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- Well, hey,
welcome to Crossroads.
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If you're new here
we are a church
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and a community of people
meeting all over the globe.
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Some meet in church
buildings like this one,
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but others meet online
or actually in homes,
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coffee shops, or even bars.
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My name is Andy and I lead
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our Crossroads
Anywhere community
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of people meeting
all over the globe.
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Now we're about to
start our time together
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with some worship,
which is just using music
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to remind ourselves
what's true about God
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and what God says
is true about us.
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Then we're going to
hear some teaching
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from our lead
pastor Kyle Ranson.
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And no matter who you are,
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what you believe
about God or the church
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or religion, or no matter
how your year is going so far,
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whether you're full of
excitement and energy
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or whether it's been really,
really rough since New Years,
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we're glad that you're here
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and hope that you
can hear how God
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has fresh vision and
encouragement for you
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as you head into
2025 and beyond.
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So sing with us, join in.
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We're so glad you're
here with us today.
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- What's up, everyone?
Welcome to Crossroads.
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So glad that you're here.
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My name is Eric
if we haven't met.
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Won't you stand to your feet?
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I just want you to know,
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no matter what you
believe about God,
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you're in the right place
and you're welcome here.
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We're going to start by
singing some songs to Jesus.
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Let's do it.
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- Yeah, that's. That's it.
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By the way, my name is Kyle.
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Welcome to everybody.
Welcome here.
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Welcome online, at our sites.
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Happy Martin Luther King Jr.
Weekend.
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Glad that you are with us.
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When you walked in,
if you're at a site,
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you got a little packet of clay.
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You can go ahead
and get that out.
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If you're watching online
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and you want to
want to follow along,
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make the service more tactile,
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grab something around
your house or apartment
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or coffee shop or wherever
that you can squish.
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It can be your kid's Play-Doh.
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You can go ahead and steal
that from them. That's fine.
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Some Silly Putty,
whatever it takes.
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If you don't have
anything like that,
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grab a pen,
something to draw with
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and follow along with us.
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Now, if you're in a room,
we gave you this clay
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for a very,
very important reason.
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We wanted to see who has ADHD,
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and the answer
would be those of us
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who've already
been playing with it
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and messing with it, and are now
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just pretending to
pull it out of the bag.
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If that's you. Welcome.
That's me too.
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Glad you're with us.
That's awesome.
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Everybody take it out
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and just start squishing
it around in your hands.
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See that clay in
your hands has to do
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with what we're
talking about today.
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We're examining this
piece of the gospel
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and hoping to make it
more personal and tactile,
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that we can feel it,
that we can walk out of here
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changed and reshaped, just like
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you're reshaping
that clay right now.
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And then that
piece of the gospel
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that we're going to
look at is the claim
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that you and I
are not accidents,
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that we are made by
a God who loves us
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and intended us
and purposed our life.
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I think there's no
more appropriate topic
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that we could be
covering this weekend
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that honors a man
who gave his life
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to literally share that message
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that all life has value,
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regardless of the
color of your skin,
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or whether you're
a man or a woman
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or anything else,
that you have infinite worth
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and value because
you've been made
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by the creator of the universe.
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We're going to sing a
song right now together
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that talks about that.
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It says that God
is the one thing
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who can tell us
what we're made for.
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Why? Because He's
the one who made us.
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- Come on, sing it again.
You are the one.
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- Lord, we stand before
You in silence right now,
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and all of Your beauty
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maybe wondering
if we could actually
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believe those words to be true,
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that You made us
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and you're the one
thing I was made for.
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I want to believe it, Lord.
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I want to walk with You
and give my heart to You.
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I pray all this because of you,
Jesus. Amen. Amen.
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It's great to be together.
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You might have wondered
what was in that white bag
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when somebody handed it to you.
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I don't know. I don't know.
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Maybe you were confused a bit,
but now you know,
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now you know
it's a piece of clay.
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Hey, why don't you turn
to somebody next to you
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and say, "Hey,
I'm glad to be here with you."
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If you're joining us online,
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glad you're here with us, too.
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Then you can have a seat.
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- Crossroads is a movement of
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regular, normal, everyday people
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growing closer to God
and changing the world.
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Now,
I know firsthand that I grow
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and get to a new place
with God and in my life
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when I'm surrounded
by a community of people
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who are both going to
challenge me when I need it
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and give me a
shoulder when I need it.
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Now,
this is a really big church,
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but that also means there's
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a really great
opportunity for you to find
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a group of people
that work for you,
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and I'm positive that
there's one for you here.
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You can actually head
to Crossroads.net/groups.
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There's actually even
a groups quiz tool
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to help you find your best fit
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for your current stage of life.
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And I get it,
if that's overwhelming for you,
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we can do some
personalized help for you.
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We'd love to do this for you.
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It's actually why my
whole team exists.
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You can just text
Anywhere to 301301.
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We'd love to help
you get connected.
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Now a reminder Crossroads
is made up of normal people,
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and these same normal
people are the ones
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who give money
and actually fund all of
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the great stuff that
happens around Crossroads
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all year long,
including the service
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that you're watching right
now and so much more.
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If you'd like to join the
team of faithful people,
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or just learn more about
what Crossroads believes
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and how we spend money,
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you can just head to
Crossroads.net/give.
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I'll stop talking now
and get out of the way.
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Let's hear from our
Lead Pastor Kyle Ranson
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as we continue in our
series Leave Lies Behind.
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- Well, hey. Welcome again.
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You are joining us
for the second week
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of a series that we
started last week
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about the fake gospels
versus the real gospel.
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Last week was amazing,
by the way,
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if you missed it,
I highly encourage you
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to catch up on it.
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Best way to do that is
in the Crossroads app.
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Don't have it? Download it.
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I really honestly
believe if you do that
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you will learn something
that will bless your life.
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Speaking of learning something,
I was way too old
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when I learned how
babies are made.
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Okay, it wasn't my fault.
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I mean,
and by that I mean it was.
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The problem was, I thought
I knew how it all worked,
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and so I didn't go
looking for the truth.
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I thought I had the truth.
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And then one Saturday morning,
late morning,
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my dad found me and he said,
"Hey, Kyle,
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do you know how
babies are made?"
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I thought that was a bit
odd that he was asking me.
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Said, "Yes, I do."
He said, "Okay. How?"
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"Well,
I'll explain it to you, dad.
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See, what happens is,
um, well, you know,
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uh, well, here's what I think.
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I think when a mom and
dad want to have a baby,
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they go to the doctor. Probably.
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And the doctor gives them,
like, a baby pill
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that the mom takes
and then the baby grows
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inside of her stomach
where it eats leftover pizza
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and Diet Coke,
probably, and it grows.
