Discovering How God Sees You

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- Well, hey, welcome to Crossroads.

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If you're new here we are a church

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and a community of people meeting all over the globe.

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Some meet in church buildings like this one,

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but others meet online or actually in homes,

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coffee shops, or even bars.

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My name is Andy and I lead

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our Crossroads Anywhere community

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of people meeting all over the globe.

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Now we're about to start our time together

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with some worship, which is just using music

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to remind ourselves what's true about God

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and what God says is true about us.

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Then we're going to hear some teaching

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from our lead pastor Kyle Ranson.

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And no matter who you are,

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what you believe about God or the church

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or religion, or no matter how your year is going so far,

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whether you're full of excitement and energy

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or whether it's been really, really rough since New Years,

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we're glad that you're here

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and hope that you can hear how God

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has fresh vision and encouragement for you

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as you head into 2025 and beyond.

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So sing with us, join in.

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We're so glad you're here with us today.

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- What's up, everyone? Welcome to Crossroads.

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So glad that you're here.

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My name is Eric if we haven't met.

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Won't you stand to your feet?

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I just want you to know,

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no matter what you believe about God,

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you're in the right place and you're welcome here.

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We're going to start by singing some songs to Jesus.

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Let's do it.

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- Yeah, that's. That's it.

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By the way, my name is Kyle.

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Welcome to everybody. Welcome here.

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Welcome online, at our sites.

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Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Weekend.

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Glad that you are with us.

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When you walked in, if you're at a site,

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you got a little packet of clay.

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You can go ahead and get that out.

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If you're watching online

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and you want to want to follow along,

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make the service more tactile,

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grab something around your house or apartment

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or coffee shop or wherever that you can squish.

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It can be your kid's Play-Doh.

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You can go ahead and steal that from them. That's fine.

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Some Silly Putty, whatever it takes.

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If you don't have anything like that,

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grab a pen, something to draw with

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and follow along with us.

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Now, if you're in a room, we gave you this clay

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for a very, very important reason.

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We wanted to see who has ADHD,

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and the answer would be those of us

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who've already been playing with it

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and messing with it, and are now

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just pretending to pull it out of the bag.

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If that's you. Welcome. That's me too.

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Glad you're with us. That's awesome.

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Everybody take it out

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and just start squishing it around in your hands.

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See that clay in your hands has to do

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with what we're talking about today.

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We're examining this piece of the gospel

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and hoping to make it more personal and tactile,

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that we can feel it, that we can walk out of here

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changed and reshaped, just like

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you're reshaping that clay right now.

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And then that piece of the gospel

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that we're going to look at is the claim

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that you and I are not accidents,

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that we are made by a God who loves us

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and intended us and purposed our life.

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I think there's no more appropriate topic

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that we could be covering this weekend

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that honors a man who gave his life

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to literally share that message

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that all life has value,

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regardless of the color of your skin,

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or whether you're a man or a woman

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or anything else, that you have infinite worth

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and value because you've been made

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by the creator of the universe.

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We're going to sing a song right now together

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that talks about that.

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It says that God is the one thing

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who can tell us what we're made for.

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Why? Because He's the one who made us.

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- Come on, sing it again. You are the one.

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- Lord, we stand before You in silence right now,

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and all of Your beauty

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maybe wondering if we could actually

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believe those words to be true,

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that You made us

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and you're the one thing I was made for.

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I want to believe it, Lord.

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I want to walk with You and give my heart to You.

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I pray all this because of you, Jesus. Amen. Amen.

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It's great to be together.

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You might have wondered what was in that white bag

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when somebody handed it to you.

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I don't know. I don't know.

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Maybe you were confused a bit, but now you know,

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now you know it's a piece of clay.

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Hey, why don't you turn to somebody next to you

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and say, "Hey, I'm glad to be here with you."

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If you're joining us online,

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glad you're here with us, too.

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Then you can have a seat.

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- Crossroads is a movement of

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regular, normal, everyday people

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growing closer to God and changing the world.

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Now, I know firsthand that I grow

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and get to a new place with God and in my life

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when I'm surrounded by a community of people

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who are both going to challenge me when I need it

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and give me a shoulder when I need it.

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Now, this is a really big church,

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but that also means there's

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a really great opportunity for you to find

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a group of people that work for you,

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and I'm positive that there's one for you here.

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You can actually head to Crossroads.net/groups.

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There's actually even a groups quiz tool

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to help you find your best fit

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for your current stage of life.

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And I get it, if that's overwhelming for you,

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we can do some personalized help for you.

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We'd love to do this for you.

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It's actually why my whole team exists.

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You can just text Anywhere to 301301.

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We'd love to help you get connected.

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Now a reminder Crossroads is made up of normal people,

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and these same normal people are the ones

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who give money and actually fund all of

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the great stuff that happens around Crossroads

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all year long, including the service

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that you're watching right now and so much more.

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If you'd like to join the team of faithful people,

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or just learn more about what Crossroads believes

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and how we spend money,

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you can just head to Crossroads.net/give.

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I'll stop talking now and get out of the way.

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Let's hear from our Lead Pastor Kyle Ranson

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as we continue in our series Leave Lies Behind.

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- Well, hey, welcome. My name is Kyle.

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I'm the Lead Pastor here at Crossroads

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if we've never met before.

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And yes, you can keep this out the entire time

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and keep playing with it.

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That's what I'm going to be doing the whole time.

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This is the second week of a series that we started

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about the real gospel versus the fake gospel.

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If you missed last week, Brian kicked it off.

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Powerful, powerful experience.

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If you missed it, catch up online.

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The best way to do that is the Crossroads app.

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Free download. Watch it in there.

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I think you will learn something that

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will absolutely bless your life if you invest that time.

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Speaking of learning something,

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I was a little bit too old when I learned

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how babies are actually made.

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Just being honest. It's my fault.

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See, I thought I knew the answer.

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And because I thought I knew the real answer,

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I never actually went looking for the truth.

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Then one morning, my dad, late Saturday morning,

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walked up to me and he said, "Hey, Kyle,

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do you know how babies are made?"

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And I thought it was a little odd he was asking me,

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but I humored him. I was like, "Yeah, absolutely.

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I totally know that answer." He was like, "Okay, how?"

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I was like, "Well, dad, pretty simple.

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When a mom and a dad love each other,

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they go to the doctor and get a pill

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that the mom takes that starts

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a baby growing inside of her and her stomach,

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actually, which is weird.

