like, “Jesus, thank you for telling us the truth. Thank you for the good news you’ve invited us to believe. Build up our faith and help us fully embrace all aspects of you and your message. Amen.”

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Bonus Questions! Check these out if you’re on a roll and want to go a little deeper.

  • Read Mark 1:16-18. Where have you been following your own directions, rather than the directions of God?
  • Where in your life are you unwilling to face the truth? Where is He pressing on you?
  • How would your life look differently if you decided to pursue both grace and truth in your relationship with God and your relationships with others?

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