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You know what, dad?
It turns out I'm not real sure."
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Which, by the way,
if you're in this room
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and you don't know
how babies are made,
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I'm not going to explain
it to you right now at all.
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I'm not going to do that,
but you can email
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Brian.Tome@crossroads.net
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and he will give
you all the facts.
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He really will. It'll be great.
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See, the thing was, I didn't.
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I didn't know because I
thought I had the truth.
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And the best way to keep someone
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from finding the real
truth is to convince them
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that they already have it.
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And this is what's
gone on in our world
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when it comes to the gospel.
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It's this word that
we hear all the time.
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And the reality of our world is
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there are so many
gospels shouting at us.
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Gospel doesn't mean
anything particularly religious.
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It just means good news.
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It's any claim that anyone has
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about the best
way to live your life,
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to have a good life.
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Some of them involve God,
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some of them don't involve God.
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There's all of these
gospels out there
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and we have to decide
which one is real.
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The Bible talks about this,
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actually warns us a
lot against fake gospels.
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One place is Galatians 1:6.
Paul writes:
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Paul says, "I'm just blown away
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that you're leaving the gospel,
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the grace of Christ,
that's the real gospel,
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the gospel of grace,
for another one."
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Which he says isn't another one.
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In other words, it's a fake.
It's an impostor.
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There's actually
only one gospel.
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Today we're going to dive
into that gospel of grace.
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And as I mentioned earlier,
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unless you hit the
jump to message button,
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which if you're watching online,
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grab something to sculpt with,
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jump right back here.
Keep going. Okay, cool.
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At the beginning I
mentioned this claim
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that God actually made us.
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That's all throughout the Bible,
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but most clearly it's in
these words from Psalm.
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Psalm 139:14. It's ten
words that form this one claim.
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And the rest of our
time is going to be spent
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in this one claim,
digging into it
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and deciding for each of
us in a very personal way
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do we believe these words
and can we say them?
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The words are these. It says:
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I praise You because I am
fearfully and wonderfully made.
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See, the foundation of
the real gospel of grace
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is that you are fearfully
and wonderfully made,
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and therefore you need
to praise God because of it.
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I'm telling you, in your life,
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nothing will change your
life more than believing that.
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Nothing will give
you more peace.
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Nothing will give you more joy.
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Nothing will give
you more confidence.
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What I find is that even
people who believe in God
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sometimes miss believing that.
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Let's pray that right
now that happens
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for all of us, that today
we take a step forward.
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Let's pray together
before we go any further.
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God, thank You for
being here with us.
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I believe You are.
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I believe You're
present right now
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and that You want to form
each and every one of us.
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I ask that every single
person in this room,
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every single person
watching online,
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every single person
listening to this as a podcast,
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all of us, God,
would take a step closer
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to believing this and
embracing it fully,
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that we are fearfully
and wonderfully made
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and we would praise
You because of it. Amen.
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Now, throughout the Bible,
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the most common picture for God
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making us fearfully
and wonderfully
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is actually God as a
potter and we are clay.
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One place this shows up very,
very clearly,
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Isaiah 64:8 says: But now,
O Lord,
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You are our Father.
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We are the clay,
and You are our potter.
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We are all the
work of Your hand.
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That's why J.W. is up here.
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Can we just say
thank you to J.W.
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making beautiful
pottery this entire time?
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It's very -- I'm just
going to give you the,
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you know, sometimes we're subtle
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at Crossroads, subtle metaphors.
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I don't want to be
subtle this weekend.
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This is what the Bible says,
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that God is a master sculptor
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and that He has scooped
you out of the earth
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and that He's carefully,
intentionally forming you,
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uniquely,
He has a design for you.
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That is the claim.
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That's the real gospel of grace,
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you are fearfully and
wonderfully made.
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But there are other gospels,
and primarily
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I want to look at
two fake gospels
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that try to impinge
on this belief,
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that specifically,
go after this one area
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about being made.
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There's a secular gospel.
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It says that you're not made,
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instead you're random and
you need to be proud of it.
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That's the secular gospel.
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You're random and
need to be proud of it.
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And then there's also
the religious gospel
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that says, yes, you're made,
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but not fearfully
and wonderfully.
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You are common and
you need to accept it.
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At best you're average.
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You're probably
a disappointment.
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The best thing you can
do is just accept that,
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believe that, live that.
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That's the religious gospel.
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Both of those I
believe are false,
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and both of them,
I believe, are prevalent.
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Why? Because of how
this message started for me.
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This started as a
burn at work one day.
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And I know I work at a
church and a lot of people
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you don't understand what we do,
not on Sundays.
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You know what I mean?
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Like on Sundays, everyone's
like, I get it, you know?
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Or the Thursday
night service at Oakley,
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you're like,
"I get it what you do, but like,
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what do you do the
rest of the week?
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You know, like, you guys
practice baptizing people?
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You know?"
Yeah we do, we have lawnmowers
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and we just -- we just do that.
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It's like a really turns
out same muscles
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really works it out.
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You got an important part is
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raising the back
up out of the water.
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So we -- No,
of course -- our job is a lot
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like what your job
is probably like.
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We have meetings
and we have schedules
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and we do planning
and we meet with people
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and stuff like that.
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But there is one thing we
do that's probably unique
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from wherever you work
is that we pray together
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every morning as a
staff in different teams
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and different groups.
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And the reason we
do that is because
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we're going for stuff
here at Crossroads
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that's beyond our capacity.
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And so we invite
God into it and we say,
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"God, said, God,
we can't do this without You."
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One morning,
back in probably late November
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or early December,
I was at one of these
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staff prayer meetings
and the guy leading it,
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Josh Surkamp.
He's an amazing guy,
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amazing leader
here at Crossroads.
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And he was leading us
in a gratitude exercise.
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And he said, "Today
we're going to do something
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that might be
uncomfortable for you."
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He said,
"Today we're going to praise God
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for how He's made us."
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He's like, "I want you
to think of something
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very specific about
how God has made you,
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and just pray gratitude to Him.
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And by the way,
we do this out loud
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in front of each other.
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This is not silent
in your seats,
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you know, just kind of --
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Out loud, say something
you like about yourself
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and then thank God for it."
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And I watch, and by the way,
he tied it to this verse.
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Psalm 139:14,
it says: I will praise You
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because I'm fearfully
and wonderfully made.
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And I watched for
the next 30 minutes
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and listened for
the next 30 minutes
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as my teammates who
deeply believe in the gospel
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all struggled to say thanks.
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00:31:25
Person after person
who is brave enough
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00:31:27
to say anything at all gave
the same sort of preamble.
