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00:00:12
        - We're going to sing of
what God's done for us,
       
    
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00:00:14
        the freedom He brings to us.
       
    
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00:13:53
        - That's right, that's why we rejoice,
       
    
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00:13:56
        that's why we hope.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:12
        - Sing that chorus
one more time.
       
    
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00:22:27
        - You freely give and I'm just so grateful
       
    
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00:22:30
        that I get to be the recipient
       
    
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00:22:34
        of your goodness and your grace.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:38
        The thing that's -- that I've
-- I've not deserved the most,
       
    
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00:22:43
        You've given it to me.
       
    
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00:22:45
        In my messed up self, time after time,
       
    
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00:22:49
        You reach Your arm out and you said,
       
    
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00:22:51
        "Nope, I'm not going to leave you there.
       
    
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00:22:53
        No, I'm not going to leave you by yourself.
       
    
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00:22:59
        I'm coming after you."
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:02
        And if you're hearing this prayer,
       
    
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00:23:03
        I want you to know the
Lord is coming after you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:07
        He's coming after you,
whether you see Him or not,
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:10
        whether you feel it or
not, He's coming after you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:13
        Why? Because He's a good
father who doesn't leave His sheep.
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:18
        Even just one, He's coming after us.
       
    
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00:23:21
        So, Father, I just say thank You.
       
    
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00:23:23
        Would You open our
eyes this morning to You?
       
    
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00:23:27
        And when You open our eyes to You,
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:29
        would we open our hands and
say, "Lord, you can have us"?
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:32
        You can have us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:34
        We invite You in to do
whatever work You want to do,
       
    
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00:23:37
        to show us who You've created us to be,
       
    
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00:23:40
        to show us exactly who You are.
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:44
        That's a good Father.
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:47
        You're worth singing
to, You're worth praising,
       
    
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00:23:49
        so we praise You today. Amen. Amen.
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:20
        - So how did we
get from this to this?
       
    
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00:24:24
        And how did we get
from here to there?
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:28
        And maybe most importantly,
how did we get from this place
       
    
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00:24:32
        where people seem to love Jesus
but can't stand his followers,
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:36
        where people seem
to be really fascinated
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:38
        by Jesus personality,
by what He did,
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:41
        by the way He cared for people
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:42
        and primarily see the church
as hypocrites and as bigots.
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:48
        Man, I think the answers
to these questions
       
    
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00:24:50
        are really important for us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:52
        They're really important
for us to understand
       
    
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00:24:55
        that somewhere along
the line we've lost the plot.
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:57
        We're going to jump
into the answers
       
    
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00:24:59
        to these questions
in just a minute.
       
    
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00:25:00
        But first, I have a little
thought experiment for you.
       
    
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00:25:02
        Imagine you live in a
world that's really confused,
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:07
        that's really stressful,
that's really strained,
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:10
        where no one can agree on
what's the right way forward,
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:13
        where no one can agree on
what's the right way to live?
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:16
        Is any of this
sounding familiar?
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:17
        Yeah. That's the world that
you and I live in every day.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:21
        We're not alone in this.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:22
        This is also the world that
the church in Rome lived in.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:25
        The church in Rome was
living incredibly divisive time,
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:29
        an incredibly dangerous time.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:31
        Rome was the
capital of an empire.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:34
        It was the cultural,
political, and geographical
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:36
        center of the known
universe at that point.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:39
        And within that capital city,
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:43
        there was a small
group of believers
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:44
        that were really
conflicted, conflicted on
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:48
        what the right way
to follow Jesus was.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:50
        This banner that says
Fight the Good Fight.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:53
        Well, there's been lots of
disagreements over time
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:56
        about how we as followers
of Jesus fight the good fight.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:59
        That line is actually
pulled straight
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:00
        from a book of the Bible, again,
written by a guy named Paul,
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:03
        where it encourages us to
stay strong, to stay faithful,
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:06
        to continue to
fight the good fight,
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:08
        continue to race the good race.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:10
        Like, that's what
we're called to be,
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:11
        and we really struggle to
know what that looks like.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:15
        If you've ever wondered
how you should live,
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:17
        if you've ever wondered
what the right way forward is,
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:19
        hey, you are in good
company because t
       
