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- Hey, I'm Jen.
Welcome to Crossroads.
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- Hey. And I'm Arturo.
We're so glad you're joining us.
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You know, in the past month,
we've had over 2000 students,
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high school and middle
schoolers go to Student Camp.
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And this weekend, our
middle schoolers just got back.
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- They just got back. Yes, it is
the best weekend of the summer.
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Students come back
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after a weekend of
just clearing the noise
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and being with their friends.
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And I'll tell you,
you're about to see what
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the best week of the
summer looks like right now.
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- I've been washed in the water.
Washed in the blood.
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I'm as good as new.
Oh, hallelujah.
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I've been washed in the water.
Washed in the blood.
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All because of you.
Oh, Hallelujah.
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Let's go.
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[music continues]
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- Man, hey, if we haven't me,
my name is Chris.
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I lead our students around here,
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and I just got back from
middle school camp.
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And I want to tell you
about my favorite moment
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from camp this last week.
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I had this sixth grade girl.
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She comes up to me and she says,
"Hey, Chris,
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I got something I gotta tell
you." I'm like, "What's up?"
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She goes, and she yells
at the top of her lungs,
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"I gave my life to Jesus.
I gave my life to Jesus."
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I gotta tell you,
we had student after student
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who experienced life
change at camp this week.
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Students who walked
in feeling isolated,
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left with community,
maybe for the first time.
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Students experience
freedom from addiction, anxiety.
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God is doing a good
thing in this generation.
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And today, this morning,
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we all get to experience
a taste of camp
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because we're baptizing
students in this room.
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And I just want to frame
up this moment for us
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and read us a scripture
from the book of Matthew.
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This is Jesus talking
right here. He says:
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What do you think?
If a man has a hundred sheep
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and one of them has gone astray,
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does he not leave the
99 on the mountains
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and go in search of the
one that went astray?
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And if you find it truly,
I say to you,
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he rejoices over more than over
the 99 that never went astray.
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I gotta tell you guys,
all of heaven is rejoicing
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from these students
who are making a decision
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to go from death to life.
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And if only one
student got baptized,
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there would be
a party in heaven.
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And so I need us to
celebrate this morning.
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I need us to scream
at the top of our lungs
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and celebrate this special and
holy moment that's happening.
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And so I need a favor.
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Whenever we baptize a student,
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when they come out of the water,
we need to shout.
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We need to celebrate.
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And we need to rejoice
from this moment right here.
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Can we do that? All right.
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And as we baptize,
we're going to be singing
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one of our favorite camp songs.
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So why don't we
stand up and celebrate
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these students getting baptized.
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I'm gonna teach you this song.
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- God, thank You
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for all that You have
done in this room today.
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God, You are changing
lives and I love it.
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I love that we
get to witness this
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because it's truly a miracle
that You would step in,
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that You would
call us closer to You
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and that You didn't -- You
didn't put a stop on that
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and You didn't put
parameters that,
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oh, you have to be an
adult to say yes to Me.
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No. You said, don't let
the children stay away.
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Bring the children to Me.
God, so thank You.
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Thank You for all
you're doing right now.
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Would You continue
to change lives today.
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It's in Jesus's name we pray.
Amen.
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Come on, let's celebrate
what the Lord is doing.
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God is so good.
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Hey, before you grab a seat,
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why don't you turn to
somebody around you,
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give them a high five. Tell
them hey, it's good to see you.
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Introduce yourself. We're one
big family. You can have a seat.
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- You're stronger than you think
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and God loves you more than you
thought when you came in here.
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And there is territory
He wants you to take.
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- Not only are we seeing amazing
life change at Student Camp,
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but we're seeing God
move in powerful ways
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at our base camp
through all of our camps.
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- Yeah.
That's right, and sometimes
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the thing God does is
completely unexpected.
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Like this guy named Philip.
Okay?
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He signed up to lead a
group at Man Camp. All right.
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And he had all his friends
sign up, but one by one,
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those friends just started
backing out and suddenly --
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- Been there.
We've all been there, right?
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- And suddenly you're
with a group of strangers.
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Well, Philip,
it was gonna be awkward,
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but he prayed this
very simple prayer.
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- All right.
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God help these men
become more than
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people sharing in a
group at a campsite.
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Make us a brotherhood.
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And after camp, Jen,
one weekend in the woods,
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deep friendships were
formed from scratch,
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and those men
to this day are still
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intentionally building
Christ centered community.
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- That's awesome, because we
weren't meant to do life alone.
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And you aren't
meant to do life alone.
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I've been to Woman
Camp so many times
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I don't even remember anymore.
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And every time I leave
with a spiritual breakthrough,
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with deeper friendships.
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Partly because I get
encouragement too from women
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who have been
where I am in life.
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So camps is there's
something for everyone.
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- Yeah. And this fall
we have three camps.
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We have Family Camp,
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we have Women Camp,
and we have Man Camp.
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We've tried to make it
so easy for you to sign up
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and to find out more info,
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so just
text the word "more" to 301301.
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- Yes, this is something brand
new this weekend
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that we're doing is you can
text the word "more" to 301301
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and we're going to
just send you a link to
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all the things that we're
talking about today,
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which makes it really easy
for you just to click one link
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and be where you need to be.
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- Okay. Movies.
Who likes movies? Jen?
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- Everybody.
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- Have you seen the Odyssey yet,
though?
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- Of course, I haven't seen
the Odyssey. I have kids.
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Isn't that like a three hour
Greek mythology movie?
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No, but I have seen Season
Two of Ransom Canyon.
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That's on Netflix.
And no, not that.
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- Movies.
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- Talk about movies,
specifically summer movie night.
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Because I know that we are all
trying to get family together
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to go see a movie on a
big screen. And guess what?
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August, what is it? 7th. across
all of our Crossroads sites,
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we've got that big screen
and all the free things
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for you to make that happen.
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- Yes, it's a great
opportunity to invite friends
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and other people to our
church for a movie night.
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Now, because of copyrights,
we can't actually tell you
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the name of the movie,
but it's a 90s comedy
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where there's a lost of
baseball, there's a big dog,
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it's a legendary summer.
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We're going to have
free popcorn, candy,
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all the things here
at Crossroads.
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If you want to learn more,
you can text "moreM to 301301.
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But you know, or maybe S'more.
Do you want some S'more?
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Right.
That's another clue for you.
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- Yeah.
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- So text "more" and we'll
give you more information.
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And hopefully it won't be as
cheesy as we are right now.
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- No, no, no.
But hey, camps, movie nights,
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even us talking to
you through the screen,
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it's because of people who give.
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So thank you for those who give.
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And if you want to find
out more about how to give
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Crossroads.net/give.