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Apparently babies are really resistant

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to Diet Coke and it grows there.

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And then after a period of time,

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you go to the hospital, they scoop it out,

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you come home. That's kind of how it works.

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Dad, weird you didn't know that, right?"

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He was like, "Actually, you missed a few details,"

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and he proceeded to explain it to me,

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which if you don't know how babies are made,

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I'm not going to tell you right now.

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But you can email Brian.Tome@crossroads.net.

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He will give you all the facts.

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Be spectacular for you and for him.

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The best way to ensure that

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someone doesn't find the truth, the real answer

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is to convince them that they already have it.

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This is our world. This is the world that we live in.

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There are many gospels that shout at us

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in all directions, "I have it, I have the answer.

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And if you believe what I believe,

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then you've already got it."

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There are many, many gospels.

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Gospel doesn't have anything to do in particular

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with religion or God.

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It just means good news about

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the way to have a good life.

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Some of them involve God. Some of them don't.

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But they shout at us from all over the place.

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Now the real gospel and the fake gospel

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becomes a lifelong quest that you and I have

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to sort through, all of us do.

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We have to determine which of these

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do we believe is the real one?

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And you might be in here like, "No, you don't.

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No, you don't. I'm going to sit that one out."

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Well congratulations, let me just tell you

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you haven't actually sat it out.

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You've chosen to believe that the good life,

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the way to the best life is apathy.

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See, none of us get to sit it out.

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All of us have to determine which is real

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and which is fake.

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And in the Bible, it warns us again and again

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and again against falling for one of the fakes.

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One place is Galatians 1:6. Paul writes:

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I marvel that you are turning away so soon

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from Him who called you in the grace of Christ,

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to a different gospel, which is not another.

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Paul goes, my mind is blown.

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You're leaving the real gospel,

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which he describes as characterized

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by the grace of Christ, for a different one,

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which he says actually isn't even a gospel at all.

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In other words, it's a fake. It's a phony.

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There's only one real gospel of grace.

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And today we're going to be diving into ten words

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that form this idea that we've been talking about

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so far, the idea that says that we are made.

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The Bible says this all over, from cover to cover,

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but right in the middle of the Bible,

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more or less by words, the book of Psalms

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and towards the ends of Psalms,

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there's these ten words that form

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this one clear, compelling claim

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that's at the foundation of the gospel of grace.

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And they are these, Psalm 139:14:

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I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.

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It's the claim of the Bible,

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The real gospel says, you are fearfully

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and wonderfully made, and your job,

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which you need to do, is to praise God because of it.

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I don't know if this is a habit you have.

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Maybe every day you wake up and you thank God

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for something about how He's made you.

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But I would doubt it.

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I've never actually met somebody

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who has that habit in their life.

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See, most of us find it far easier to think of

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things that we that we don't like about ourselves,

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things that are broken, things that are off,

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things that we wish were different.

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But I'm telling you, nothing will lead you

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to the good life more than

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choosing to believe these ten words:

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And not just believe them, but actually do them.

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It's my hope and my prayer

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what happens for all of us today.

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So before we go any further, let's pray together.

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God, I'm asking that You'd show up today

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and that just as we're shaping this clay

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in our hands right now, that You would shape us,

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that You would shape our eyes to see You,

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our ears to hear the voice of Your Spirit right now

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to reshape the way we view ourselves.

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That we would have the same value on us

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that You put on us. Amen.

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Now, throughout the Bible, the most common picture

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for the image of God making us is clay.

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God's the potter, we're the clay. Isaiah 64:8:

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But now, O Lord, You are our Father;

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we are the clay, and You are our potter;

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we are all the work of Your hand.

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This is why JW is up here today, a potter.

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Let's all say thank you to JW for being here this weekend.

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[applause] Sometimes at Crossroads we like to have

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these, like, subtle metaphors that you have this

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moment at some point you're like, "Wow, I get it."

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I mean, just from the beginning,

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I want to make sure you get it.

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God. Us. Okay? God. Us. Us. God. Right?

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Got it. Okay. He's making us.

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That the idea is that God intentionally makes us.

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Now that the fake gospels that we're gonna

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be comparing the real gospel to today

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are two broad ones, but I think they kind of cover the spectrum.

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One is the secular gospel that says

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you're not made, instead you're random,

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and you need to be proud of it.

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That's the secular gospel.

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The other gospel is the religious gospel that says

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you're at best average or common,

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and you need to accept it.

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Now, my burn for this message started

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a few months ago at work.

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And it was a staff meeting, which I know, you know,

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when you work at a church,

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people understand what you do on a Sunday.

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Like people get my job on a Sunday,

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but the other days of the week people are like,

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"What do you -- what do you guys do at work?

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You know what I mean? Like, are you, like,

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practicing baptism?" Like, yeah, we do.

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We have lawnmowers and we practice this motion

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because raising people out of the water

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is the most important part.

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And so it really builds the core.

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No. Our job is the same as yours most of the time,

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right, you go to meetings, you plan stuff.

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You talk about stuff, you strategize,

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you meet with people, you know, all that kind of stuff.

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You review budgets.

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But there is one thing we do that

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you probably don't do at your job,

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which is we pray together every morning for 30 minutes.

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And the reason we do that is because

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the stuff that we're going after is stuff

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that we can't possibly deliver on our own.

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So we need God to show up, so we invite Him into it.

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And back in late November, early December,

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I was at one of these meetings and the guy leading,

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Josh Seurkamp, led us on a gratitude exercise.

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We're going to have a gratitude day.

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And the thing I want you to be grateful for

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is something about how God made you.

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He took us right to Psalm 139:14,

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And he said, "My guess is this might be

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really hard for some of you,

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and I want to encourage you to fight through it

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anyway and to be grateful."

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And for the next 30 minutes, I watched

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and I listened as teammate after teammate

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who was actually brave enough to pray

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because this wasn't pray silently in your seat.

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You know? Just kind of say it in your head.

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No, out loud in front of everybody

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what are you thankful for about you

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because God made you well?

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And I sat there for 30 minutes listening to

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and watch my teammates, people who have given up

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their life to preach the gospel,

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people who I know deeply believe it,

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at least intellectually, as person after person

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gave the same preamble,

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a person who's brave enough to go.

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And the preamble was something like,

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"This is so hard because, honestly,

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I don't like much about myself.

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Honestly, most of what I think about myself

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I think I'm at best, common or average or fine.

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And to be honest, there's more things

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I don't like than than I do. It's really hard."