    
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00:26:22
        hat's where we all are
at in one way or another
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:24
        and where the
church in Rome was at.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:26
        Now the church in Rome, a
group of, let's say 125 people,
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:30
        a small community,
trying to figure out
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:33
        what it meant to follow
Jesus in their context
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:35
        and their place in
history and in space.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:39
        And in that moment,
they began to fight.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:43
        They began to
have a lot of conflict
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:44
        between the different groups.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:46
        And in that moment,
they received a letter
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:48
        that was encouraging to them,
that was clarifying for them,
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:52
        that showed them
how the different pieces
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:54
        of their life fit together
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:56
        and how they were united
in the person of Jesus.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:59
        So let's go back and
imagine in your chaos,
       
    
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00:27:03
        in your confusion, in your
uncertainty about, man,
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:06
        what you were
put on this earth for
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:08
        and your uncertainty
about the future.
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:10
        Imagine in the
midst of that moment
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:11
        you received a letter, a
letter from a friend or a mentor
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:16
        that wasn't generic.
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:18
        It wasn't, Hey,
how are you doing?
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:19
        It was custom advice for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:21
        It was guidance on how to
move forward as a community
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:24
        and in your own life.
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:26
        That's exactly what the
church in Rome received
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:28
        in the book of the Bible, we
call it the Book of Romans.
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:31
        But it wasn't a book
just meant to be read
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:34
        top to bottom or a chapter.
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:36
        The book of Romans
was actually a letter written
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:38
        to a community to help
them understand how to live.
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:42
        And that's how I want
you and I to receive,
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:46
        well, the book of Romans today,
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:48
        that it was written for
us right where we're at,
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:51
        not just a generic
thing in an ancient book,
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:53
        not just generic words
for somebody else,
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:55
        but a letter written with
great love, great care,
       
    
      - 
        
00:27:59
        and great
intentionality for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:01
        So today, I hope that
we receive Paul's letters
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:04
        like they were intended,
like they were a letter
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:07
        written to you and me
to help us understand
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:09
        how we can navigate
chaos, confusion,
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:12
        uncertainty about the future,
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:14
        and how we can understand
how Christians have
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:17
        sort of lost the plot,
why we don't look
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:20
        as much like Jesus
as we're supposed to.
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:22
        And I think the answer to
that question and more is,
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:25
        well, that Christians
have forgotten one word.
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:29
        That word is used
179 times in the Bible.
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:31
        So we don't really
have an excuse.
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:33
        It's not like it doesn't
come up much.
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:34
        But the word that
we've forgotten is grace.
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:38
        - God's grace.
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:39
        - God done gave me
more than I asked for
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:41
        because He got this
thing He has called brace.
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:44
        - And show him grace
that he doesn't deserve.
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:47
        - Of the story of the
gospel of God's grace
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:50
        in all of Scripture.
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:52
        - Grace is this amazing
word that shows up a lot
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:55
        and it embodies the
fact and the reality
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:57
        that we have a before and after,
       
    
      - 
        
00:28:59
        that God has moved in our lives
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:01
        and changed us and
made us different. Right?
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:03
        Unfortunately, Christians
aren't immediately recognizable
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:07
        for this in the ways
that they initially were.
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:09
        Christians have brought
many, many amazing things
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:12
        to the world, like
public education,
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:15
        like the first sort of modern
expression of hospitals
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:18
        and social care and many things
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:19
        that we sort of
take for granted.
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:21
        But unfortunately,
that type of innovation
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:24
        around change in
the world isn't seen
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:26
        as readily as it once was.
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:28
        And Christians are known
more for being insular
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:32
        or being hypocritical
or being judgmental
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:34
        than they are
changing the world.
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:37
        Crossroads started doing
a thing where every day
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:40
        in the Crossroads Anywhere
app, we as a community
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:43
        are reading through
the Bible together,
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:45
        just a chapter or so, and
then we have a chance
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:47
        to respond to that
and sort of post
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:49
        a public journal entry about
what we get out of that passage
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:52
        or what that makes
us think about or do.
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:54
        We're doing that
in line with Romans.
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:56
        Romans 1 sort of starts
off, like, right out of the gate
       