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- Yep. And now we are
where we are in the Bible.
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- An origin story is the
part nobody talks about,
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the part before
confidence and success,
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before anyone knows your name.
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It's false starts, wrong turns,
and total failure.
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It's the beginning.
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Every person you admire has one.
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The Bible may just be the
greatest origin story ever told.
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It's a book about how God
meets people at the beginning.
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In the beginning, God creates.
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In the beginning,
humanity is formed from dust.
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In the beginning
there is possibility,
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purpose, and relationship.
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Then things fall apart.
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But God rebuilds and enlists
humanity
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in the work of restoration.
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The Bible is full of
people who eventually
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become known for things
like faith and courage,
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wisdom and sacrifice.
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We call them
heroes of the faith,
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but none of them started there.
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The story God tells is about
Him meeting ordinary people
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in ordinary places
and inviting them
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into something extraordinary.
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Today's origin story is
about Abraham and Sarah,
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whose lifetime of obedient next
steps changed history forever.
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- Well, welcome to Crossroads.
I'm Hannah Driskill
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and thrilled to be
with you in this series
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talking about these
heroes of the faith
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and their origin stories.
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But before we go there,
I really think it's important
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that I clue you in to
a little bit of who I am.
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And part of that is
that I'm not a person
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who actually likes trends
or stays in the trend line,
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if you will, but I did find a
trend that I really do love.
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It's a TikTok trend, and
before I tell you what it is,
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I actually need some buy in.
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I need to know,
are you going to help me out?
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Okay, okay. Thank you.
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I know that you didn't respond
to that down in Lexington.
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So, Lexington, are you going
to help me out? Yes. Okay.
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I can't tell you because
it requires participation.
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But trust me, it's not a
big ask. It's really simple.
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This thing is called laugh
therapy. Anybody heard of it?
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Laugh therapy is basically
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00:20:03
where you're going
to pretend to laugh,
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00:20:06
and we'll find that in
pretending to laugh,
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we actually trick our
brain into real laughter.
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So remember that you
promised and you wrote it down
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and everything is recorded.
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So you said you
were going to help me.
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So I remember you said that.
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You are going to help me here.
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All you have to do, you're
just going to repeat after me.
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Here we go. Ha.
- Ha.
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- Okay, that was good.
Okay. Ha ha!
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Now try a ha ha ha!
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Okay. That worked. Okay.
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Let's do a different.
He, he, he! Y'all look silly.
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Okay. Let's do. [laughs]
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Okay. That actually worked.
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And if it didn't work for you,
this will work for sure.
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Look at that baby.
[babies laughing]
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- Okay, now,
if you didn't laugh,
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there is prayer down front.
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We want to pray for you.
Something is not right.
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It's so good to laugh.
It feels good.
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Great author William
James says we do not laugh
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because we are happy,
we are happy because we laugh.
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And laughter is incredibly
important to our story today
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because in it we are going
to see that God uses it
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and redeems it.
So let me pray for us.
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God, in the name of Jesus,
so grateful
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that you've chosen me
to be here to speak to
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the people who belong to you.
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God, I ask that my words
would be clear and helpful,
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and that You will speak
so clearly and directly
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to everyone in this room,
no matter where they came,
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no matter what they believe,
that you would speak clearly
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and directly.
In the name of Jesus. Amen.
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- Amen.
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- Well, we've been learning
about the Hall of Faith.
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And the Hall of Faith comes
to us from the book of Hebrews,
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and Hebrews 11 tells
us that these are people
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who are sort of
like heroes to us.
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00:22:24
And Chuck and Kyle
did a fantastic job.
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They set up this idea that
faith is something that kind of
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zigzags between doubt
and belief and movement,
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and that faith requires you
moving your hands and your feet.
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00:22:39
And today we're
going to take a look at
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what I think is the
biggest enemy of our faith.
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00:22:47
See, no matter where you are,
you and I, I'm going to bet,
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are suffering from
this very thing.
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00:22:54
And this thing has
the potential not just to
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affect our faith a little bit,
but to all together ruin it.
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And that is cynicism.
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00:23:05
See, in the Bible,
God uses all sorts of people.
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He uses ordinary people,
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but He doesn't just
use ordinary people.
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He also uses people who
we might consider bad.
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00:23:15
He uses murderers,
liars, cheaters,
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people with a checkered past.
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00:23:21
He uses people who
have a pride problem,
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people who have a fear problem,
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people who can't
hold their tongue
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and have to lash out at people.
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He uses all those people.
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And today we're going to
see that He uses a cynic.
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In the book of Hebrews 11,
it says:
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By faith, Sarah,
even Sarah herself,
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when she was unable
to have children,
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received power to
conceive offspring,
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even though she
was past the age,
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since she considered that
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the one
who had promised was faithful.
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Now, why does the Bible
need to say even Sarah?
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Because I can sort
of hear you now.
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You're like, "Hannah, you just
listed like the big dogs of sin.
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00:24:02
Like murder, cheaters, liars.
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What is Sarah doing as
a cynic kind of in this --
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In this realm?"
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But let me remind
you what cynicism is.
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According to Psychology Today,
psychologically,
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cynicism often serves
as a defense mechanism
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to protect
individuals from hurt,
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betrayal, or disappointment.
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00:24:24
People who have
experienced repeated failures
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00:24:27
may develop a cynical outlook
as a way to manage expectations,
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believing that by always
expecting the worst,
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they may never
be caught off guard.
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00:24:38
Now this idea of cynicism
runs really deep, right?
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I see it in my own life.
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00:24:43
Most mornings I don't wake
up like, "Oh, praise the Lord.
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00:24:47
I just know that
my husband and I,
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00:24:49
we're going to agree on
everything today, I feel it.
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00:24:52
I just can feel that my
two year old, no tantrums.
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It's going to be a
no tantrum day."
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No. I wake up with the opposite.
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I'm ready to to fight,
ready to have some tantrums.
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00:25:02
I wake up with that
cynical mindset.
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00:25:04
I see it in the life of
the people that I mentor.
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00:25:08
It's much easier for them
to walk around and distrust,
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not trusting really anybody.
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00:25:13
It's much easier for
them to say things like,
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"I probably won't get that job,"
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or "I don't think I'm going
to get into that school,"
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even before they try.
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And if you're in this space
and if you're experiencing
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this service and you're going,
"I don't know, Hannah,
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I don't think that I
fall in this bucket."
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Okay, let me get on
your street real quick.
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00:25:31
If you've ever found
yourself saying something
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00:25:34
a little bit like or thinking
something a little bit like,
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00:25:38
"Man,
I just know that Chipotle chips,
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they're not going to hit today.
I can feel it.