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And it was heartbreaking.

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So I sat there and thought,

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if people who work for a church,

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who've given up whatever other money or success

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or career they could have

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in order to have people know the gospel,

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if they struggle to believe this part of the gospel,

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what about everybody else?

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And I'll just say, if you're in this room

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and you struggle to believe that that God made you,

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that you're not an accident,

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that you're not a mistake,

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that he hasn't messed up,

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that there's not something tragically

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forever broken about you,

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if you struggle to believe that you are normal.

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That's what most people think and most people believe.

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That's why I wanted to do this message

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and dig into this claim:

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Now we're going to go through it phrase by phrase,

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and we're actually going to start at the very end,

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the last word, because that's the foundation

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for the entire claim, the idea that you are made.

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And it's on this one word where immediately

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the real gospel and the secular gospel

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completely diverge.

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You have to choose a path at this moment,

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are you made or are you a mistake?

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Are you made or are you random?

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Are you an accident? Are you just chance?

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The secular gospel says that you are.

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It's exactly what you are, you're random,

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that there is no design, there's no intent behind you.

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That accidentally there was nothing

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and then completely randomly, there was everything,

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including eventually you.

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That's the foundation of the secular gospel.

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The other day, my son looked at my daughter,

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Gracie, took off her shoes,

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just came home from soccer practice.

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And he said, "No offense, Gracie, but your feet stink."

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And then he was shocked when she was offended.

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And I had to explain to him

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that's not what the power of that phrase,

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no offense doesn't mean they won't be offended.

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That's unfortunately.

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That'd be awesome if it worked that way, great.

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It doesn't work that way.

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So at risk of doing the same thing,

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let me just say this, no offense, but

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I find it strange that the same people

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who would criticize someone like me and say,

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"I can't believe that an intelligent person

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could ever believe in the virgin birth of Jesus,"

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themselves believe in the virgin birth

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of the entire universe.

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There's no mother, there's no father,

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there's no creator, there's no designer,

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there's no intelligence, there's just randomness

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and then there was you.

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I mean, none of us would ever walk into this room,

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see all these pots and go, "You know,

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I'll bet those just kind of spontaneously happened."

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Right? You might go, "Yeah, because we can see

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JW sitting right there making them all."

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Cool. Imagine if he wasn't.

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Would any of you ever walk in and go,

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"I bet, I'll give, I give 100 bucks

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that thing just kind of like happened that way."

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No, no, of course not. That defies logic.

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The universe is infinitely more complex

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and more intricate and connected

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and intentional in design than any of these pots.

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That's the secular gospel, though,

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you're a random accident.

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Now, besides the logical flaw in it,

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that is very obvious, I think there's another flaw

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that's actually more problematic because,

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see, we humans, we have this ability

00:34:33

if things aren't logical, we can put them over here

00:34:35

and we can ignore them.

00:34:36

What we can't ignore are the emotional consequences

00:34:38

of that fallacy.

00:34:40

And so what happens when you believe that

00:34:41

you're random and you're an accident,

00:34:43

you find it very hard to have any self-worth,

00:34:46

any value of you, because how could you?

00:34:51

There's no design, there's no intent, there's no purpose,

00:34:53

there's no bigger meaning, there's no love,

00:34:57

there's no nothing. There's no real beginning

00:35:00

and there's no real end.

00:35:01

From nothing to nothing.

00:35:04

How do you create value in the middle of it?

00:35:06

This is exactly how some of us feel. Exactly.

00:35:11

Again, if you're here and you don't believe in Jesus,

00:35:13

that's awesome. We really --

00:35:15

I don't want to make you feel bad about that whatsoever.

00:35:18

I'm so honored that you're here.

00:35:20

I'm so honored that you would even consider

00:35:22

and you'd listen to something different.

00:35:23

That makes you above normal to consider that

00:35:26

there might be something that you don't know.

00:35:29

But let me just ask you, if you believed

00:35:32

this secular gospel, is it working for you?

00:35:37

Is the good news about a good life,

00:35:38

is it producing a good life?

00:35:40

No, it's not, otherwise, you wouldn't be here.

00:35:44

Of course it's not.

00:35:45

The good news I have for you today is that

00:35:47

that's the fake gospel. That one's not real.

00:35:49

The real gospel, instead, is that you're not a mistake,

00:35:51

You're not random, you are very intentionally made.

00:35:55

Made.

00:35:57

See, the gospel says that this is us.

00:35:59

There's a creator behind us.

00:36:00

And that before we ever lived a single day

00:36:04

He had purposed us, He had designed us,

00:36:06

He had thought about us.

00:36:07

It says, before we lived a day

00:36:09

all the days were written in His book,

00:36:11

before we were born He knew the number

00:36:12

of hairs on our head at each moment,

00:36:14

which for me is getting less and less and less.

00:36:16

However, He already knew that.

00:36:18

He knows you and He's shaping you.

00:36:21

And because you're made, you have value.

00:36:24

This is what we believe at Crossroads.

00:36:26

And we don't just believe it, we act on it.

00:36:28

We've seen the headlines the last week or so

00:36:30

about all of the destructive wildfires in California.

00:36:34

I saw yesterday it now burned down 12,000 homes,

00:36:37

largest natural disaster in Southern California history.

00:36:41

I'm happy to tell you, if you give to Crossroads,

00:36:43

you've actually made a difference,

00:36:44

you've actually helped.

00:36:45

We were able to, just a few days ago,

00:36:46

release $50,000 to our partners Convoy of Hope

00:36:50

to help with that. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

00:36:53

That's going to help 1250 families have food

00:36:56

and shelter and supplies, air purification for two weeks.

00:37:00

So very, very thankful to be able to jump in and do that.

00:37:03

And you might hear that and go like, "Really?

00:37:06

All those people in Southern California,

00:37:07

aren't they all rich? They really need help?

00:37:11

Give it to them?"

00:37:12

Well, yeah, because all life has value,

00:37:15

rich, poor, young, old,

00:37:18

my politics, different politics, doesn't matter.

00:37:20

The Bible says all life has value

00:37:22

because every single person has been made.

00:37:25

And not just made, but made exceptionally.

00:37:28

Not just a lump, but actually a masterpiece.

00:37:32

It says this in the middle of Psalm 139:14, next phrase:

00:37:36


00:37:42

Now, fearfully doesn't mean scary.