    
      - 
        
00:29:59
        coming in hot with a
list of a bunch of things
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:01
        that we probably
don't want to do.
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:03
        It's a bunch of, like,
negative behaviors.
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:05
        The very first comment
wasn't anything personal.
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:09
        It was just a person putting
an entire group of people
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:13
        on blast for not living up to
the standards of Romans 1.
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:17
        People who don't believe the
same things that we believe,
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:19
        people don't think the
same things that we do
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:21
        just getting lit up.
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:23
        The Bible, Romans
1 not being used as
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:26
        a letter of encouragement
or direction or guidance,
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:29
        but instead just as ammunition.
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:32
        But it just made me really sad
about what have we missed?
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:36
        How have we lost the
plot that this is more about
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:41
        how we can judge
other people than it is
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:43
        for how we can
live better ourselves.
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:47
        And it's in that moment
that I was initially sad
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:50
        and frustrated, and
then I just got a fire,
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:53
        like. in my gut of like, man,
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:55
        this is not how it's
supposed to be.
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:57
        This is not how
we're supposed to be.
       
    
      - 
        
00:30:58
        You know, I've been
judgmental plenty of times,
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:01
        so there is zero zero
angst in me about this.
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:03
        It's just, I mean, we
have a ways to go
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:06
        to lean into what
Jesus would have for us
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:08
        and how he would have us
respond to the world around us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:12
        So Romans 1
has this list of, well,
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:15
        behaviors that we
probably want to avoid,
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:16
        aren't great for us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:18
        Romans 2 follows it up with
this great line that just says
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:22
        you therefore have no
excuse who passed judgment
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:25
        on someone else for at
whatever point you judge another
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:29
        you are condemning
yourself because
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:31
        you pass judgment to
do those same things.
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:33
        That's that hypocritical
thing that I think
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:35
        the church is
unfortunately known for.
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:37
        One of the best examples
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:38
        actually that I've
heard recently
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:39
        about this deep
understanding of grace
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:42
        and how our own before and
after sort of help inform that
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:46
        and enforce that, encourage
us to extend grace to others
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:49
        was actually from
Alcoholics Anonymous.
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:51
        There's a writer, author,
professor, theologian
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:54
        named Steven Raines,
who literally wrote a book
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:57
        that asks a really
good question.
       
    
      - 
        
00:31:59
        He says, "Why can't
church be more like AA?"
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:03
        He asked this question
because he describes
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:05
        his experience of his life
being absolutely ravaged
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:09
        by addiction and the
power that he experienced
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:12
        by being a part of a
community that openly
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:14
        and actively shared
their brokenness,
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:17
        shared their stories of
hurt, and shared hope
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:20
        for one another for a
different path forward,
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:23
        and how it just changed
everything for him.
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:26
        He says it this way,
that AA members
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:28
        would become accustomed
to receiving things
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:31
        like hope and healing and
authenticity and vulnerability
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:36
        in the church
basement on Saturday
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:38
        and then come up on Sunday
morning into the church pew
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:41
        and wonder where all of
those same things went.
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:44
        It's a really good question.
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:45
        We are meant to identify
with our brokenness,
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:48
        to remember our before,
and that it's God's grace
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:52
        that gave us a different after
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:54
        than we ever could have
provided for ourselves.
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:56
        And when we remember our before,
       
    
      - 
        
00:32:58
        our grace that God
offered us and our after,
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:01
        we can extend that
same grace to others.
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:04
        And I would say we can't help
but extend that grace to others.
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:07
        So the whole picture
of Christians as uptight,
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:10
        as religious, as
hypocritical, as angry, mean,
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:14
        joyless and all
those things show
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:16
        just how much we've
missed the mark.
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:18
        That's not who Jesus was.
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:20
        That's not who His
followers are supposed to be.
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:22
        We should be the
most hope-filled people
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:23
        on the planet.
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:25
        We should be the most
joy-filled people on earth,
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:28
        and we should absolutely
be the most quick
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:31
        to extend grace to everyone
around us when they fail,
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:34
        when they fall, when they
don't measure up to whatever,
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:37
        we have a chance
to offer something that
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:39
        the world is not offering,
and that is grace.
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:43
        It's one of those things
that just makes me sad
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:45
        about cancel culture, right?
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:46
        Cancel culture,
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:47
        a lot of Christians get
really bummed out about it.
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:50
        The reality is Christians
invented cancel culture.
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:53
        Like, it was kind
of our sweet spot
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:54
        for, like, hundreds of
years where if anybody
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:56
        didn't do all the things
that we required of them,
       