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00:25:43
They're not going to be crunchy.
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00:25:44
They're not going to have
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the lime salt factor
that I'm looking for."
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00:25:48
If you're in the boat of
the conspiracy theorists,
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00:25:51
the people who are like,
did the lettuce
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really come from Taco Bell, or
are they trying to distract us?"
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00:25:58
You know, you might
be in a little cynicism
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00:26:00
if you find yourself saying,
"The Bengals will never win.
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00:26:03
I just know it."
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00:26:05
If you feel a little
bit heartbroken
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00:26:07
because the Lakers are
never going to win again,
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00:26:09
LeBron is gone bye bye. Right?
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00:26:10
You feel a little bit sad.
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00:26:12
But it's also deeper than that,
right?
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00:26:15
It's saying things to
yourself like, "My boss sucks
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00:26:17
and this job will
never get better.
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00:26:20
My parents,
they're never going to change.
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00:26:23
I probably will never
have a good relationship
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00:26:25
with my kid again.
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00:26:28
My marriage is
pretty much doomed.
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00:26:31
I'll never get that fulfilling
job that I want,
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00:26:34
so why even try?"
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00:26:36
The AI generation is actually
coming up in such a way
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00:26:40
that they are learning
cynicism as a means of survival,
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00:26:44
because they have
to constantly question
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00:26:46
what's real, what's fake?
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00:26:48
Can I trust this person talking
because are they just saying
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00:26:51
something that they heard
from somewhere else?
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00:26:55
See, in an era where
it's normalized to distrust.
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00:26:58
Popular to expect
disappointment,
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00:27:01
and downright
offensive to be optimistic,
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00:27:05
we are in a posture
where it comes to a head of
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00:27:09
will we be cynical because
that cynicism will ultimately
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00:27:13
not just cause a little
bit of a rift in our faith,
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00:27:16
but it can lead to destruction.
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00:27:20
But it's kind of nice
to know that cynicism
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00:27:22
didn't just come up,
like, for us,
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00:27:24
we're not just the only type
of people who are cynical.
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00:27:27
We see cynicism all the way
back in the Bible with Sarah.
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00:27:32
The Bible shows Sarah as this
character
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00:27:35
who has sort of distrust.
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00:27:37
Now in the Hall of Faith it
mentions a ton of people,
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00:27:40
and most of them, most of the
women are mentioned in that,
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00:27:43
and many others bucket.
That's what it says at the end.
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00:27:46
But Sarah is called out by name.
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00:27:48
And we see Sarah kind of qualify
to be in the Hall of Faith
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00:27:53
much later in life than
many of the other people.
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00:27:56
Sarah,
when we think about our heroes,
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00:27:58
sometimes we
think of them coming
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00:27:59
to their heroism early in life,
right?
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00:28:01
The modern day heroes like
Spider-Man, he's a teenager.
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00:28:05
But Sarah, when she
qualifies for the Hall of Faith,
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00:28:09
she is not 20, gone are her
30 flirty and thriving years.
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00:28:13
Gone are the 40s.
Gone are the 50s.
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00:28:16
We meet Sarah when she is 65,
and we meet her as Sarai.
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00:28:23
And she comes on
the scene as Sarai.
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00:28:25
So when I say Sarai today,
I'm talking about Sarah.
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00:28:28
They're the same people. We'll
get to that in just a second.
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00:28:31
She comes on the scene
with a guy named Abram,
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00:28:33
better known as Abraham.
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00:28:35
And they come on the scene
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00:28:37
because
God starts talking to Abraham
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00:28:39
and he starts to respond.
Here's how it goes.
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00:28:42
Genesis 12:1 says: Now
the Lord said to Abram,
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00:28:45
go from your country
and your kindred
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00:28:47
and your father's house
to land that I will show you.
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00:28:51
And I will make
you a great nation,
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00:28:53
and I will bless you and
make your name great,
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00:28:56
so that you will be a blessing.
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00:28:58
Drop down to verse four.
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00:28:59
So Abram went as
the Lord told him.
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00:29:02
And five says: And
Abram took Sarai.
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00:29:05
Boom! That's where we meet her.
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00:29:07
And we meet her kind of in
this context with her husband
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00:29:11
going on this momentous journey.
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00:29:13
But before the journey,
the Bible actually mentions her
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00:29:16
just a chapter earlier,
and it's really easy
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00:29:19
to miss this part because
it mentions her in a moment
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00:29:22
where it's just listing a
whole bunch of lineages.
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00:29:25
And those parts of the Bible
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00:29:27
read much like a
processed food label.
-
00:29:29
It's long, very boring,
-
00:29:30
and you can't pronounce
none of the names.
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00:29:32
Like, what is riboflavin?
I don't know.
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00:29:36
But Sarah comes on the
scene and this is what it says
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00:29:38
at the very end of that lineage.
It says, in 11:30:
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00:29:42
Now Sarai was barren
and she had no child.
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00:29:47
Now,
this is the very first mention,
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00:29:50
and it's a little anecdote
that's put in the lineage.
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00:29:53
Normally the lineage is just a
name and the death and the --
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00:29:57
And how old the person was.
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00:29:58
But it chose to list that Sarah
was barren and without child.
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00:30:03
Now, I think this is kind
of bogus of the writer,
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00:30:05
if you ask me, because
they really could have put
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00:30:07
anything they wanted
to put about Sarah.
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00:30:09
They could have
said she was beautiful.
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00:30:11
She was a good wife
and faithful to her husband.
-
00:30:15
She was someone
who spoke her mind.
-
00:30:17
But no, they chose to
put this little anecdote,
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00:30:20
and this anecdote
would follow Sarah
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00:30:22
throughout the entire time that
she is mentioned in the Bible
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00:30:26
and throughout history.
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00:30:29
And it's also the anecdote
that would make it
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00:30:31
almost impossible to believe
that God would promise
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00:30:34
this barren woman a child,
but He does.
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00:30:39
So here's the AI summary version
of sort of what happened.
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00:30:44
God called Sarai's husband out
to a place that they don't know,
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00:30:47
right? Genesis 12.
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00:30:48
And then on several occasions,
he seems to be promising
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00:30:51
some offspring in children.
That's Genesis 12:13 and 15.
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00:30:55
And he does this when Abram
is 75, and when Sarah is 65.
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00:31:00
And the first time He talks to
them, that's how old they are.
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00:31:03
But then several times later, He
keeps saying this over and over.
-
00:31:06
And I don't have time
to get into the full story,
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00:31:08
but just know there's smoke and
sand and stars and it's awesome.
-
00:31:12
Go read it for yourself.
It only takes 10 to 15 pages,
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00:31:16
but God is trying to
scream at Abram, "Yo,
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00:31:20
you are going to have a baby!"