00:37:44

It actually means awesomely, the kind of fear

00:37:46

that's like awe or reverence or respect,

00:37:49

that we've been made in such an incredible way

00:37:51

that if you were to truly see you

00:37:52

the way God sees you, it would take your breath away.

00:37:55

"Oh, wow."

00:37:57

And wonderfully means more than just wonderful.

00:38:00

We use that kind of commonly.

00:38:01

It actually means distinctly, uniquely,

00:38:05

one distinguished from the other.

00:38:07

There are no two the same.

00:38:09

God does not make stuff that sells at Costco.

00:38:12

He doesn't create in bulk.

00:38:14

God's never gone, "You know, I'm going to make 24

00:38:16

and they're all going to be named Kim,

00:38:18

and they're the same."

00:38:19

Not what He does, never, never done that.

00:38:21

God makes every single person uniquely.

00:38:23

And what that adds up to is that the idea is

00:38:25

that you are a masterpiece.

00:38:28

And this is where the real gospel of God's grace

00:38:31

and I believe the fake religious gospel

00:38:33

comes in conflict, the religious gospel that says,

00:38:35

"You're not a masterpiece, not at all.

00:38:38

You're at best average or common,

00:38:41

and your job is just to accept it.

00:38:43

You're not a beautiful pot He's making.

00:38:45

You're just kind of a lump. This is you, right?

00:38:49

God kind of, there you go.

00:38:51

You put a couple of eyeballs and this little smile,

00:38:54

that's good enough, you know?

00:38:56

Yeah. Perfect name you, Wilson.

00:39:01

Talk to you on the beach."

00:39:06

This is what the religious gospel says.

00:39:09

Best thing you can do is accept that you're a lump.

00:39:13

You are terrible. You're awful.

00:39:14

There's nothing valuable about you whatsoever.

00:39:17

But then God came along, and for whatever reason,

00:39:19

He decided to save you and rescue you.

00:39:22

And ever since, He's mostly been bummed out about you.

00:39:26

That's the religious gospel,

00:39:27

but this isn't the gospel of grace,

00:39:29

and this isn't the gospel

00:39:30

that we believe at Crossroads.

00:39:32

See, we believe what these words say,

00:39:34

that you are fearfully and wonderfully made,

00:39:36

that you are a masterpiece.

00:39:39

Now, this idea that you're a lump,

00:39:40

it wasn't how you always felt about yourself, was it?

00:39:43

You know, when you were a kid, you felt differently.

00:39:46

In fact, I've never met a five year old

00:39:50

who would tell me they are average.

00:39:53

Right? Or common. No, they do the do the opposite.

00:39:56

They tell you how awesome they are.

00:39:57

Like, "Look what I made out of macaroni and string

00:40:00

and pipe cleaners. Isn't it beautiful?

00:40:02

Look how fast I am. Look how high I can jump.

00:40:04

Oh, my gosh, I'm so strong."

00:40:06

That's five year olds.

00:40:08

When my kids were 4 or 5 and 6, none of them

00:40:10

ever came up to us at Halloween and said,

00:40:12

"You know, dad, what I want to be for Halloween

00:40:15

is kind of how I feel inside, my truest sense of self.

00:40:18

I want to dress up as a 45 year old cog in the wheel,

00:40:22

just trying to get by, just making it through

00:40:26

my day to get to Netflix and pass out.

00:40:31

Can you help me?" No. No.

00:40:37

Get your clay out if it's not already in your hands.

00:40:39

And think about you 4, 5, 6 years old.

00:40:45

What did you think about you?

00:40:47

What were you proud about?

00:40:49

What did you want to dress up for at Halloween?

00:40:51

Was it something about being creative?

00:40:53

Were you so excited to show people the masterpieces

00:40:56

that you made out of macaroni or Legos?

00:40:59

Did you think you were strong?

00:41:00

Were you so excited to show off your muscles?

00:41:02

Did you think you were fast?

00:41:04

Did you think you could be a ballerina someday?

00:41:06

You were graceful and the picture of beauty.

00:41:09

What did you consider yourself?

00:41:11

Whatever that is, I want you to start to shape it

00:41:13

in your clay.

00:41:15

Maybe when you were five, you wanted to be

00:41:17

a fireman for Halloween, somebody heroic,

00:41:19

somebody who saves people.

00:41:21

Maybe you want to be a football player.

00:41:23

If so, just sculpt a little football.

00:41:24

Whatever it is, I want you to make that thing

00:41:27

and hold it in your hand.

00:41:29

Now, what happens to all of us, by the way,

00:41:32

is that we feel this way.

00:41:34

I think it's part of the gift of grace

00:41:35

that God gives us is that as kids

00:41:38

we truly do start believing that

00:41:39

we're fearfully and wonderfully made.

00:41:41

However, at some point, life starts to happen

00:41:45

and hit us and we see that we're not good at everything.

00:41:48

And we start to think maybe

00:41:49

we're not fearfully and wonderfully made.

00:41:51

Maybe we're just a lump.

00:41:54

Stuff we're bad at.

00:41:55

I know there's stuff that I'm bad at.

00:41:57

As a dad there's stuff I'm very bad at.

00:42:00

I think all dads are actually bad at these things.

00:42:02

One is buying the correct size shoe for my kids.

00:42:06

For the life of me, I cannot do this.

00:42:09

I've spent an hour before inside

00:42:11

a Dick's Sporting Goods doing the thumb thing.

00:42:13

You know, like, is that the -- I don't?

00:42:15

Is this right? Maybe it's two thumbs.

00:42:16

Getting the shoe expert.

00:42:18

He's like 15.5 to help me out. Not helpful.

00:42:23

And I go home. I'm like, "Look what I --

00:42:24

Got the right size." And Sarah's like,

00:42:26

"You got a three and she's an eight.

00:42:27

That's not even remotely close."

00:42:30

Bad at that as a dad.

00:42:32

Another thing us dads are bad at is

00:42:34

picking up prescriptions for our kids.

00:42:36

Okay, moms, when you go, this is how it works for you.

00:42:39

You go up to the window, they look at you,

00:42:40

you seem trustworthy, they give you the medicine,

00:42:42

you drive off. It's awesome.

00:42:44

When us dads roll up, they give us a test.

00:42:48

They say, "What's the patient's date of birth?"

00:42:53

Uh. Whoa. You know, winter is the general.

00:42:58

Is that enough? Can we stop? Can we call that good?

00:43:01

You know, you need a more specific

00:43:02

Jan-Feb kind of situation. Q1, can we do that?