-
00:31:29
They said, "You know,
this is actually really hard
-
00:31:31
for me because most of the time
-
00:31:33
when I think about myself,
the things I think
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00:31:35
aren't that great at all,
it's difficult.
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00:31:37
It's difficult to say it out
loud in front of people.
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00:31:40
It's very hard."
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00:31:42
And I'm telling you,
it was heartbreaking.
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00:31:46
And I left that
experience and I thought,
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00:31:47
if this is so hard for us
who work on a church staff
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00:31:52
who are surrounded by
the gospel day after day,
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00:31:57
how much harder is
it for everybody else?
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00:32:01
That was the birth
of this message.
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00:32:03
That's where the
burn for it started.
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00:32:05
Now, as we examine this,
I want to start
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00:32:08
at the end of the verse.
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00:32:09
Let me just say too,
if that's you,
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00:32:11
incredible empathy.
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00:32:13
I have been in
that spot in my life
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00:32:14
where it's very
difficult to think about
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00:32:16
anything that I
like about myself.
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00:32:18
I'll talk about that more later.
I've been there.
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00:32:20
And if that's where you are now,
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00:32:22
if that hit you just then,
let me just say
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00:32:24
you are in the right spot.
-
00:32:25
It doesn't matter if
you believe in Jesus.
-
00:32:27
It doesn't matter
if you like church.
-
00:32:28
If you're here and
you're listening,
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00:32:30
you are in the right
spot and you're welcome.
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00:32:31
I'm honored that you're with us.
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00:32:33
I hope that this helps you
and pushes you forward.
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00:32:35
Now we're going to start
at the end of the verse
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00:32:37
is this word "made."
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00:32:39
I praise You because I am
fearfully and wonderfully made.
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00:32:43
See the foundational
thought and the whole thing
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00:32:45
is that word: Are you
made or are you not?
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00:32:50
This is the word where
the secular gospel
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00:32:52
and the real gospel
diverge sharply,
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00:32:56
because the secular gospel
says that you're random
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00:32:59
and you need to be proud of it.
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00:33:01
In other word for
random is accident.
-
00:33:04
This is kind of the basic idea
-
00:33:05
of how did you start?
You weren't made.
-
00:33:07
Instead you were
a random accident
-
00:33:09
that the universe
just sort of randomly,
-
00:33:12
spontaneously, with no intent,
-
00:33:15
no intelligence behind it,
no design, no purpose.
-
00:33:18
It wasn't, and then it was.
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00:33:21
That is the origin story
in the secular gospel.
-
00:33:25
The other day, my son
looked at my daughter Gracie,
-
00:33:30
and he said, "Gracie, no
offense, but your feet stink."
-
00:33:34
And then she was
offended and he was like,
-
00:33:36
"I said, 'No offense.'"
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00:33:39
And I had to kind
of explain to him,
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00:33:41
unfortunately, that's not how
that phrase works, actually.
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00:33:46
And so at risk of
doing the same thing,
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00:33:48
let me just say to those of us
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00:33:50
who currently believe
in this secular gospel
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00:33:52
that the origins of you
are that you're not made,
-
00:33:55
but you're just random
and an accident.
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00:33:58
No offense,
but I find it strange that
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00:34:03
the very same people
who would look at me
-
00:34:05
and say, "I can't believe
an intelligent person
-
00:34:08
would ever believe in
the virgin birth of Jesus
-
00:34:12
themselves believe in the
virgin birth of the universe.
-
00:34:16
That there's no mother,
there's no father,
-
00:34:18
there's no creator,
there's no originator,
-
00:34:20
just, poof, kind of happened.
-
00:34:22
That defies logic to me.
-
00:34:25
I mean,
if you walked in this room
-
00:34:28
and you saw a pot being made,
-
00:34:31
would you assume that
that was just random?
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00:34:35
No.
You might be like, "Well, yeah.
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00:34:37
I mean, because, you know, J.W.
is there
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00:34:39
and he's making it right now.
Cool. Awesome."
-
00:34:42
Imagine he wasn't here.
-
00:34:43
Imagine you walked in
and you saw this shelf.
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00:34:45
Would any of you walk up and go,
"You know what?
-
00:34:48
I put 50 bucks on
that probably just, like,
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00:34:50
popped out of nothing"?
No, of course not.
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00:34:56
And yet,
this is the belief that forms
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00:34:58
the foundation of the
entire secular gospel.
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00:35:01
That's a massive problem,
-
00:35:02
but it's actually
not the biggest one.
-
00:35:03
The logical gap is
not the biggest one.
-
00:35:05
The biggest problem
is the emotional gap.
-
00:35:08
Because, see,
when you're an accident,
-
00:35:10
when you have no intent,
when you have no design,
-
00:35:13
when everything
is truly just random,
-
00:35:16
you don't have any value
-
00:35:19
and it's really, really hard
to get around that fact.
-
00:35:24
Really hard.
-
00:35:25
And I know some of us, again,
we feel this way right now.
-
00:35:28
I know some of us we
feel just kind of random.
-
00:35:30
You know? We don't know
that we have any purpose.
-
00:35:32
We don't feel any
sense of design.
-
00:35:34
There's no rhyme or logic.
-
00:35:36
Life feels random.
Life feels chaotic.
-
00:35:40
And because of that, we feel
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00:35:41
deeply, deeply unwanted,
deeply unloved,
-
00:35:45
deeply unvalued.
-
00:35:48
I'll just say, if that's you,
if you're in here
-
00:35:50
and you believe the
secular gospel, again,
-
00:35:52
so honored you're here.
-
00:35:53
So glad that you're with us.
It's amazing.
-
00:35:55
Can I just gently
ask you a question?
-
00:35:58
Is it working for you?
-
00:36:00
Is it making you happy?
-
00:36:02
Is it the good news that's
leading you to a good life?
-
00:36:06
Because if it's not,
doesn't that mean it's fake?
-
00:36:10
If it's not delivering
on the promise,
-
00:36:12
doesn't that mean it's fake?
-
00:36:14
And I'd love to offer
you good news that
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00:36:16
the Bible says
you're not a mistake.
-
00:36:18
No one in this room is,
no one watching is,
-
00:36:20
no one's a mistake.
Everyone has been made.
-
00:36:25
And because of that,
you have value.
-
00:36:28
See, the gospel says
that all life has value,
-
00:36:30
a foundational part
of the entire gospel,
-
00:36:32
all life has value.
-
00:36:36
We believe that
here at Crossroads
-
00:36:37
and we live it out.
-
00:36:38
In fact, a quick aside,
just in case
-
00:36:41
you're curious, there have been
-
00:36:43
all over the news headlines,
-
00:36:45
stories about the
California wildfires
-
00:36:46
and people losing houses
and being displaced
-
00:36:49
and all sorts of things.