-
00:31:25
This tiny little
story in the Bible
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00:31:27
that's only really 10 to
15 pages of your Bible,
-
00:31:30
packed so much
punch that we see it
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00:31:32
throughout the story
of the entire Bible.
-
00:31:37
And God is screaming
at them saying,
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00:31:39
"You will have a child."
-
00:31:43
Now Abraham and Sarai,
they married,
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00:31:45
so I guess they talk
a little bit. You know?
-
00:31:48
You would think,
you would think that Abram
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00:31:50
probably told his wife like,
"Hey, yo, check it out.
-
00:31:52
This God, His name is Yahweh.
-
00:31:54
He just came to talk to me
-
00:31:55
and He said we're
going to have a baby."
-
00:31:57
This would have been
when Sarah was 65.
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00:31:58
And Sarah was probably like,
"Okay,
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00:32:00
you sound a little bit crazy"
-
00:32:02
But the very first time that
Sarai hears it for herself,
-
00:32:04
she's actually 89,
in Genesis 18 and says:
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00:32:09
The Lord says,
"I will surely return to you
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00:32:12
about this time next year.
-
00:32:13
And Sarah,
your wife shall have a son."
-
00:32:15
And Sarah was listening
at the tent door behind him.
-
00:32:18
Now Sarah and Sarai were
old and advanced in years,
-
00:32:22
and the way of women
had ceased to be with Sarah.
-
00:32:25
So Sarah laughed to herself,
saying, "After I am worn out,
-
00:32:30
and my lord is old,
shall I have pleasure?"
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00:32:34
Y'all,
I love this part of the Bible
-
00:32:36
because God ain't
even talking to her.
-
00:32:39
My girl is eavesdropping and
she just gets the key, key, key.
-
00:32:42
And she like, "who, me? I'm not
getting ready to have no baby.
-
00:32:46
I have already been
through my cramps.
-
00:32:48
That's over.
I'm done with that."
-
00:32:49
Sarah is basically saying,
"You mean to tell me,
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00:32:52
ho ho ho ho ho ho.
You mean to tell me
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00:32:55
that my flow ain't flowing.
-
00:32:57
Ain't nothing been
going on for a long time.
-
00:32:59
I don't have a period. Period.
-
00:33:01
How am I going to have a baby?
This sounds crazy."
-
00:33:07
And so naturally, when
somebody tells you something
-
00:33:10
that sounds
impossible or insane,
-
00:33:13
laughter really is kind of
a natural response, right?
-
00:33:17
Because Sarah had already
been through the shame
-
00:33:20
and the repeated disappointment
of not having a child.
-
00:33:25
So it's sort of understandable
that she would laugh.
-
00:33:29
See, her laugh is so
important because last week
-
00:33:32
we talked about how if faith is
evidence based on confidence,
-
00:33:37
to this point, Sarah's evidence
was a bunch of dead babies.
-
00:33:41
Sarah's evidence was
repeated disappointment by God.
-
00:33:44
So when she laughs, it's
actually from a deeper place.
-
00:33:49
She's laughing from a deep
place of not just discomfort,
-
00:33:53
but disappointment.
-
00:33:55
Sarah's laugh is more
of a kissing of the lips,
-
00:33:58
like a you're right,
it's more of a nah bro.
-
00:34:02
It's more of a I
don't see it like that.
-
00:34:04
I wasn't born yesterday.
-
00:34:07
Sarah's laugh is cynical.
-
00:34:10
And Sarah's laugh is so
deep and full of cynicism
-
00:34:15
that herein lies the message
that we need to take home today,
-
00:34:19
which is that cynicism
is the enemy of our faith.
-
00:34:24
It's funny because we're
trained to believe that
-
00:34:27
doubt is the enemy of our faith.
-
00:34:29
But doubt actually
leaves you way more open
-
00:34:32
than cynicism ever could.
-
00:34:34
And we see that God
responds differently to doubt
-
00:34:38
than He does to cynicism.
-
00:34:40
Because hearing laughter,
when when God said
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00:34:42
that impossible thing,
that was not the first time
-
00:34:45
that He heard laughter.
-
00:34:46
See, Abraham
actually laughed as well.
-
00:34:49
In Genesis 17:15 it says:
And God said to Abraham,
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00:34:52
"As for Sarai, your wife, you
shall not call her name Sarai,
-
00:34:56
but Sarah shall be her name.
I will bless her,
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00:35:00
and moreover,
I will give you a son by her.
-
00:35:03
I will bless her,
and she shall become nations;
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00:35:06
kings of people
shall come from her."
-
00:35:09
And then Abraham fell
on his face and laughed.
-
00:35:13
Two: Said to himself,
"Shall a child be born
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00:35:16
to a man who is a
hundred years old?
-
00:35:18
Shall Sarah, who is 90
years old, bear a child."
-
00:35:22
Dropped down to 19: But
God said, "No, Sarah, your wife
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00:35:27
shall bear you a son, and
you shall call his name Isaac."
-
00:35:31
Now when God responds
to Abraham, it's more like a,
-
00:35:34
"There, there, buddy,
don't freak out.
-
00:35:36
I promise you this. I promise
I'm going to come through.
-
00:35:38
This is the promise.
Don't forget the promise."
-
00:35:40
But listen to how he responds
to Sarah. Genesis 18:13 says:
-
00:35:44
The Lord said to Abraham,
"Why did Sarah laugh and say,
-
00:35:49
'Shall I indeed bear a
child now that I am old?'
-
00:35:51
Is anything too
hard for the Lord?
-
00:35:55
At the appointed
time I will return to you
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00:35:58
about this time next year,
and Sarah shall have a son."
-
00:36:02
But Sarah denied it,
saying, "I did not laugh,"
-
00:36:04
for she was afraid.
-
00:36:05
And he said, "No,
but you did laugh."
-
00:36:09
Now let's see the
difference here.
-
00:36:10
Doubt is again kind of funny
-
00:36:12
because it actually
leaves us open
-
00:36:14
and we learn that we can zigzag
from doubt to faith at times.
-
00:36:18
And when we do that, God doesn't
respond to Abraham harshly.
-
00:36:21
He sort of just coaxes him
-
00:36:23
and says, 'It's okay,
buddy, I got you."
-
00:36:25
I can imagine him stroking
his back and saying,
-
00:36:28
"I will do what I said I'll do.
-
00:36:30
Here's the promise.
Don't forget the promise."
-
00:36:32
But cynicism runs
deeper than that.
-
00:36:36
Sarah's response,
and it holds the context of
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00:36:39
that will never happen.
-
00:36:43
And Sarah's response is
from a deeper place, right?