00:43:07

No, they want the numbers, which I think

00:43:08

it should work like Wheel of Fortune.

00:43:10

I think when you guess one number,

00:43:11

like if you guess a one and there's three ones,

00:43:13

they should give you all of the ones.

00:43:15

Just fill it in. It would go faster.

00:43:19

Dads aren't good at that.

00:43:20

Finding anything in a pantry

00:43:21

that also has other things in it. Very bad at that.

00:43:26

I realized early on in my life

00:43:27

there were things about me that maybe

00:43:29

weren't as awesome as I thought they were.

00:43:32

When I was 8 or 9 years old, I was playing baseball,

00:43:35

and I remember one practice our coach had us

00:43:38

run out to the outfield, touch the fence and run back.

00:43:43

And all of my teammates and me, we run out,

00:43:46

we touch the fence and we come back.

00:43:48

Only they all made it made it back way before I did.

00:43:50

I was the very last one back.

00:43:53

And not just the last one back,

00:43:54

but I couldn't breathe for another 15 minutes.

00:43:57

I was tired, I was sucking in oxygen.

00:44:00

And in that moment, it occurred to me that

00:44:03

maybe I'm not as strong,

00:44:04

maybe not as fast as I think I was.

00:44:06

And later on I would learn the word asthma.

00:44:10

It's the first time in my life I have a memory of

00:44:12

going, "God, I believe that You've made me,

00:44:15

but I don't like that one thing.

00:44:18

If I could just change that, I would.

00:44:21

I would really like it.

00:44:22

I mean, I don't want to criticize the whole thing,

00:44:24

just like that one part."

00:44:27

Later on, we grow up.

00:44:29

Everybody else would grow, like, literally up.

00:44:35

Me? Not so much. Right?

00:44:39

And as a young boy, what you're supposed to dream of

00:44:41

is being strong and tough and all.

00:44:44

Well, what do you do when you're small?

00:44:46

And again, I would go, "God, if I could just tell You,

00:44:50

I don't like that You did that.

00:44:52

Can we change that part?"

00:44:55

In school, my classmates had this amazing ability

00:44:59

where they could do something

00:45:02

and hear the teacher.

00:45:05

They could do their work and hear instructions.

00:45:07

Me? Not at all. Not at all.

00:45:10

Whatever I was doing, still to this day,

00:45:12

whatever I do, that's all that exists in my entire universe.

00:45:15

I am not aware of anything else at all.

00:45:18

I realized that my classmates

00:45:20

had this mental capacity that I didn't,

00:45:22

and I would later learn the word ADHD.

00:45:25

I said, "God, I don't like the way You made me like that."

00:45:30

And this is us.

00:45:32

See, for all of us, all of us

00:45:33

have these moments that happen.

00:45:34

As a parent, it's the hardest thing

00:45:36

when you're when your kids hit this phase,

00:45:37

it's the hardest thing.

00:45:38

It's where my kids are at.

00:45:40

My daughter, Gracie, was with me on Christmas Eve,

00:45:42

one of the highlights of my year.

00:45:43

She read a verse during a Christmas Eve services

00:45:46

if you were here, and she did an amazing job.

00:45:48

And before and after my wife asked her.

00:45:52

She goes, "Gracie, were you nervous?"

00:45:54

And Gracie's like, "No, you know, like,

00:45:58

why would you ask such a weird question, mom?'

00:46:00

You know, and for context, you know,

00:46:02

if you're newer to Crossroads,

00:46:03

if you're watching us online, it's pretty big.

00:46:05

The first service that she did,

00:46:07

there were 3500 people in the room,

00:46:08

and there were 1100 and overflow just at that one site.

00:46:11

Tens of thousands of people saw her.

00:46:13

That, you know, would make a normal person nervous,

00:46:16

but not her.

00:46:18

It's amazing, this grace that God has given her

00:46:21

of confidence that's just in her.

00:46:23

And yet that same girl last weekend

00:46:25

walked off the soccer field, went to me and Sarah

00:46:28

and said, "I feel like I'm a disappointment,"

00:46:31

hung her head. It happens to all of us.

00:46:34

When did it happen to you?

00:46:36

What was the moment in your life

00:46:37

you first noticed something about you

00:46:39

that you didn't like?

00:46:40

Maybe it was something about the way

00:46:41

that your body was shaped differently than others.

00:46:44

Maybe you were too big, maybe too small.

00:46:48

Just wish you were different.

00:46:50

Maybe it was something about how everybody else

00:46:52

seemed to have this ability to think,

00:46:54

or to interact, or to make friends easily.

00:46:56

And for you, it just didn't quite happen that way.

00:47:00

Maybe for you, it was something else about you.

00:47:02

Maybe it was something about the place

00:47:03

that God put you in life, or the the family

00:47:05

that He's given you, something that was shaping you

00:47:08

and you just went, "No, God, I think you messed up."

00:47:11

See, this is us.

00:47:12

God's making us on the wheel, and we just go,

00:47:15

"Nah, I'd like you to start over.

00:47:18

I don't like that one."

00:47:21

And I know some of you are like, "Kyle,

00:47:22

he worked so hard. Poor J.W.

00:47:29

Did you -- I mean, he's the whole time

00:47:31

you've been seeing him since that song

00:47:32

in the beginning, he was making the pots.

00:47:35

How could you just smash them like that?

00:47:36

How could you pick at them like that?"

00:47:40

You know that's how God feels, right,

00:47:44

when you pick at you, when you critique the work,

00:47:47

when you hyper focus on the thing

00:47:49

that you wish was different,

00:47:50

you wish was not the same,

00:47:52

when you miss the masterpiece and you said

00:47:54

it's just to act and assume like you are a lump.

00:47:58

You're not, you're not, you're not.

00:48:00

It's not what God says about you.

00:48:02

He says, you've got it all backwards. Isaiah 29:16.

00:48:09

You turn things upside down. This is God's words.

00:48:13

Shall the potter be regarded as the clay,

00:48:16

that the thing made should say of its maker,

00:48:19

"He did not make me";

00:48:21

or the thing formed say of him who formed it,

00:48:23

"He has no understanding"?

00:48:25

He goes, "Can you look at me, the pot?

00:48:29

Can you look up at me and say, you're doing it all wrong?

00:48:31

You don't know what you're doing.

00:48:33

You're messing the whole thing up.

00:48:34

This isn't right. I wish I was different."

00:48:36

Can you? Can you do that? No, no.