-
00:36:50
We honestly believe
that all life has value.
-
00:36:52
And so pleased to tell you,
if you're a giver
-
00:36:54
here at Crossroads,
you've helped make this happen.
-
00:36:56
Just yesterday,
we were able to release $50,000
-
00:37:00
to go to Convoy
of Hope to help with
-
00:37:02
the disaster
relief in California.
-
00:37:05
I want you to know
you're a part of that.
-
00:37:07
You're an absolute part of that.
So that's going to go,
-
00:37:09
that's going to help 1250
families for two weeks
-
00:37:13
have food and water
and air purification,
-
00:37:15
and hopefully make it through
-
00:37:16
to the other side
of this tragedy.
-
00:37:19
Why would we do that?
-
00:37:21
Because we believe
that every life has value,
-
00:37:23
every single one of them.
-
00:37:26
The Bible says that
we have been made,
-
00:37:30
but not just made.
-
00:37:31
Do you notice in
that verse it says
-
00:37:33
really specifically,
there's two adverbs
-
00:37:35
attached to how we've been made.
-
00:37:37
Not carelessly.
Not accidentally.
-
00:37:41
It says fearfully
and wonderfully.
-
00:37:46
Now, that word
fearfully is a little bit odd,
-
00:37:48
right?
We tend to use the word fear
-
00:37:50
it has to do with being scary.
-
00:37:51
And that's not the
context for this word.
-
00:37:53
This word fearfully
does not mean scarily.
-
00:37:56
Instead,
what it means is awesomely,
-
00:38:00
with reverence.
-
00:38:01
And the word
wonderfully actually means
-
00:38:04
distinctly, uniquely created.
-
00:38:06
It's distinguished
from one another.
-
00:38:10
And so the claim of
the gospel is not just that
-
00:38:12
you were made like in
a big batch. You know?
-
00:38:15
God doesn't really make
things that sell at Costco.
-
00:38:18
I'm going to make
a 12 pack of Kim's
-
00:38:21
and they're all
going to be the same.
-
00:38:23
That's not God.
-
00:38:24
God says,
I'm going to go to each person
-
00:38:26
individually and
uniquely make them.
-
00:38:30
That is the claim of the gospel.
-
00:38:33
Those things
together form this idea
-
00:38:34
that the Bible says that
-
00:38:36
you and I are not just made,
we are a masterpiece.
-
00:38:41
But here's where I
find that many believers,
-
00:38:44
they veer off the path of
believing the real gospel
-
00:38:47
and instead start
to fall into the trap of,
-
00:38:49
I believe, what I would
call the religious gospel,
-
00:38:52
believing the religious gospel.
-
00:38:54
That you are
actually just common,
-
00:38:56
and that what God
wants for you is
-
00:38:57
to accept how common
and plain and undeserving
-
00:39:01
and bad and
disappointing you are.
-
00:39:04
That God really
just wants us to feel
-
00:39:06
not like a pot,
but just kind of like that.
-
00:39:09
That's me. You're a lump.
You don't deserve it.
-
00:39:13
I rescued you when you were bad.
You're still bad.
-
00:39:16
And I kind of regret it.
So we think.
-
00:39:21
That's the religious lie.
That's not the gospel.
-
00:39:25
It's also not how
you and I started.
-
00:39:27
I've yet to meet a 5 year old
who believes they're average.
-
00:39:32
Haven't met that yet.
-
00:39:34
I haven't met a kid
who's 6 who walks up
-
00:39:36
and is like, "Hi,
you know my name?
-
00:39:38
My name is Tanner,
and I'm pretty common."
-
00:39:41
Never happened.
-
00:39:42
Kids are always
excited to tell you
-
00:39:43
about how great they are
and show you their work
-
00:39:46
and talk to you and
just all the stuff, right?
-
00:39:49
I mean, parents in here,
have you ever had a kid,
-
00:39:53
5 year old, 6 year old,
ever say to you,
-
00:39:55
"You know what I want
to be for Halloween?
-
00:39:58
45 year old cog in the wheel.
-
00:40:02
That's what I want to be.
That's what aiming.
-
00:40:04
That's what I really feel
inside that I really am."
-
00:40:08
No, no.
-
00:40:11
You got that clay in your hand.
-
00:40:12
I want you to get it out,
if it's not out already.
-
00:40:15
Again, those of us with ADHD,
-
00:40:16
we've been playing
with it the entire time
-
00:40:18
because we can't stop.
Totally understand.
-
00:40:19
That is 100% me. Get it out.
-
00:40:23
I want you to think
back to when you were 5,
-
00:40:26
when you were 6,
before this idea that
-
00:40:30
you were just common and
average and normal set out.
-
00:40:32
By the way,
if you're having trouble
-
00:40:34
getting it out, toothpaste it.
-
00:40:35
That's the best way.
Just kind of squish it out.
-
00:40:37
There you go.
-
00:40:40
Think back when you
were 5 or 6 years old.
-
00:40:43
What was it you dressed
up for as Halloween?
-
00:40:47
What was it you
dreamed of being?
-
00:40:51
Maybe it was a football player.
-
00:40:53
If it was, make a football.
-
00:40:54
Whatever it is,
make a thing that represents it
-
00:40:56
in your hands.
Here's a football, right?
-
00:40:59
Just kind of a football player.
-
00:41:01
Football players are powerful.
They're strong.
-
00:41:06
They have this
this air of heroism.
-
00:41:09
Maybe for you,
it was being a ballerina.
-
00:41:11
Make a little ballerina shoe.
-
00:41:14
Ballerinas are beautiful,
powerful,
-
00:41:17
sophisticated, graceful.
That's what it was.
-
00:41:19
Maybe it was
being a firefighter.
-
00:41:22
Again, this idea of
saving and being a rescuer
-
00:41:25
and a hero to people,
whatever it was,
-
00:41:27
I want you to just make
the thing that represents
-
00:41:29
what you wanted to
be or what you believed
-
00:41:32
about yourself when
you were 5 or 6 years old.
-
00:41:34
Make that thing.
-
00:41:35
Now the problem is
for every single person
-
00:41:40
I've ever met,
we don't hold on to that dream
-
00:41:43
because see life comes our way
-
00:41:45
and it just starts to squish it,
just crush it
-
00:41:49
and just make it into
something not great.
-
00:41:52
And the life that comes our way
-
00:41:53
are all the situations
that show us
-
00:41:55
that we actually have problems,
-
00:41:57
that we're not the
best at everything,
-
00:41:59
that in fact,
that some things were average
-
00:42:01
and some things were
even below average.