-
00:36:47
It's from a deep disappointment.
-
00:36:48
And we know this because
she uses the words worn out.
-
00:36:53
And that direct translation from
Hebrew is more like wax old.
-
00:36:58
And to wax old what we're
talking about there is a garment
-
00:37:01
Sarah is saying,
"I'm used up already.
-
00:37:05
My plight in life
is that I'm done.
-
00:37:07
I can't be used at all.
-
00:37:09
I'm good for
nothing at this point.
-
00:37:11
And then you mean to
tell me something crazy?
-
00:37:13
You want to get my hopes up?
No. I'm good."
-
00:37:17
She says, "I'm sick and
tired of being sick and tired."
-
00:37:20
And the way that God responds
to her is not with a coaxing,
-
00:37:24
but with an affirmation
of His character.
-
00:37:28
He tells her who He is. He says,
-
00:37:31
"Is there anything
impossible for me?"
-
00:37:35
But Sarah's not concerned
with His character.
-
00:37:37
See, Sarah's only concerned
with what she can see
-
00:37:40
because cynicism wants
to dictate our reality,
-
00:37:43
but faith calls us
to a different reality.
-
00:37:46
Hebrews 11:1 says:
-
00:37:47
Now faith is the reality
of what is hoped for,
-
00:37:51
the proof of what is not seen.
-
00:37:53
For by this our
ancestors were approved.
-
00:37:55
Last week when we
talked about that faith
-
00:37:59
being based on confidence,
evidence based on confidence.
-
00:38:03
Well, the people in the
Hall of Faith who say
-
00:38:05
they have this great faith,
what was their evidence?
-
00:38:09
Because we know for
a fact that a lot of them
-
00:38:11
didn't see the promises
that God promised them.
-
00:38:13
Many of them died
before they even saw,
-
00:38:16
but they still
hoped and believed.
-
00:38:18
So what was their evidence?
-
00:38:20
Well,
their evidence was the character
-
00:38:21
and the steady nature of God.
-
00:38:25
Their evidence was that
they simply believed God
-
00:38:28
for who He said He was and
what He said He would do,
-
00:38:32
not what they could see.
-
00:38:35
The problem with cynicism is
that it causes quick amnesia.
-
00:38:38
It makes it really difficult
to recall anything good
-
00:38:41
that has happened, anything
wonderful, anything affirming.
-
00:38:45
And it makes it really easy
to recall all the negativity.
-
00:38:49
You can just pull up the last
time you were disappointed.
-
00:38:51
You know, the last time
-
00:38:52
somebody didn't do what
you asked them to do,
-
00:38:54
you just knew that
when you came home,
-
00:38:56
the dishes were not
going to be washed,
-
00:38:57
even though you asked for it.
-
00:38:59
It's easy to recall
the negative stuff.
-
00:39:03
And the problem with cynicism
is that because of that amnesia,
-
00:39:07
it doesn't just stay a little
dark spot in our hearts
-
00:39:10
just waiting to be addressed.
-
00:39:12
It doesn't stay in its spot.
-
00:39:14
No. It blossoms and it grows,
and it takes over
-
00:39:17
to the point where
you and I are no longer
-
00:39:19
just in a little
moment of doubt.
-
00:39:21
But we find ourselves in total,
total disbelief,
-
00:39:27
in total unbelief of who God is
and what He says that He can do.
-
00:39:31
See, when cynicism is done,
-
00:39:34
it will leave us in
the ruin of unbelief,
-
00:39:37
and it blossoms until
we no longer smile.
-
00:39:40
It affects us physically.
-
00:39:41
It makes it really
hard to actually laugh.
-
00:39:44
That idea of living a light,
-
00:39:46
abundant life that
Jesus promises,
-
00:39:48
that seems super
far away because
-
00:39:50
cynicism doesn't let
you even touch that.
-
00:39:53
But how do we get there, right?
-
00:39:55
Like, let's be real.
-
00:39:56
None of us woke up on
a single day and decided,
-
00:39:59
oh, I think I'll have some
cynical Toast Crunch today
-
00:40:01
and that's how our lives work.
-
00:40:03
No, that's not how it works.
-
00:40:05
You likely got to this spot
-
00:40:06
because of repeated
disappointment,
-
00:40:09
repeated failures,
repeated requests and needs
-
00:40:12
that never got met.
-
00:40:15
And see, you and I, we respond.
-
00:40:18
We respond to this
cynicism in a couple of ways.
-
00:40:21
There's two types of
people watching with us
-
00:40:23
and sitting in this space.
-
00:40:25
The first one is cold.
-
00:40:28
This is the person for
whom we check off church,
-
00:40:30
just like a little box, because
it's the right thing to do.
-
00:40:33
But if we're really honest,
we are cold
-
00:40:35
and we haven't felt
the warmth and the love
-
00:40:37
of the Holy Spirit or of
Jesus in a really long time.
-
00:40:41
We're functioning with literal
just walking dead mentality
-
00:40:45
in that we don't really believe,
we're just cold.
-
00:40:49
And then the second group of us,
this is the group
-
00:40:52
for which it sounds really
similar to cold,
-
00:40:54
but is different.
-
00:40:55
This group is calloused.
-
00:40:58
This is the group that's
become a professional
-
00:41:00
at spiritual bypassing,
if you will.
-
00:41:02
We say things like,
"Oh, praise the Lord,"
-
00:41:05
but we really ain't praising.
-
00:41:07
Oh, we say things like,
"Oh God is so good,"
-
00:41:10
but we can't remember the last
time we actually believed that
-
00:41:13
because the last
time He failed us,
-
00:41:14
we didn't process
that hurt with Him,
-
00:41:16
we just swept it
under a rug and said,
-
00:41:18
"I guess that must not
have been God's will."
-
00:41:21
See, spiritual bypassing
has got a bunch of us cynics
-
00:41:24
pretending to be Christians.
-
00:41:26
And that's dangerous because
cynicism really is leading us
-
00:41:30
to a path of total unbelief.
-
00:41:34
And the problem with us being
in either of those categories
-
00:41:37
is that it makes us come
to sort of a rule in our head
-
00:41:40
about who God is.
-
00:41:42
It gives us a a fake certainty,
if you will.
-
00:41:45
A great author, Anne Lamott,
said, "The opposite of faith
-
00:41:49
is not doubt, but certainty.
-
00:41:52
Certainty is missing
the point entirely.
-
00:41:55
Faith includes noticing
the mess, the emptiness,
-
00:41:57
the discomfort,
and letting it be there
-
00:42:00
until some light returns.
-
00:42:01
See cynicism fains certainty.
-
00:42:05
It makes it really easy to just
make up a rule in our head.