    
      - 
        
00:33:59
        well, then we would write them
off and we would cancel them.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:01
        Then we would put them on
the outs, literally, sometimes.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:05
        That's not who
we're called to be.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:07
        We are called to be the most
gracious people on the planet
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:10
        because we need to
remember how much grace,
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:14
        how much forgiveness, how much
love has been shared with us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:17
        The important reality here
is that grace makes us new.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:21
        It doesn't just
like patch us up.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:24
        It doesn't just sort of put
a fresh coat of paint on it.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:27
        It doesn't just help us be
better versions of ourselves.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:29
        Scripture's really clear
that grace makes us new.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:32
        2 Corinthians puts it this way:
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:35
        Therefore, if anyone is in
Christ he is a new creation.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:38
        The old has passed away
and the new has come.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:42
        That's who we are.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:43
        We are new creations and
we get to offer tons of grace
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:47
        to other people as they
become new themselves.
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:49
        Here's a quote that
I love, and it says:
       
    
      - 
        
00:34:57
        It's not just about getting
on our best behavior;
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:00
        It's about
experiencing something
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:01
        that changes us
from the inside out,
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:04
        that makes us a new creation.
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:05
        And man, we as followers
of Jesus should just
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:08
        acknowledge that not
everybody is in the same place.
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:11
        We shouldn't expect
people who don't believe
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:13
        all the same things
that we believe
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:14
        to act all of the ways
that we would act, right?
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:18
        Let's be quick to extend grace.
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:20
        You and I are the
recipients of so much grace,
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:23
        and that should make
us really, really amazing
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:25
        at extending grace
to one another.
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:28
        And it's when we forget grace,
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:30
        it's when we forget how
much we've been changed,
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:32
        how much grace
we've been afforded,
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:35
        it actually keeps us from
connecting with one another
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:38
        and we forget that
grace connects us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:41
        Grace can show up in your
life in moments of chaos,
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:44
        in moments of confusion,
in moments of need.
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:47
        Whether that need is physical,
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:48
        whether that need
is emotional, spiritual,
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:51
        or whether that
need is just practical.
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:54
        I've experienced so
much grace in the context
       
    
      - 
        
00:35:57
        of connection and
community as my family and I
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:00
        have been between houses
now, supposed to be a week
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:03
        and we're going on two
months living out of suitcases.
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:06
        We've experienced so
much grace with friends
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:09
        letting us stay with them,
with people helping us out,
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:12
        watching our kids.
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:13
        It's been wonderful.
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:14
        And we're only experiencing
that kind of grace,
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:18
        that kind of grace
that supports,
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:19
        that kind of grace
that encourages
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:22
        because we're
attached to a community.
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:25
        Now, Romans 12 puts it this way:
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:28
        For as in one body we
have many members,
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:31
        and the members don't
have all the same function,
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:33
        so we, though many
are one body in Christ
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:36
        and individually
members of one another.
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:39
        Having gifts that differ
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:40
        according to the
grace given to us,
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:42
        let us use them: If prophecy,
in proportion to our faith;
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:46
        if service, in our serving;
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:48
        the one who teaches,
in his teaching;
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:50
        the one who exhorts,
in his exhortation, ;
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:52
        the one who
contributes, in generosity;
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:54
        the one who leads, with zeal;
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:56
        and the one who acts with
mercy, with cheerfulness.
       