-
00:42:03
And so we start to believe
this about ourselves,
-
00:42:06
that there's things that
were just not good at
-
00:42:08
and so maybe were not good.
-
00:42:10
I'll just admit,
there's things I'm not good at,
-
00:42:12
particularly as a dad.
-
00:42:14
And I don't know that any dads
-
00:42:15
are actually good
at these things:
-
00:42:17
buying the right size
shoes for my kids.
-
00:42:18
Very bad at that.
-
00:42:20
I've spent an hour in
Dick's Sporting Goods, like,
-
00:42:23
doing the thumb trick. You know?
-
00:42:25
"I think that's the right,
I feel your toe.
-
00:42:26
I'm not really sure."
Get it home.
-
00:42:28
And every time Sarah's like,
"You were so close,
-
00:42:30
you bought a three and
she's actually size eight,
-
00:42:32
so that's pretty good."
Not good at that.
-
00:42:36
Dads aren't good at that.
-
00:42:37
Dads, we also aren't good at
-
00:42:39
picking up
prescriptions for our kids.
-
00:42:40
I actually think
this is something
-
00:42:42
we should take off
the table for all dads,
-
00:42:44
because it doesn't
go the same way for us
-
00:42:46
as it does for moms.
-
00:42:47
When moms roll up,
they just roll up
-
00:42:48
and they're like, "I'd like
the medicine for my child,"
-
00:42:51
and they just hand it to them.
-
00:42:52
When us dads roll up,
they give us a test.
-
00:42:56
They say, "What is the
patient's date of birth?"
-
00:43:01
And we're like, "You know,
I love my family,
-
00:43:02
but, uh, you want the numbers
or you want like a general.
-
00:43:06
I mean, I was there.
-
00:43:08
I can show you a picture
if you want, of being there."
-
00:43:10
You know, that doesn't work,
I tried that.
-
00:43:13
I think it should work
like Wheel of Fortune.
-
00:43:14
You know what I mean?
-
00:43:15
Where, like,
when you guess a one,
-
00:43:18
if there's other ones, you
also get those filled in, too.
-
00:43:21
I think that would be great.
-
00:43:22
Not good at that as a dad.
-
00:43:24
If there's something I'm
looking for in the pantry
-
00:43:26
and there's anything
else in the pantry,
-
00:43:27
also a problem for me. Not good.
-
00:43:30
Now, more than that, right?
-
00:43:32
I realized early on as a kid,
-
00:43:34
I have this memory
at a baseball practice,
-
00:43:37
and our coach was having
us run before practice.
-
00:43:42
And my whole team starts to run,
-
00:43:45
and we run to the
end of the baseball field
-
00:43:47
all the way to the
outfield of the fence.
-
00:43:48
We touch the fence
and we turn around.
-
00:43:51
And I was the last kid back.
-
00:43:55
And I wasn't just
the last kid back.
-
00:43:57
I had trouble breathing,
and I actually
-
00:44:00
had to sit out the next
15 minutes of practice.
-
00:44:04
Why? Because I had asthma.
-
00:44:06
I learned that maybe
I wasn't so strong.
-
00:44:09
Maybe I wasn't so fast.
-
00:44:12
I also, as I grew up,
I noticed that
-
00:44:14
other kids grew up and
and I just sort of like,
-
00:44:19
you know, er, er, er,
er, and then I stopped
-
00:44:22
at some point way too early.
-
00:44:24
That was kind of it for me.
-
00:44:25
I was always been very small,
always been very short.
-
00:44:27
I just noticed that about me.
-
00:44:29
Well maybe I'm not big,
maybe I'm not heroic.
-
00:44:32
You know? I also noticed,
where the other kids
-
00:44:35
in my class,
they could just pay attention
-
00:44:37
and they could, like,
do two things at once.
-
00:44:39
They could, like,
hear the teacher
-
00:44:41
and listen to instructions
and do their work.
-
00:44:45
That was not me.
I could do my work,
-
00:44:47
but whatever else was
happening around me,
-
00:44:49
I had no idea it even existed.
-
00:44:51
That's the same thing
that happens to this day.
-
00:44:53
Not even kidding.
-
00:44:54
I have to, like,
when I'm backstage,
-
00:44:56
I have to, like,
very intentionally go, like,
-
00:44:58
"You know what?
You're supposed to preach soon.
-
00:45:00
You should go out and
get on stage and start."
-
00:45:03
I will absolutely,
just completely forget.
-
00:45:05
That's called ADHD, by the way.
-
00:45:08
And I learned this about myself.
-
00:45:09
And for a long time,
all this stuff piled up
-
00:45:11
and who I thought I was
at some point in my life
-
00:45:14
was not a fearfully and
wonderfully made person,
-
00:45:17
but a deeply and
tragically flawed one.
-
00:45:19
I thought I was the lump.
-
00:45:21
I thought I was nothing.
-
00:45:23
I thought I was a small,
weak, absent minded lump.
-
00:45:29
What about you?
-
00:45:31
I wonder, in your life,
what are the things
-
00:45:33
that have added that up to you?
-
00:45:35
Was it as you walked around,
did you notice
-
00:45:37
that you were slow?
Were you too small?
-
00:45:39
Were you too big?
What is it in your life?
-
00:45:43
This happens to
every single one.
-
00:45:46
What are the hardest
parts of parenting
-
00:45:48
is actually watching your
kids enter into this phase
-
00:45:52
where they stop believing that
-
00:45:54
they're fearfully and
wonderfully made,
-
00:45:56
and they start believing
maybe they're not.
-
00:46:00
One of the highlights
of my last year
-
00:46:02
was getting to do
Christmas Eve services
-
00:46:04
with my daughter, Gracie.
-
00:46:05
If you were here,
Gracie was on stage with me.
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00:46:07
It was so incredibly
special and she read
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00:46:10
a scripture verse in
front of everybody.
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00:46:13
And when I say everybody,
just for perspective,
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00:46:16
if you're newer to Crossroads,
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00:46:17
it's a lot of people,
a lot of people.
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00:46:21
In the room that
she was reading in,
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00:46:22
the very first
service she did it
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00:46:24
was completely packed,
3500 people.
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00:46:25
There were another
1100 people in overflow
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00:46:28
at just the location
that she was at.
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00:46:30
Tens of thousands
of people heard her.
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00:46:32
And my wife asked
her before and after.
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00:46:36
She was like, "Gracie,
were were you nervous?"
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00:46:38
And Gracie's like, "No.
You know, like,
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00:46:40
why would I be nervous?"
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00:46:42
She's just got this amazing,
natural confidence.
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00:46:46
Well,
that same girl just last weekend
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00:46:49
played soccer and
she came off the field
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00:46:53
and she looked at Sarah and I,
and she goes,
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00:46:55
"I just feel like I'm
disappointing you."