-
00:42:09
If I put God in this box,
then He can't mess me up.
-
00:42:12
If I say You can answer
these types of prayers,
-
00:42:14
but I'm not even going to pray
these other types of prayers
-
00:42:17
because I don't know
if You'll come through.
-
00:42:19
It just makes it easier
to sort of swallow
-
00:42:22
and stomach this
whole thing of faith,
-
00:42:24
instead of being in
the mess with God,
-
00:42:26
instead of saying, "Hey, God,
-
00:42:27
I don't know why
You didn't answer that,
-
00:42:29
but I'm just going to bring
to You this disappointment,"
-
00:42:31
and allow Him to show
you that even when
-
00:42:34
we're zigzagging
all over the place,
-
00:42:35
His character remains constant.
-
00:42:39
So God responds.
He responds to Sarah.
-
00:42:44
He says,
"Is anything impossible for me?"
-
00:42:49
And He's saying,
"That's my character,
-
00:42:50
that nothing is impossible."
-
00:42:52
Because ultimately that's
what Sarah was challenging.
-
00:42:55
She was challenging and saying,
"I'm kind of convinced
-
00:42:58
that You're not as good
as everybody says You are."
-
00:43:01
She had made up a
certainty rule in her brain
-
00:43:04
that was leading her and keeping
her from believing all together.
-
00:43:10
And the problem is that it
didn't just stop at unbelief.
-
00:43:14
Cynicism blossoms,
like I said, and it grows.
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00:43:17
It affects more than our faith.
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00:43:20
Later on, Sarah goes on to
do some really terrible things
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00:43:25
that I don't even
have time to get into.
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00:43:26
But she tries to make
up the promise for herself.
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00:43:29
And so she has her maid
servant go to her husband.
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00:43:32
She forces her on him.
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00:43:33
The girl doesn't
even have a choice.
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00:43:35
And then ultimately,
she rejects her and the baby.
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00:43:38
She does some terrible things.
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00:43:41
See, cynicism doesn't just
stop at stunting our faith.
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00:43:45
It has an uncanny
ability to ruin relationships
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00:43:48
before they even start.
-
00:43:50
It leads us into places of just
completely debilitating anxiety.
-
00:43:55
It leads us into
depression and isolation
-
00:43:58
because you're just saying,
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00:43:59
"Nobody wants to
be with me anyway,
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00:44:00
so I'll just be by myself before
they can even reject me."
-
00:44:05
Cynicism blossoms.
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00:44:08
When I was in high school,
I was a part of this phenomena
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00:44:12
at the time that
was just all the rage,
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00:44:14
all the kids were doing it.
-
00:44:16
And imagine you
would sit at a computer
-
00:44:18
and you would type out
random thoughts in your brain
-
00:44:20
and share them with thousands of
strangers and call it a status.
-
00:44:23
Facebook. It was amazing.
-
00:44:25
And I was participating
in this like everybody else.
-
00:44:27
I'm on Facebook and I remember
that
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00:44:29
I had this kind of signature,
if you will, and or a hashtag.
-
00:44:33
And I used to just write
under everything that I wrote,
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00:44:36
"I believe God."
-
00:44:39
And I would write
that that little sentence,
-
00:44:41
and you would know
that I wrote something
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00:44:42
because I would have that
signature, "I believe God."
-
00:44:46
And it was something
I said with boldness
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00:44:48
and with authority
and with confidence.
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00:44:51
It's something that I believed.
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00:44:53
And I can't tell you when I
exactly chose to stop writing
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00:44:58
or saying the
words I believe God.
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00:45:01
But I imagine that over time,
maybe with some age,
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00:45:05
it just became a lot
easier to stop saying it.
-
00:45:08
Because maybe over time I
had a few more disappointments,
-
00:45:11
I had a few more
moments of bitterness
-
00:45:13
that I was
transferring onto God,
-
00:45:16
and no longer could I easily
say the words, I believe God
-
00:45:20
because maybe God had promised
me something similar to Sarah
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00:45:24
at an appointed time, and I
didn't see the appointed time.
-
00:45:28
See, Sarah's laugh is
actually really understandable,
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00:45:30
it is I don't even
stand in judgment of it.
-
00:45:34
I totally get it,
and maybe you do too,
-
00:45:37
because you're in this
room and you're like Sarah,
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00:45:39
you're like, "God, I've asked
you for kids over and over.
-
00:45:43
And we've tried everything
and nothing has worked.
-
00:45:46
God, I begged you
to save my children.
-
00:45:49
And they are still so far
from you. It's not even funny.
-
00:45:52
God, I thought that
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00:45:53
that friendship
was going to last forever.
-
00:45:56
And then they left me.
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00:45:58
Lord, I prayed.
I prayed for You to heal them,
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00:46:01
and you didn't heal them."
-
00:46:04
It makes total sense
that we end up in this spot
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00:46:07
because ultimately,
cynicism is self-protection.
-
00:46:12
See, you and I, we might have a
reason to be in a cynical spot.
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00:46:17
We might have a reason
to be exactly where we are.
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00:46:20
But let me be clear today,
the Bible is anti cynicism.
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00:46:25
Jesus is anti cynicism.
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00:46:28
All throughout Scripture
we see this, that cynicism
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00:46:31
is not attached to an
age or to a tax bracket
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00:46:34
or to a moment in life.
-
00:46:35
It is lurking at the surface,
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00:46:37
waiting to snuff out
any faith in anything.
-
00:46:41
And here is our anecdote right
here all throughout the Bible.
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00:46:44
Hebrews 12:15, just the
very next chapter, says:
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00:46:47
See to it that no one falls
short of the grace of God,
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00:46:50
and that no bitter root
grows up to cause trouble
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00:46:54
and defile many.
-
00:46:55
1 Corinthians 13:7: Love
always trusts, love always hope.
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00:47:00
Matthew 5:8:
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00:47:01
Blessed are the pure
in heart, for they will see God.
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00:47:07
Well, there's just a
beauty in believing God
-
00:47:10
for who He says He is and
what He says He can do.
-
00:47:15
There's a beauty in
admiring the character of God
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00:47:19
and recognizing that who
He describes Himself as
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00:47:22
all the way back in Exodus,
as a God who is faithful
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00:47:26
to a thousand generations,
slow to anger,
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00:47:29
loving with everlasting love.
That's who He is.
-
00:47:32
He's the same God that
He describes Himself as
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00:47:35
in the book of
Matthew when He says:
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00:47:37
I am gentle and lowly,
I am kind.
-
00:47:40
I want even little
kids to come to me.
-
00:47:42
That's how gentle I am.
-
00:47:44
He is that God.
-
00:47:47
He has that character.