    
      - 
        
00:36:59
        When we bring our
different personalities,
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:02
        our different wiring,
our different resources,
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:04
        our different gifting together
in the context of community,
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:07
        and we share so much
grace with one another
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:10
        and the body, the church
functions as it was intended.
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:15
        People are our DNA around here,
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:17
        and how we treat them
has always been a key part
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:20
        of who we are as Crossroads
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:21
        and as the overall capital
C church across the world.
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:24
        This is from the Seven
Hills That We Die On:
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:49
        The reality is that you
and I are surrounded
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:51
        by amazing people,
amazing people
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:53
        that we were made to need.
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:55
        And that goes for everyone.
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:57
        Everyone is made
in the image of God,
       
    
      - 
        
00:37:58
        even the ones you and
I might find annoying.
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:01
        Or it's true, even
for you and me,
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:03
        when other people
might find us annoying.
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:06
        Grace enables us to connect.
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:08
        Grace enables us to
experience the full value that
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:12
        everyone around us has being
made in the image of Jesus.
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:16
        And when we just understand
that we all were made
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:19
        with this deep, innate sense of
purpose and deep innate value,
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:25
        we can extend
grace to one another,
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:26
        we can connect
in meaningful ways
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:29
        that grow our ability
to serve one another,
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:31
        to help share each
other's burdens
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:33
        and care for one another.
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:35
        And grace doesn't stop there.
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:37
        It doesn't stop with
just changing us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:39
        It doesn't just stop
with connecting us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:41
        It actually compels
us to move forward.
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:44
        And whether we choose
to acknowledge it or not,
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:46
        we need each other
in all kinds of ways.
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:49
        But that's only possible
if we extend each other
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:52
        enough grace to
actually connect.
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:55
        And I actually have a
way that you can connect
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:57
        with real community
that I want to talk to you
       
    
      - 
        
00:38:59
        about right over here. Okay.
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:01
        It's a fascinating book that
was released a while back
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:03
        called Bowling
Alone that talks about
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:05
        the decline in community
in the United States
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:08
        and really around
the world as a result
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:10
        or in coordination with
kind of the technology age.
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:14
        Technology was supposed
to help us connect better,
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:16
        but in some ways it's just
made our connections shallower.
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:19
        Now, I'm not a
psychologist or a sociologist,
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:22
        but as a pastor I talk
with lots of people
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:24
        and the vast majority
of people that I talk to
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:27
        are looking for better
or deeper friendships.
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:30
        They want better connections.
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:31
        They want deeper
connections in their life.
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:34
        And man, I relate to that as a
guy who's moving to a new city,
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:37
        I feel like I'm starting over
in many ways relationally.
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:41
        And it's why I'm
doing what I'm doing,
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:44
        which is using
groups at Crossroads
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:46
        to help myself
connect with people.
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:48
        Now we are kicking
off a group season.
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:51
        We have tons of
groups all over the place
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:53
        launching in person, online.
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:56
        You can connect with
lots of people and, I think,
       
    
      - 
        
00:39:58
        find or create your community,
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:01
        but you're going to have
to take a step forward.
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:04
        You're going to have to
lean in to make it happen.
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:07
        Now, I don't know of
really any tools out there
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:10
        to help people connect
other than dating apps, I hear,
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:13
        but this is a tool that
can actually help you
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:16
        make friends and
connect with people.
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:18
        Just go to
crossroads.net/groups,
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:21
        look around and
find your people.
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:24
        So there are tons of things
going on around Crossroads,
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:26
        online and in person
all over the world.
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:28
        And if you want
to check them out,
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:30
        you can do so at crossroads.net.
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:31
        But all of that stuff
only happens because
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:34
        we have faithful, generous
people who give their time
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:37
        and their money to
help fund the life change
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:40
        that's happening
around Crossroads.
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:41
        So if you have questions about
what we spend our money on
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:45
        or the decisions we
make with our finances,
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:47
        or you want to join the
team of faithful people
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:49
        who makes this stuff possible,
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:50
        you can do all those things
at Crossroads.net/give.
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:53
        Now back to Grace.
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:55
        Grace compels us. It's meant
to push us, to move us forward.
       