00:48:40

See if you're in here and you feel like a lump,

00:48:43

or you feel common or you feel average,

00:48:46

you're not common, you're not average.

00:48:48

You're a masterpiece.

00:48:49

Do you know what you call a common Michelangelo?

00:48:54

A masterpiece.

00:48:55

Do you know what you call a common Leonardo da Vinci?

00:48:58

A masterpiece.

00:49:00

Do you know what you call

00:49:01

a common Frank Lloyd Wright house? A masterpiece.

00:49:05

Why? Because a master artist created it

00:49:08

and a master artist has created you.

00:49:11

Therefore, you are by definition, a masterpiece.

00:49:20

You know what you call a common Keanu Reeves movie?

00:49:23

Just kidding. [laughter] I take it a little too far?

00:49:27

Take it too far. Ephesians 2:10:

00:49:30

For we are God's masterpiece.

00:49:33

He has created us anew in Christ Jesus,

00:49:35

so we can do the good things

00:49:37

He planned for us long ago.

00:49:40

James 1:18 says that we are His prized possession.

00:49:42

It builds on this idea of a masterpiece

00:49:44

is that out of all creation,

00:49:46

out of everything made,

00:49:48

he looks at us and goes, "You are the pinnacle.

00:49:51

You are the top. You are my masterpiece."

00:49:54

Think of the most beautiful sunrise you've ever seen.

00:49:57

Think of the most majestic beach you've ever been on.

00:49:59

Think of the most amazing mountain scene

00:50:01

your eyes have ever seen or considered.

00:50:03

And God says you are better than all of those things.

00:50:06

All the stars, all the galaxies,

00:50:07

all everything He's ever made,

00:50:09

you are the masterpiece.

00:50:11

I think some of us were afraid

00:50:13

to regard ourselves that way,

00:50:14

because we feel like at some point,

00:50:16

God's going to come along and be like,

00:50:18

"You thought you were what? Oh my gosh.

00:50:20

I would laugh if you weren't so dumb.

00:50:22

I mean, you thought you were worth what?"

00:50:25

We're afraid of overvaluing ourselves.

00:50:26

You ever overvalued something.

00:50:28

I do this all the time in my life.

00:50:29

I don't really calculate the cost sometimes

00:50:32

moving so fast. Right?

00:50:33

Last year, my kids in September or August, I guess,

00:50:36

again, I'm a dad. I barely know what school they go to

00:50:39

or what grade they're in.

00:50:40

I'm just saying, I don't know.

00:50:42

They started school for the first time

00:50:44

in a traditional school.

00:50:45

They've been homeschooled before that.

00:50:46

And so I wanted to incentivize them towards grades

00:50:49

because they never had grades. Right?

00:50:51

And so I decided I was going to value their grades

00:50:55

so that they would value their grades.

00:50:57

So I said, "I'll give you 20 bucks for an A,

00:50:59

I'll give you 25 bucks for an A+.

00:51:01

I'll give you 15 bucks for a B and so on.

00:51:04

And I'll give you a bonus if you get straight A's."

00:51:06

And in my mind I'm like, "What do they have,

00:51:08

like, three classes a piece? I don't know."

00:51:10

No. They have 7 or 8 apparently, didn't know that.

00:51:14

My wife's looking at me like, "What are you doing?"

00:51:17

So they all got straight A's and I'm very poor.

00:51:20

So I had to have a conversation.

00:51:23

Management is just making some adjustments

00:51:24

to our compensation structure for the next quarter.

00:51:26

You know, talk them through that, overvalued it.

00:51:30

And this is what we're afraid of is that someday

00:51:32

we're gonna be caught in this place

00:51:33

where we have overvalued ourselves.

00:51:35

But again, that is utterly impossible.

00:51:37

You cannot overvalue yourself.

00:51:39

God is proud of you.

00:51:41

He says you are a masterpiece.

00:51:43

How do I know? Well, how do you know a work

00:51:47

is something the artist is proud of?

00:51:51

They sign their name on it. That's how.

00:51:53

Do you know that the Bible says that

00:51:55

God has signed his name on you?

00:51:57

It says it in a few places. 2 Corinthians 1:21:

00:52:00

Now it is God who makes both us and you

00:52:03

stand firm in Christ.

00:52:04

He anointed us, set His seal of ownership on us.

00:52:08

Meaning his signet ring.

00:52:09

He has stamped it, his signature,

00:52:11

the thing that says, I made this.

00:52:13

Set His seal of ownership on us,

00:52:15

and put His Spirit in our hearts as a deposit,

00:52:17

guaranteeing what is to come.

00:52:20

Even more directly, I love this picture

00:52:23

out of the very end of the Bible in Revelation 22.

00:52:26

They will see his face,

00:52:28

and His name will be on their foreheads.

00:52:33

God goes, "I'm going to sign you

00:52:36

in the most publicly visible place,

00:52:40

because I want everyone to know that I made you.

00:52:44

I want everyone to know that I'm proud of you.

00:52:48

And I want you every time you see yourself

00:52:50

in a mirror to see it every single time."

00:52:53

He has made you.

00:52:56

And by the way, maybe the best part of the news,

00:52:58

the middle two words of the verse,

00:53:00


00:53:05

Present tense. Not I already did. It's done.

00:53:09

Not not past tense. Not I was. I am.

00:53:11

There's a present-ness to how God is making you.

00:53:14

See, He is still making you.

00:53:16

You are not done at all.

00:53:19

He's still in the process of forming you.

00:53:22

Do you know who wrote Psalm 139?

00:53:25

It's King David.

00:53:26

Not at the beginning of his life,

00:53:27

but at the end of his life.

00:53:28

Which means he wrote this Psalm

00:53:30

after he had had an affair,

00:53:32

after he had utterly failed as a father,

00:53:34

and his son Absalom had rebelled against him,

00:53:36

after he had rebelled against God

00:53:38

and taken a census that cost

00:53:40

tens of thousands of people their lives.

00:53:42

After all these things that conclusively prove

00:53:45

that David wasn't maybe the perfect thing,

00:53:47

all the way finished, all the way done.

00:53:49

After all of that, David said, "I praise You

00:53:52

because I am fearfully and wonderfully made."

00:53:57

How in the world could he do that?

00:54:00

How could David possibly say that

00:54:03

when he had conclusively seen his limitations,

00:54:05

conclusively seeing all of his outages

00:54:07

and all the places that maybe

00:54:09

weren't fully formed in him, how could he say that?