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00:47:49
So this begs the question:
how on earth does a cynical,
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00:47:55
fearful, deceitful woman
end up in the Hall of Faith?
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00:48:00
How does that happen?
Well it's simple.
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00:48:03
She allows herself to be remade.
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00:48:07
Earlier, right before
God gave them the baby,
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00:48:09
there's a very unique moment
that happens in the Bible
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00:48:13
that does not happen
a lot of other places.
-
00:48:15
It's a name change
that takes place.
-
00:48:18
And God changes
Abraham and Sarah's name.
-
00:48:24
It's in the Hebrew
of Abraham's name
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00:48:26
is actually Abram
before God changed it.
-
00:48:28
Now if you know Hebrew,
yay for you.
-
00:48:30
Proud of you and everything,
but for the rest of us,
-
00:48:32
he had to drop a little bit
of a Anecdote in the name
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00:48:37
so that we will
remember the promise.
-
00:48:39
He changes the name
from Abram to Abraham.
-
00:48:42
Now that "ha" that he drops
in there is representative
-
00:48:45
of the Hebrew word Hamon,
which means many nations.
-
00:48:49
And many nations matters because
-
00:48:51
it's just God re-upping
on His promise, saying,
-
00:48:54
"I am going to
bring many nations.
-
00:48:55
You will be the father
of many nations."
-
00:48:57
And then He takes Sarah's name
and he changes it from Sarai,
-
00:49:01
and he gives it a h
on the end of Sarah,
-
00:49:03
which is another promise.
-
00:49:05
Sarai means princess.
-
00:49:06
And so the variation
of princess means,
-
00:49:09
"I am going to give you royal
nations
-
00:49:11
that will come from you."
-
00:49:12
But then if we take
that and we put that
-
00:49:14
in the English translation,
I think God did something there
-
00:49:18
that is actually unique and that
He did that just for us today.
-
00:49:21
I'm bold enough to believe it.
-
00:49:23
Now Abram is spelled A-B-R-A-M,
-
00:49:26
and then God drops
a H-A in the middle.
-
00:49:29
And then for Sarah,
it's spelled SARAI,
-
00:49:33
and then God adds A-H.
Do we see what God did?
-
00:49:37
He literally goes, ha ha ha,
-
00:49:39
right in the middle
of their name.
-
00:49:43
See, he is about to
redeem the laughter.
-
00:49:47
And Hebrews 2:11,
it says: By faith Sarah herself
-
00:49:52
received power to conceive,
even when she was past the age,
-
00:49:56
since she considered Him
faithful who had promised.
-
00:50:00
What change was Sarah?
-
00:50:02
Nothing, except that she
had this redeemed laughter
-
00:50:05
that allowed her
heart to be soft.
-
00:50:07
And so she considered
God as faithful.
-
00:50:10
She simply allowed herself
to be remade into the person
-
00:50:13
who could believe God
for who He said He would.
-
00:50:18
So not only does God give
them a baby named Isaac,
-
00:50:22
which means laughter,
then He has the nerve
-
00:50:24
to deposit laughter
into their names.
-
00:50:27
He goes one step further
to redeem the laughter.
-
00:50:34
In Genesis 21:6,
it says: Sarah said,
-
00:50:36
"God has made laughter for me.
-
00:50:39
Everyone who hears
will laugh over me."
-
00:50:42
And she said,
"Who would have said to Abraham
-
00:50:46
that Sarah would nurse children?
-
00:50:48
Yet I have borne him
a son in my old age."
-
00:50:53
God redeems this.
-
00:50:56
See, I think about that
moment of me as a high schooler
-
00:50:59
being the type of person
who would write things
-
00:51:02
like, I believe God.
-
00:51:04
And I really think that there
was a youthful innocence there.
-
00:51:07
It's one that reminds
me of Matthew 18:3:
-
00:51:11
Truly, I tell you,
unless you turn
-
00:51:15
and become like little children,
-
00:51:16
you will never enter
the kingdom of heaven.
-
00:51:21
See, a faith increase requires
faith in God's character.
-
00:51:26
What I'm not up here
saying is believe God more.
-
00:51:29
Nope,
that's not what I'm saying.
-
00:51:31
What I am saying is
just like little children
-
00:51:34
we'll have to learn
to trust Him again.
-
00:51:36
See my kid,
-
00:51:37
I don't give him every
single thing that he wants,
-
00:51:39
and it's impossible for him
to see the bigger picture.
-
00:51:42
But just after that tantrum, he
still looks up and he trusts me.
-
00:51:46
See, maybe God is not going to
give us everything that we want
-
00:51:49
in the timing that He wants,
that we want to have.
-
00:51:53
Maybe we can't see
the bigger picture,
-
00:51:54
but His invitation
to us today is
-
00:51:57
to trust in the identity
of His character,
-
00:52:01
that He is steady and
faithful and steadfast.
-
00:52:07
And Sarah, she takes
a step in believing this,
-
00:52:11
one that takes her from
laughing a laugh of cynicism
-
00:52:14
into a laugh of like,
"Hey, check it out.
-
00:52:16
Y'all not gonna believe this.
-
00:52:18
I am 90 with a one month old.
Look what God did."
-
00:52:22
That's what she's doing., she is
laughing with joy and amazement,
-
00:52:26
and it's been transformed.
-
00:52:30
And I think God wants to
transform something in us today.
-
00:52:35
Not because He wants us
to just forget all of the scars,
-
00:52:37
all the disappointment. No.
-
00:52:39
But because He wants us to
bring it to Him with honesty,
-
00:52:43
and He wants to
walk the road with us
-
00:52:45
and see us through
the difficult moments,
-
00:52:47
saying to us, "I got you.
-
00:52:49
I promise you,
I'm not going to let you go.
-
00:52:51
I know you can't understand
everything right now.
-
00:52:53
I know you don't understand
why I didn't give you
-
00:52:55
what you asked for,
but if you trust me,
-
00:52:56
I will lead you to the end."
-
00:52:58
That's His invitation.
-
00:53:00
When I was praying and kind
of prepping for this message,
-
00:53:03
what led me to this
whole take on Sarah,
-
00:53:06
this whole message
was from a moment.
-
00:53:10
I had this moment with God.
Well, it wasn't with God.
-
00:53:13
I was just kind of maybe
cleaning up around the house.
-
00:53:15
And I was humming this song,
and I was singing
-
00:53:17
this song in my head like,
He won't fail.
-
00:53:19
It's a popular Christian song.
-
00:53:21
I actually don't even
really know what it's called,
-
00:53:23
but it's popular
and it's catchy.
-
00:53:24
So I was singing it in my head.
-
00:53:26
He won't fail, he won't fail.