    
      - 
        
00:40:58
        Now, if you've ever met a
Christian that seemed like
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:01
        they had something
stuck up their butt,
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:03
        well, they might have.
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:04
        That might have
actually been the case.
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:06
        I think there is a dynamic
that is all too common
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:10
        in sort of church today
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:11
        that I just call
Christian constipation.
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:13
        It's this obsession with
getting more information,
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:16
        with more facts, even with more,
like, good Bible knowledge,
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:20
        but without ever
doing anything with it.
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:22
        It's about taking in more stuff,
more facts, more knowledge,
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:26
        but it just stays like in
us and gets stuck there.
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:28
        It never gets applied.
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:30
        It never gets used
to change the world.
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:32
        We need grace that moves
in us and moves through us
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:37
        to change and, well, to be
the hands and feet of Jesus.
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:41
        That is what
Scripture describes.
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:43
        So in the same way,
it's not good to just eat
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:46
        and eat and eat, but never
well, do anything with that.
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:50
        It's not good to just
go to church and learn
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:53
        and research and
gain more information
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:55
        without ever figuring
out what it looks like
       
    
      - 
        
00:41:57
        for you to apply
that in your own life.
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:00
        There's a really,
really old question that
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:04
        when I was a kid, it was
What would Jesus do?
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:06
        And there were even these super
cool little rubber bracelets.
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:08
        But the question really is,
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:10
        what would Jesus
do if He were you?
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:12
        What would Jesus do if
He was a single mom?
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:15
        What would Jesus do if
He was a stay at home dad?
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:18
        What would Jesus do if He worked
in finance or in the trades
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:22
        or was a high school
student or was a professor?
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:25
        What would Jesus
do if He were you?
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:28
        That's the question
we need to answer
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:31
        if we want to avoid
spiritual constipation.
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:33
        We've got to figure
out what it looks like
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:35
        for us to apply the
things that we've learned
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:38
        and to move to be
compelled by grace,
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:41
        to find a problem
and to solve it.
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:43
        There's a passage from
Romans 12 that puts it this way:
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:46
        I appeal to you therefore,
brothers, by the mercies of God,
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:49
        to present your bodies
as a living sacrifice,
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:52
        holy and acceptable to God,
which is your spiritual worship.
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:55
        Do not be conformed
to this world,
       
    
      - 
        
00:42:57
        but be transformed by
the renewal of your mind,
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:00
        that by testing you may
discern what is the will of God,
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:03
        what is good and
acceptable and perfect.
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:06
        And then it goes on to
say: Let love be genuine.
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:09
        Abhor what is evil and
hold fast to what is good.
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:13
        Love one another
with brotherly affection.
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:15
        Outdo one another
in showing honor.
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:18
        We have a chance
to change the world.
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:21
        We have a chance to
leverage our unique gifts,
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:24
        skills, abilities,
talents, context,
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:26
        history to make an impact.
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:28
        And we get to be creative.
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:30
        We get to start on a
process with God to figure out
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:33
        what it looks like for
us to take the grace
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:35
        that's been given
to us and to extend it
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:38
        uniquely in our own
voice and our own style
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:41
        to a world that
desperately needs it.
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:45
        There was a really smart
guy named Charles Spurgeon
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:47
        who put it this way:
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:53
        If we give God service, it must
be because He gives us grace.
       
    
      - 
        
00:43:58
        We're not doing this just
out of our own goodness;
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:00
        we're doing it because
we've been changed,
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:02
        because we've been
united and connected
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:04
        and because we've been compelled
forward to change the world.
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:09
        For all the negative pictures
that there are, rightly so,
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:12
        of people who say
they would follow Jesus
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:15
        but don't seem doing
a very good job of it,
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:17
        there are so many
pictures of people
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:20
        who have been
transformed by this grace
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:24
        that it made them
different people,
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:25
        not just better people,
but different people,
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:27
        that it rooted them in
the context of community
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:30
        and deep connection and
that it compelled them forward
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:34
        in powerful, powerful ways.
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:37
        That's the story of Romans
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:39
        that you and I can
receive that kind of grace,
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:42
        that it can take
us to a new place,
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:44
        that it can make us new people,
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:46
        that it can see us grafted
and adopted into family.
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:49
        Man, don't those
things sound amazing?
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:52
        And aren't those
things that we need
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:53
        and aren't those things
that our world needs?
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:55
        The kind of grace that Jesus
offers never leaves us static.
       