00:54:12

It's because David knew the truth.

00:54:14

You and I live our life on the wheel.

00:54:18

This is us currently, right now in your life,

00:54:21

you are on the wheel.

00:54:22

If you're not dead yet, you're on the wheel.

00:54:25

He's not done with you.

00:54:26

I hope that's good news for you.

00:54:27

I don't know where in your life

00:54:29

you stopped thinking you can grow.

00:54:32

As adults I think this hits us,

00:54:33

right, at some point we go like, "Man,

00:54:35

I'm just trying to fight off decay and decline.

00:54:37

That's all I'm trying to do.

00:54:38

Keep that back limber. You know, whatever."

00:54:40

We give up our dreams of having an impact

00:54:42

and making a difference,

00:54:43

of having a bigger purpose,

00:54:44

and we just settle into the grind of

00:54:46

the day after day after day of raising kids

00:54:48

and getting groceries and planning dinner

00:54:50

and the things and all the --

00:54:52

We just fall into this monotony thinking that

00:54:53

this is who we are.

00:54:55

And what goes along with that is that

00:54:56

the way that I am is the way that I always will be.

00:54:59

No, that's not the gospel.

00:55:01

The gospel says that the worst you

00:55:03

that will ever exist is the you right now,

00:55:05

because tomorrow's you will be better.

00:55:07

Why? Because God's still working.

00:55:08

You're on the wheel, that's why.

00:55:10

He will make you more confident, more patient,

00:55:12

more joyful, more loving,

00:55:14

more whatever it is you hope to be

00:55:16

and less of whatever God doesn't want in you.

00:55:18

He's making you still,

00:55:21

no matter what's going on in your life.

00:55:23

Jeremiah 18:1 says:

00:55:25

This is the word that came to Jeremiah from the Lord:

00:55:29

"Go down to the to the potter's house,

00:55:31

and there I'll give you my message."

00:55:33

So I went down to the potter's house,

00:55:35

and I saw him working at the wheel.

00:55:37

But the pot he was shaping from the clay

00:55:39

was marred in his hands;

00:55:41

so the potter formed it into another pot,

00:55:44

shaping it as seemed best to him.

00:55:46

Then the word of the Lord came to me.

00:55:48

He said, "Can I not do with you, Israel,

00:55:51

as this potter does?" declares the Lord.

00:55:53

"Like clay in the hand of the potter,

00:55:56

so are you in My hand?"

00:56:00

See, you're not done. You're not over.

00:56:04

That pot I threw down, he made into a new pot.

00:56:06

This is exactly what God does with your life.

00:56:08

Even if you trash it, even if you throw it away,

00:56:11

even if you mess up, even if you critique it,

00:56:13

God patiently picks you up, puts you on the wheel,

00:56:16

and gets back to work.

00:56:18

That's the gospel of grace for you. It's the gospel.

00:56:24

2 Corinthians 4:16 says:

00:56:26

We do not lose heart.

00:56:27

Though our outer self is self is wasting away,

00:56:29

our inner self is being renewed day by day.

00:56:34

Every single day.

00:56:37

Last week at the start of this series,

00:56:39

I told you it was very powerful.

00:56:40

It really was. It was amazing.

00:56:42

We had a moment for people to come forward

00:56:44

who wanted to receive healing prayer,

00:56:45

and that's basically just, if you think about it,

00:56:47

a way of saying anybody who wants to get better

00:56:50

come forward, right?

00:56:52

We had 2400 people come forward for prayer,

00:56:54

people chatting in online. Absolutely incredible.

00:56:57

If you are one of the 300 prayer volunteers,

00:56:59

thank you, thank you, thank you

00:57:00

for giving up your weekend and praying for people.

00:57:03

We've heard so many stories of healing.

00:57:05

I actually, just after the last service,

00:57:07

got handed a note by somebody who really wanted

00:57:09

to get to the person who prayed for them,

00:57:10

who happened to be Josh Seurkamp,

00:57:12

who I mentioned earlier leading the staff prayer.

00:57:14

Said she said, "Josh prayed for my knee

00:57:16

and my knee has been great ever since.

00:57:17

I want him to know. It's incredible."

00:57:19

Heard all these healings, which by the way,

00:57:21

if you came forward for healing prayer

00:57:23

and it didn't happen immediately,

00:57:25

do not lose heart. You're still on the wheel.

00:57:28

It's okay. Keep pressing in. Keep praying.

00:57:31

God is not done with you at all.

00:57:35

Now, who came forward for prayer?

00:57:39

Think about that. Who came forward for prayer?

00:57:42

It was the people who believed they could get better.

00:57:45

Who didn't come forward for prayer?

00:57:48

It was the people who believe they can't.

00:57:52

I just press on you just a little bit.

00:57:53

Again, I don't mean this in any sense

00:57:55

of judgment or condemnation.

00:57:56

Please, please, please, that's not my heart.

00:57:58

Please don't hear that.

00:57:59

If you were here and you had something

00:58:01

in your life that needed prayer

00:58:03

that you believe could,

00:58:04

that you wanted to get better.

00:58:06

If you didn't come forward for prayer,

00:58:08

maybe the excuse you made was

00:58:09

you needed to beat traffic,

00:58:10

or you needed to get out of here for something.

00:58:12

But can we just be honest?

00:58:14

Underneath of that you probably could have been late.

00:58:16

You probably could have sat

00:58:17

in five minutes of traffic, right?

00:58:19

Wouldn't that have been worth it

00:58:20

for a chance to get better, if you believed

00:58:23

you actually could be?

00:58:26

I sat in my seat last weekend,

00:58:27

heard that call for prayer.

00:58:29

And I'm very fortunate, I don't have anything

00:58:30

in my body currently that's like, man, I need,

00:58:32

you know, my knee hurts or my elbow or whatever.

00:58:35

And so I wasn't planning on going forward.

00:58:36

And then I heard Brian say, you know,

00:58:38

"The thing I want God to heal in me

00:58:40

is my self-centeredness."

00:58:41

And I was like, "Oh, right."

00:58:43

And I thought about that morning

00:58:44

how I'd been harsh with my kids

00:58:46

and the day before been harsh with my family.

00:58:49

And I just felt like this, "Oh my gosh, God,

00:58:51

that's right. I have a vision of,

00:58:53

I think you want me to become gentle."

00:58:55

Aggression and strength and that kind of,

00:58:58

that comes really naturally to me.