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00:46:57
And she hung her head.
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00:47:00
And as a parent, it's so hard
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00:47:03
because you know those feelings.
-
00:47:05
You walked that path
and you know that
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00:47:07
I feel like I disappointed you
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00:47:10
leads to I feel like I
am a disappointment.
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00:47:14
It is heartbreaking.
-
00:47:16
And it's exactly how
God feels about you
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00:47:19
when you think the
same thing about yourself,
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00:47:22
when you look at you and you go,
"You know,
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00:47:25
I'm just not like
everybody else.
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00:47:28
Everybody else has
this nice shape to them.
-
00:47:31
I'm just too quirky."
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00:47:36
Breaks God's heart.
That's what we do to ourselves.
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00:47:39
"Oh, you know me.
I'm just kind of, I don't know,
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00:47:42
just, just too small.
Yeah, I don't know.
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00:47:46
Me, I just feel too big."
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00:47:47
That didn't break at all,
[laughter]
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00:47:52
because of how big it is,
I guess.
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00:47:55
That's God.
Look, He just listens to us
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00:47:58
make these complaints
that we think are innocent.
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00:48:01
That self-talk that
we have in our heads,
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00:48:02
I think, is the thing that
bothers God the most
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00:48:05
about the entire world.
-
00:48:06
You might look around
and point a finger
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00:48:08
at somebody else, "Bet
God's really upset about that."
-
00:48:10
No,
I think God's really upset about
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00:48:11
the way that you
talk about you to you,
-
00:48:14
that's what God's upset about.
Why?
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00:48:16
Because you're His masterpiece.
-
00:48:19
He made you fearfully.
He made you wonderfully.
-
00:48:22
He doesn't want
you to bash yourself.
-
00:48:23
He wants you to embrace
it and to praise Him for it.
-
00:48:28
Praise Him for it.
-
00:48:30
He says this in Isaiah 29:16.
He says:
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00:48:32
You turn things upside down!
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00:48:34
You've got it all wrong.
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00:48:47
In other words, the potter --
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00:48:49
The pot saying to the potter,
"You messed up.
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00:48:52
You don't know
what you're doing.
-
00:48:53
You made me wrong." No.
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00:48:57
See,
The real gospel of grace is that
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00:48:59
He formed you from clay,
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00:49:00
but you haven't stayed that way.
-
00:49:03
He breathed His life into you.
-
00:49:06
He made you from the dust.
You're not still dust.
-
00:49:09
You're not common. You've
been created by the master.
-
00:49:14
Do you know what you call
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00:49:15
a common Michelangelo sculpture?
A masterpiece.
-
00:49:22
Do you know what you call
-
00:49:24
a common Leonardo painting?
Masterpiece.
-
00:49:28
Do you know what you call
-
00:49:30
a common Frank Lloyd
Wright house? A masterpiece?
-
00:49:34
Do you know what you call a
common Keanu Reeves movie?
-
00:49:38
It's not quite the same.
Okay, I get it.
-
00:49:40
No. It's fine. Yeah.
-
00:49:42
Point is, everything
made by a master artist
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00:49:48
is, by definition,
a masterpiece. That's you.
-
00:49:53
Ephesians 2:10 says,
we are God's masterpiece.
-
00:49:56
He's created us
anew in Christ Jesus
-
00:49:58
so we can do the good
things He planned for us
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00:50:01
a long time ago.
This is the truth.
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00:50:05
If you believe in Jesus,
there is no other gospel.
-
00:50:09
I just wondered, has the
gospel of religion grabbed you?
-
00:50:12
No, I'm just common.
No, I'm just low.
-
00:50:14
No, I just --- I
think bad of myself.
-
00:50:16
No, I just need to not get too
high and not get too mighty.
-
00:50:19
No, you need to agree with God.
-
00:50:20
You know what's high and mighty?
-
00:50:21
Not agreeing with God.
That's pride.
-
00:50:23
You know what's humble?
Agreeing with Him,
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00:50:25
even if He says
something good about you.
-
00:50:26
That's the call of God.
-
00:50:28
I think we don't do it because
-
00:50:29
we're afraid of
overvaluing ourselves.
-
00:50:32
You ever overvalued something?
-
00:50:34
I did this not long ago.
-
00:50:35
My kids have gone to
school for the very first time.
-
00:50:37
Let me fact check
that for a second.
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00:50:38
They were homeschooled before.
-
00:50:40
Okay, it wasn't like we
just kind of sat around.
-
00:50:42
We went to, like, a real school
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00:50:43
for the first time
this this year.
-
00:50:45
And they never had grades
before, no report cards.
-
00:50:47
And I really wanted to
incentivize them
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00:50:49
to do good work.
And so I told them, you know,
-
00:50:53
"I'll pay you for you
for good grades,"
-
00:50:55
basically it. That's what I did.
-
00:50:56
Don't know if that's good
parenting or bad parenting.
-
00:50:58
Please don't take my advice.
Totally untested. \
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00:51:00
Try this out. And I don't know,
again, I'm a dad.
-
00:51:03
I'm not good at many things.
-
00:51:04
Like, I barely know
what school they go to,
-
00:51:06
much less how many
classes they have.
-
00:51:08
And so I just said, you know,
"I'm going to pay you
-
00:51:11
20 bucks for an A,
25 for an A+, 15 for a B.
-
00:51:15
Heck, let's throw on a bonus,
-
00:51:16
if you get straight
A's 25 more bucks."
-
00:51:19
I say this and
Sarah's looking at me
-
00:51:20
and she's like, "Oh no, oh no."
-
00:51:23
Turns out that all of
them got straight A's,
-
00:51:26
so I'm very poor
is what that means.
-
00:51:29
Totally overvalued it,
really bad.
-
00:51:31
Had to have a conversation
about, you know,
-
00:51:33
management's going
to reduce the prices
-
00:51:35
for the next semester.
-
00:51:37
So had that talk with them.
-
00:51:39
It's totally overvalued.
I think this is us.
-
00:51:42
I think that many of us
believe that we're common.
-
00:51:44
It's easier for
us to believe that
-
00:51:46
because we don't want
to overvalue ourselves.
-
00:51:48
We don't want to find
ourselves in the position
-
00:51:50
where God goes, "You
thought you were worth what?
-
00:51:53
Can't believe you'd
ever think that."
-
00:51:55
That's us, but that's
never going to happen.
-
00:51:58
God is the master.
He's proud of you.
-
00:52:01
How do I know that?
-
00:52:04
Well, because when an
artist creates something
-
00:52:07
that they're proud of,
do you know what they do to it?
-
00:52:11
They sign their name.