    
      - 
        
00:44:59
        It never leaves us the same.
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:01
        It is not interested
in the status quo.
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:04
        It leaves us changed and
it sends us to new places.
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:07
        You and I get to be a part of
not just receiving that grace,
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:11
        but extending that
grace to others.
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:14
        Now, maybe where we
started this whole thing
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:16
        is been your reason for
not wanting to receive grace.
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:19
        Maybe the depictions
of Christians
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:21
        that you've
experienced in your life
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:23
        just sort of have you doing this
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:24
        and keeping these
things at arm's length.
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:26
        I get it. I really, really do.
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:28
        And you need to know that
wasn't God's grace for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:34
        God's grace for you is that
even with all of your flaws,
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:37
        even with all of
your brokenness,
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:39
        even with all of
your imperfections,
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:41
        you are perfectly loved,
that God wants to save you,
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:45
        that He wants to bring
you to a new place,
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:47
        not just in understanding
or in your head knowledge,
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:50
        not just in your heart,
but to bring your life
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:53
        to a new place modeled
after how He designed you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:57
        That's the story
of grace for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:45:59
        Tim Keller puts it this way:
       
    
      - 
        
00:46:13
        Man, that's God's grace for
you that you are deeply loved
       
    
      - 
        
00:46:16
        and He has great
things in store for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:46:19
        And if you want to
receive God's grace for you,
       
    
      - 
        
00:46:22
        hey, I'd love to talk
to you about that.
       
    
      - 
        
00:46:24
        I'd love to process
that with you,
       
    
      - 
        
00:46:26
        help you understand
what that means.
       
    
      - 
        
00:46:28
        You can just email me,
Andy.Reider@crossroads.net.
       
    
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00:46:32
        I'd love to talk to you
about that and help you
       
    
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        experience and understand what
God's grace for you looks like.
       
    
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        And there's an opportunity
that we have here.
       
    
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        So in the same way
that the book of Romans
       
    
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        was really a letter
written to encourage
       
    
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        and extend grace to a community,
you and I have the chance
       
    
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        to do that every
day in certain ways,
       
    
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        but actually to
do that right now,
       
    
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        to extend grace
and encouragement
       
    
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        to someone who needs it.
       
    
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00:46:58
        If you click the link below,
it'll take you to a form
       
    
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00:47:00
        where you can write a note
to a person that you care about
       
    
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00:47:02
        and that you want
to see encouraged.
       
    
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00:47:05
        We'll do the work of
getting that sent to them,
       
    
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        printed, addressed,
mailed, and in their hands
       
    
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00:47:10
        so that they can
experience more of the grace
       
    
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        that you have for them
       
    
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        and more of the grace
that the Lord has for them.
       
    
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        So if you would just love
for you to pray with me.
       
    
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00:47:20
        Father, I thank You.
       
    
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00:47:22
        I thank You for each person
that is a part of this community
       
    
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00:47:26
        and each person that is
getting to watch this right now.
       
    
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00:47:28
        God, I may not
know them personally,
       
    
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        but I know that You
love them deeply
       
    
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        and that You have so much
grace on hand to offer them.
       
    
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        You have grace for the
things that they've done wrong.
       
    
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00:47:40
        You've got grace for the
ways that we have failed.
       
    
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        And You have grace for
just the chaos of our life
       
    
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        and the strain and stress
of just everyday living.
       
    
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00:47:51
        Father, would You be with us?
       
    
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00:47:53
        Would You just be extra
near to us, offer Your comfort,
       
    
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        offer Your encouragement,
offer Your grace to us
       
    
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        right where we're at in the
ways that we need most. Amen.
       
    
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00:48:06
        Hey, thank you guys
so much for joining us.
       
    
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00:48:08
        As always, we'd love for
you to come back next week.
       
    
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00:48:11
        It's actually going to be
       
    
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00:48:12
        a really special
start of a series,
       
    
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00:48:13
        something we haven't
done in a long time
       
    
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00:48:15
        where we're diving into
who we are as a community.
       
    
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00:48:18
        This is one of the
strangest churches
       
    
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00:48:19
        I've ever experienced in
really, really wonderful ways.
       
    
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00:48:22
        If you ever wondered why
we are the way that we are
       
    
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00:48:25
        or why we do the
things that we do,
       
    
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00:48:27
        this is going to be
the perfect time for you
       
    
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00:48:30
        to understand the
vision and the culture
       
    
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00:48:32
        and the DNA of this
place and why we run.
       
    
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        Thanks for watching.