00:58:59

The gentle, humble, gentle, kind,

00:59:01

that takes much more work and much more effort.

00:59:04

And I just went, "God, I want You to make me that way."

00:59:07

So I went forward and I asked for prayer.

00:59:09

And a great volunteer named Pam prayed for me

00:59:10

and I said, "You know, I want God to make me gentle."

00:59:13

And she actually shared that was her word

00:59:14

a few years ago that God gave her

00:59:15

and how God had healed her and had made her better,

00:59:17

and how she was more gentle,

00:59:19

and how thankful her family was because of it.

00:59:21

And I'll tell you, since receiving that prayer,

00:59:23

it's not that God's done, it's not all the way done.

00:59:26

But man, I found it so much easier to be gentle

00:59:28

because God has me on the wheel.

00:59:31

See, it's okay.

00:59:32

When you embrace this picture of your life,

00:59:34

all of a sudden the things that

00:59:36

aren't exactly perfect become much more bearable,

00:59:39

become much more hopeful because you know

00:59:41

that God's not done with you.

00:59:43

Philippians 1:6 says:

00:59:45

I am sure of this,

00:59:46

that He who began a good work in you

00:59:48

will bring it to completion

00:59:50

at the day of Jesus Christ.

00:59:52

God will finish you.

00:59:54

And because of all those things,

00:59:57

David writes the first words,

00:59:59


01:00:07

And if you haven't agreed with God about that,

01:00:10

let me just encourage you that before you praise Him,

01:00:13

I would just encourage you to repent

01:00:15

of not believing him.

01:00:16

And that might sound harsh.

01:00:17

Repentance doesn't mean you have to grovel and feel horrible.

01:00:19

It doesn't mean that at all.

01:00:21

It means you can just say to God,

01:00:22

"I recognize that I have not agreed with You."

01:00:25

Humility is agreeing with God.

01:00:27

Pride is saying, "I know more than Him."

01:00:29

And see, when you critique the art,

01:00:31

whether or not you intend to,

01:00:32

you have criticized the artist.

01:00:35

Just say, "God, I'm sorry.

01:00:37

I believe that who I am

01:00:40

is fearfully and wonderfully made.

01:00:42

Help me see it even more.

01:00:43

Help me bring to my reality.

01:00:45

And may it cause me to praise You."

01:00:48

We're going to take the rest of our time

01:00:49

and we're just going to praise God.

01:00:51

Go back to that exercise that we did

01:00:53

all those months ago as a staff in prayer,

01:00:54

and thank God for a way that He's made us.

01:00:57

Something about us that we're grateful for,

01:01:01

that we want to praise Him for.

01:01:03

So get your clay back out,

01:01:05

if it's not in your hand right now.

01:01:06

And I want you to just think and consider

01:01:10

how has God made you?

01:01:13

Maybe it's something that

01:01:15

used to be a frustration for you,

01:01:17

but now you can see a strength in it.

01:01:20

Maybe it's something that you dreamed of as a kid

01:01:23

and you've given up on it.

01:01:24

Maybe it's that people, when they look at you,

01:01:26

they say that you're wise.

01:01:28

They seek you out for advice.

01:01:29

If that's the case, make a little owl.

01:01:32

Maybe it's that God's made you uncommonly strong.

01:01:34

Life has thrown punch after punch after punch

01:01:36

at you, but you're still here and you're still going.

01:01:38

If so, make something that represents strength.

01:01:41

A barbell or a lion or an elephant.

01:01:45

If it is something, like I mentioned a ballerina earlier,

01:01:48

graceful and beautiful. Make a ballerina slipper.

01:01:52

Make the thing that would tell God

01:01:54

that you agree with Him, and you want to praise Him

01:01:57

for how Ge's made you.

01:02:00

As we do this exercise, as we praise God

01:02:02

and you can just stay in your seat

01:02:03

for this if you want to.

01:02:05

Justin's going to sing a song that talks about that.

01:02:08

And the whole time I want you

01:02:10

to have a conversation with God.

01:02:11

And I know, I know, I got to run out.

01:02:13

I got to get the thing. Don't do that yet.

01:02:15

Just -- just hang on.

01:02:16

Spend the next couple of minutes

01:02:18

having a conversation with God about how He's made you.

01:02:21

And if you don't have one come to mind, ask Him.

01:02:24

Say, "God, would you give me a picture

01:02:26

of how You've made me?

01:02:28

Because I want to praise You."

01:09:26

- That's the gospel.

01:09:29

You're not a lump of clay.

01:09:32

You're not a random accident.

01:09:35

You're a masterpiece made by

01:09:37

the creator of the universe who thought about you

01:09:39

before the foundations of the earth

01:09:41

were ever put into place and said,

01:09:43

"I'm excited to make you!"

01:09:47

I don't know what you made to thank God.

01:09:49

I made a question mark, it represents curiosity.

01:09:53

It's the thing I'm most thankful for

01:09:55

about how God has made me. It's a gift from Him.

01:09:58

I have this innate sense of just asking questions

01:10:00

and being curious, and it makes me a learner.

01:10:03

It's so great and I love it from God.

01:10:05

It's a gift and my and my response is to say,

01:10:07

"God, I praise You because of how you made me.

01:10:11

You made me fearfully and wonderfully."

01:10:14

And guess what? He made you that way too.

01:10:19

I hope you said thank You to Him as we sang that song.

01:10:23

God, I thank You for the truth of your gospel,

01:10:26

that is always better than all of the imposters.

01:10:31

I thank You for the reality of the fact

01:10:33

that You've made us.

01:10:34

And I just pray, God, for everyone here,

01:10:36

particularly the person who walked in

01:10:39

believing they were just a lump of nothing.

01:10:43

God, that You would reform their identity,

01:10:46

that they'd say yes to You.

01:10:47

And I just say, if you've never said

01:10:49

yes to Jesus before, you can do it

01:10:50

for the very first time.

01:10:51

You just say, "Jesus, I believe You are

01:10:53

who You say You are, and I say yes

01:10:58

to everything You have for me.

01:11:01

You define me because You made me. Amen.

01:11:08

- Hey, thank you so much for joining us today.

01:11:10

Now, while it's impossible for us to ship out

01:11:12

little pieces of clay to everyone on the planet,

01:11:15

I hope that you were connected with something

01:11:17

that Kyle shared today, that it resonated with you,

01:11:20

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01:11:23

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01:11:25

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01:11:27

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01:11:28

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01:11:30

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01:11:31

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