-
00:52:13
Do you know that God has
signed His name on you?
-
00:52:17
The Bible says this
in a couple places.
-
00:52:19
One 2 Corinthians 1:21-22,
it says:
-
00:52:30
(That means His signature on us)
-
00:52:37
And then, even more directly,
-
00:52:38
in the very last
book of the Bible,
-
00:52:40
Revelation 22:4,
it says it this way,
-
00:52:43
very explicitly. It says:
-
00:52:44
They will see His face,
-
00:52:46
and His name will
be on their foreheads.
-
00:52:50
God says, "One day
you're going to see yourself
-
00:52:54
and you're going to see yourself
-
00:52:55
as a masterpiece with
My signature on you."
-
00:52:59
Don't buy the religious gospel
-
00:53:01
that what God wants for you
-
00:53:02
is to believe you're
common and accept it.
-
00:53:04
No, what God wants
for you is to believe
-
00:53:06
that you're a masterpiece
-
00:53:08
and that He has made
you for a purpose.
-
00:53:11
That's the gospel of grace.
-
00:53:13
It doesn't matter what
mistakes you've made,
-
00:53:15
doesn't matter
what flaws you see,
-
00:53:16
none of that matters.
God isn't done with you.
-
00:53:21
This is the last piece
of this gospel of grace.
-
00:53:23
Notice that in the middle
of Psalm 139:14 it says,
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00:53:26
I praise you because I am,
two words,
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00:53:29
I am, present tense. I am.
-
00:53:32
That just means that
this isn't something
-
00:53:33
God is doing in the future.
-
00:53:35
It's not something
God has accomplished
-
00:53:36
fully all the way already.
-
00:53:39
In a very real sense,
you and I are still being made.
-
00:53:43
I think many of us, we want
to discard this idea of growth,
-
00:53:46
but the reality is
that God's not done.
-
00:53:50
He says, I am, not I was.
-
00:53:52
You know,
who wrote the Psalm 139,
-
00:53:54
those words that
we've been looking at?
-
00:53:56
It's David, not, by the way,
-
00:53:59
at the beginning of his life,
-
00:54:01
at the very end of his life.
-
00:54:02
Scholars are pretty in
agreement on this fact
-
00:54:05
that these are words, they
represent maturity from him.
-
00:54:07
These are at
the end of his life.
-
00:54:08
That means David wrote these
words after he had an affair.
-
00:54:14
David wrote these words
after he failed as a father
-
00:54:17
and his son,
Absalom rebelled against him.
-
00:54:20
David wrote these words after
-
00:54:21
David himself
rebelled against God,
-
00:54:23
did something he knew
he wasn't supposed to,
-
00:54:25
and took a census
which resulted in
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00:54:26
the deaths of tens of
thousands of people.
-
00:54:29
David wrote these
words after all that,
-
00:54:31
and he still says about himself,
-
00:54:34
"I praise You
because I am fearfully
-
00:54:38
and wonderfully made."
-
00:54:39
How in the world
could he say that?
-
00:54:42
Because he knew God wasn't done.
-
00:54:45
He knew his life was a
life lived on the wheel.
-
00:54:50
This is your life,
for the rest of your days
-
00:54:53
you're on the wheel.
-
00:54:55
And the good news about it is
-
00:54:57
no matter what hangups you have,
-
00:54:58
no matter what outages you have,
-
00:55:00
no matter what flaws you see
-
00:55:03
God's still working on you.
He's not done.
-
00:55:07
I think the older you get,
the more important
-
00:55:09
this message becomes for you.
-
00:55:10
Because, see, what I find
is that the older you get,
-
00:55:12
the easier it is to
believe that growth
-
00:55:14
was a thing that
happened in the past,
-
00:55:16
that your days of
getting better are over.
-
00:55:20
No, they're not.
No, they're not.
-
00:55:22
The worst you
that will ever exist
-
00:55:24
is the you that exists now.
Do you know that?
-
00:55:28
See, tomorrow you'll be better.
Why?
-
00:55:30
Because God is working
on you every single day.
-
00:55:34
He's not done with you.
-
00:55:37
This is what it says in
Jeremiah 18:1. It says:
-
00:56:08
God can make you
and remake you again
-
00:56:12
and again and again and again.
-
00:56:15
Last week we had an
amazing opportunity for people
-
00:56:17
to come down and
receive prayer for healing,
-
00:56:20
in other words, to get better.
-
00:56:21
We had an amazing response.
-
00:56:23
Over 2400 people across
sites and online got prayed for.
-
00:56:27
If you are one of
the prayer volunteers,
-
00:56:28
thank you, thank you, thank you.
-
00:56:30
It's hard to clap with
this kind of music,
-
00:56:32
but let's give it our
best shot anyway, right?
-
00:56:36
It's an amazing experience.
-
00:56:37
We saw many,
many healings, by the way.
-
00:56:39
Many people were
made better instantly.
-
00:56:41
And by the way,
if that wasn't you,
-
00:56:43
if you didn't receive
instant healing,
-
00:56:45
do not worry,
you are on the on the wheel.
-
00:56:47
You're on the wheel.
God's not done yet.
-
00:56:49
Do not be discouraged.
God's not done yet.
-
00:56:52
Saw so many people go forward.
-
00:56:54
Now,
do you know who went forward?
-
00:56:58
The people who thought
they could get better.
-
00:57:00
The people who believed
God wasn't done with them.
-
00:57:04
That was me.
I went, I went forward.
-
00:57:05
I was at the East side.
It was a great service.
-
00:57:08
And, you know,
Brian gave that call
-
00:57:09
for healing prayer at
the end of the message.
-
00:57:11
And at first I sat
there and I thought,
-
00:57:13
"You know, I don't have any
physical healing issue needs.
-
00:57:17
I don't have a knee that's bad
-
00:57:18
or a shoulder that's
out or anything like that.
-
00:57:20
And, you know, it's just like,
-
00:57:21
oh God, that's so great.
Thank you so much for that."
-
00:57:23
And then Brian talked about
what he wanted prayer for.
-
00:57:26
He talked about
being self-centered
-
00:57:28
and wanting God
to make him better
-
00:57:29
and to heal him from that
and to bring him to a new place.
-
00:57:32
And that was convicting
to me because I sat there
-
00:57:34
and was like, "Oh, right,
-
00:57:37
You're making me
better in all the ways.
-
00:57:38
Maybe you're not so
concerned about my elbow
-
00:57:40
as you are the way
that I treat my family."
-
00:57:43
And I thought to that morning
-
00:57:45
and I thought to the day before
-
00:57:46
where I was harsh
with my family.
-
00:57:48
And so I went down
and I received prayer
-
00:57:50
from an amazing
volunteer named Pam.