-
00:53:27
And then I, I paused.
I said, "Hold on a second.
-
00:53:30
Hold on just one minute.
-
00:53:32
I feel like You have failed me.
-
00:53:35
I feel like there's plenty of
times You didn't come through."
-
00:53:39
And I said, "I'm not going
to sing that song again
-
00:53:41
until I can get really
honest with God
-
00:53:43
and really curious with God."
-
00:53:46
Which, by the way,
is something that He loves.
-
00:53:49
And so I got real honest and
I got real curious and I said,
-
00:53:51
"God, how can I
actually sing this song?
-
00:53:54
I don't feel right singing it
dishonestly and absent mindedly
-
00:53:59
when I actually do
think You've failed me."
-
00:54:03
And in the same way
He responds to Sarah,
-
00:54:05
His response is
about His character.
-
00:54:09
See, that song is just
one that I actually want
-
00:54:12
us to sing together today.
-
00:54:14
Not as a little reprise
because I know
-
00:54:16
y'all will be loving a reprise
so y'all can get to your car
-
00:54:19
and get to Wendy's before
it closes and everything.
-
00:54:21
I get that I feel you,
love you, love you.
-
00:54:24
But today I actually
want us to participate in it
-
00:54:27
as an act of worship,
because when I paused
-
00:54:31
to have that little
conversation with God,
-
00:54:34
it's a recognition that Hs
character, it does not change.
-
00:54:40
I can sing that song
with full confidence
-
00:54:42
because it's based on
the reality that He won't fail.
-
00:54:48
I want us to sing together, and
some of us might sing this song
-
00:54:51
through gritted teeth,
through tears in our eyes.
-
00:54:55
Some of us are going to
sing this song as a repentance
-
00:54:58
because we've been
kind of in a cynical spot.
-
00:55:01
And if we're honest,
we really haven't believed
-
00:55:02
in the power of
God for a long time.
-
00:55:06
Some of us are going to
sing this song as shouts of joy,
-
00:55:09
because we remember that
God has actually transformed
-
00:55:12
and given us a laughter of joy.
-
00:55:15
I want to speak this promise
over you because this song says,
-
00:55:18
when the waves come,
when the storms come,
-
00:55:22
you can find yourself
anchored to Jesus.
-
00:55:26
Now, if you don't have
any storms, congratulations.
-
00:55:28
They're on the way, because
that's just how life is, baby.
-
00:55:32
But you can stay full, confident
-
00:55:34
knowing that God is
who He says that He is.
-
00:55:38
Here's a promise to hang on to,
Luke 6:21:
-
00:55:42
Blessed are you who hunger now,
for you shall be filled.
-
00:55:46
Blessed are you who weep now,
for you shall laugh.
-
00:55:51
Let's sing together.
-
00:55:59
- Let's stand together.
-
00:59:15
- Maybe you're like me
and sometimes the cynicism
-
00:59:18
can run so deep that I
need to get my body involved
-
00:59:21
with the truth that I'm singing.
-
00:59:23
So maybe you need
to raise your hands
-
00:59:25
or extend them out
as we call out to Him.
-
01:01:50
- Hey, so maybe you've
become cold, calloused,
-
01:01:52
or in a messy place
where you need faith.
-
01:01:55
Guess what? Me too.
-
01:01:56
And we hope that you are able to
take a step towards God today,
-
01:02:01
that your heart was softened
and your faith strengthened.
-
01:02:04
And if you took a big
step towards Jesus
-
01:02:07
or you just want
someone to pray with,
-
01:02:09
we actually have that
available for you all the time.
-
01:02:12
Just text "more" to 301301
for that link to prayer.
-
01:02:16
- Yeah, maybe Hannah's
message today poked you
-
01:02:19
in an area of your life
that you've been cynical,
-
01:02:22
and it kept coming to
mind as she was teaching.
-
01:02:25
This is an opportunity for you
to speak that thing out loud,
-
01:02:28
or text that thing out
loud and receive prayer.
-
01:02:31
It's not going to
be an AI chatbot.
-
01:02:32
It's actually one of our
friends like Donna or Jamie,
-
01:02:35
and, um,
it'll be great and not weird.
-
01:02:37
And you should
take advantage of this
-
01:02:39
and let them send
you a text prayer back.
-
01:02:41
Another spiritual
opportunity is baptism.
-
01:02:44
If you do live near a site
and you saw baptisms today
-
01:02:47
with middle schoolers, August
2nd, which is next weekend,
-
01:02:50
we have baptisms
happening for anyone.
-
01:02:52
You can text 301301,
text "more" again
-
01:02:54
and we'll get you more
information on that.
-
01:02:56
And then of course, if you're a
part of our Anywhere community
-
01:02:59
and you want to get baptized
no matter where you are,
-
01:03:01
we want to help
make that happen too.
-
01:03:02
Follow that same link and
we will connect with you.
-
01:03:06
- Hey, we've got
something really exciting
-
01:03:08
coming up for our
Anywhere family
-
01:03:10
and I want you all
to know about it.
-
01:03:11
It's called Anywhere
Weekend and it is happening
-
01:03:14
August 28-30 in Sandusky, Ohio.
-
01:03:18
So maybe you are
newer to Crossroads
-
01:03:20
and you don't know
what Anywhere is.
-
01:03:22
- What is Crossroads Anywhere?
-
01:03:23
- Well, I'm glad you asked, Jen.
-
01:03:24
Anywhere is our community
of people who live a little bit,
-
01:03:27
or maybe a lot of bit further
away from a Crossroads site.
-
01:03:30
So maybe that's you.
-
01:03:31
And if you're watching
from Northern Ohio
-
01:03:33
or Indiana or Michigan,
-
01:03:35
this Anywhere Weekend
is exactly for you.
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01:03:38
- Yes, it's a great
chance to spend time
-
01:03:40
with people in our
Crossroads community.
-
01:03:42
It's going to be a ton of fun.
I will be there.
-
01:03:44
And it's just, it's exciting
because we're getting
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01:03:47
a lot of people who
are already registered
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01:03:50
and who are saying,
"Hey, I actually live,
-
01:03:51
I live in that city,
or I live 20 minutes
-
01:03:53
or an hour and a half from
there. Can I invite my friend?"
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01:03:56
Yes, you can. - Yes.
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01:03:57
- Learn more about it.
Text "more" to 301301.
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01:03:59
We'll have links for how you
can sign up and learn more.
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01:04:02
You do not want to miss it.
It's going to be phenomenal.
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01:04:04
- Yeah, don't miss it, guys.
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01:04:05
And hey, thanks for spending
part of your weekend with us.
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01:04:07
We'll see you in the next one.
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01:04:09
- See ya.