-
00:57:51
I walked up and I just said,
"You know, Pam,
-
00:57:54
I would love you to pray for me
-
00:57:56
that God would make
me gentle and kind,
-
00:57:59
in particular with my kids.
-
00:58:01
It's a real struggle for me."
-
00:58:03
And she said, "Oh,
I'd love to pray for you."
-
00:58:04
She told me that that
was actually a thing
-
00:58:06
that she asked God for recently.
-
00:58:07
It was her word for the year,
and how God had changed her,
-
00:58:10
had grown her,
and she prayed for me.
-
00:58:12
I'm happy to tell you
since then. Guess what?
-
00:58:13
It's been way easier to
be kind and to be gentle.
-
00:58:16
Why? Because God's not done.
-
00:58:19
And I want to just
push on you a little bit.
-
00:58:22
If you were here last weekend,
-
00:58:25
if you watched online and
you didn't text in for prayer,
-
00:58:29
you didn't chat in,
can I just ask you,
-
00:58:32
is it because you
think God's done?
-
00:58:35
Does any piece of you believe
that you can't get better?
-
00:58:39
If so,
you don't believe the gospel.
-
00:58:42
And I have good news,
-
00:58:43
it's so much better than
you've been thinking.
-
00:58:45
See, God wants to make you
-
00:58:47
better than you
can ever imagine.
-
00:58:49
Better. Philippians 1:6 says:
-
00:58:51
I'm sure of this,
that He who began
-
00:58:54
a good work in you
will bring it to completion
-
00:58:57
at the day of Jesus Christ.
-
00:58:58
God will complete the work.
-
00:59:00
It's not an if.
It's not a maybe.
-
00:59:03
It's an absolute.
-
00:59:05
This is the verse
we've been looking at:
-
00:59:07
I praise you because I am
fearfully and wonderfully made.
-
00:59:14
See,
God wants from you more than
-
00:59:16
just intellectual
assent to this idea.
-
00:59:20
What God wants is
for you to praise Him
-
00:59:23
specifically for some
way that you're thankful
-
00:59:26
for how He's made you.
-
00:59:29
That's what we're going
to end our time with,
-
00:59:31
just to just do
really tactically.
-
00:59:32
And first,
I just want to invite you,
-
00:59:34
if you've believed
something less of yourself
-
00:59:37
than what God has and
what God says about you,
-
00:59:39
I just want to invite you
-
00:59:41
to do something very,
very simple,
-
00:59:42
and that's just repent.
-
00:59:45
Just say, "God, I'm sorry."
-
00:59:47
Because guess what?
-
00:59:48
It doesn't matter if
you've said no offense.
-
00:59:51
When you criticize the art,
you've criticized the artist.
-
00:59:54
You can just say, "God,
I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
-
00:59:56
Help me agree with
what You say about me."
-
01:00:01
The step two is just praise Him.
-
01:00:03
You got that clay
still on your hand?
-
01:00:05
I want you take that
clay and we're going to do
-
01:00:09
what we did in that staff
prayer all those weeks ago.
-
01:00:12
I want you right now
as you hold this clay
-
01:00:15
to think about
something about yourself
-
01:00:18
that you are
grateful to God for.
-
01:00:21
What is a way that
God has made you
-
01:00:23
wonderfully, fearfully,
uniquely, awesomely
-
01:00:26
that you just want
to say thanks.
-
01:00:28
And just make the
thing that represents that.
-
01:00:30
Maybe you're
somebody with wisdom.
-
01:00:32
If that's you, you don't
have to be ashamed of it.
-
01:00:34
You can just sculpt a little
owl that represents wisdom.
-
01:00:37
Maybe you're strong,
make a little elephant.
-
01:00:40
Maybe you're into hospitality,
make a little pot.
-
01:00:42
I don't know what it is.
-
01:00:44
Make something
that just says to Him.,
-
01:00:46
"I believe that I am
who You say I am."
-
01:00:51
And as we do that,
-
01:00:53
we're going to listen
to this song together.
-
01:07:52
- That's the gospel.
-
01:07:55
You're not a lump of clay.
-
01:07:58
You're not a random accident.
-
01:08:01
You're a masterpiece made by
-
01:08:03
the creator of the universe
who thought about you
-
01:08:05
before the
foundations of the earth
-
01:08:07
were ever put
into place and said,
-
01:08:09
"I'm excited to make you."
-
01:08:13
I don't know what you
made to thank God.
-
01:08:15
I made a question mark,
represents curiosity.
-
01:08:19
It's the thing I'm
most thankful for
-
01:08:21
about how God has made me.
-
01:08:22
It's a gift from Him.
-
01:08:24
I have this innate sense
of just asking questions
-
01:08:26
and being curious,
and it makes me a learner.
-
01:08:29
It's so great and
I love it from God.
-
01:08:31
It's a gift and my
response is to say, "God,
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I praise You because
of how You made me.
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You made me fearfully
and wonderfully."
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And guess what?
He made you that way too.
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I hope You said thank you
to Him as he sang that song.
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God, I thank You for
the truth of Your gospel
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that is always better
than all of the imposters.
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I thank You for the reality
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of the fact that You've made us.
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And I just pray, God,
for everyone here,
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particularly the
person who walked in
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believing they were
just a lump of nothing,
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God, that you would
reform their identity,
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that they say yes to You.
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01:09:13
And I just say, if you've
never said yes to Jesus before,
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you can do it for
the very first time.
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01:09:17
You just say, "Jesus,
I believe You are
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who You say You are,
and I say yes
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to everything You have for me.
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You define me because
You made me. Amen.
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- Hey, thank you so
much for joining us today.
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Now, while it's impossible
for us to ship out
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little pieces of clay to
everyone on the planet,
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I hope that you were
connected with something
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that Kyle shared today,
that it resonated with you,
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and that you can find a
way to carry it into your life.
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We never want this
to just be something
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01:09:51
that you watch and
then forget about,
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01:09:53
but our lives never change.
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01:09:54
Everything that we do, we want
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01:09:56
to help you grow closer to God.
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01:09:57
And another way
to do that is actually
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on your phone through
the Crossroads app.
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01:10:02
Together as a church,
we read through
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different Bible scriptures,
we daily pray together
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thousands of
prayers for each other,
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01:10:08
we post articles, podcasts,
and so much more.
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01:10:11
Now, this isn't just more
content to consume,
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it's actually tools
to help you grow
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in relationship with Jesus
and grow closer to Him.
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01:10:19
You can check it
out and download it
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01:10:20
on your mobile device
wherever you get your apps.
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Hey,
thank you so much for coming.
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We'll see you back
here next week.