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        - These six verses
break down really
       
    
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        into four big
spheres of life, right?
       
    
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        It's the individual,
it's the family,
       
    
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        it's the church, and
it's all of society.
       
    
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        And we're going to
see what a life of walking
       
    
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        in the ways of the
Lord actually looks like.
       
    
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        - Where are we in the Bible?
       
    
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        Let's begin at the
beginning, shall we?
       
    
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        The Bible begins in
the Old Testament,
       
    
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        written around 3500 years ago.
       
    
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        The first five books
of the Old Testament:
       
    
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        Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus,
Numbers and Deuteronomy
       
    
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        are known as the
Pentateuch, or books of the law.
       
    
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        The next 12 books:
Joshua, Judges, Ruth,
       
    
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        1 Samuel, 2 Samuel,
1 Kings, 2 Kings,
       
    
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        1 Chronicle, 2 Chronicles,
Ezra, Nehemiah and Esther.
       
    
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        Whew. That's a lot.
       
    
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        These are known as
the historical books.
       
    
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        This brings us to
the books of the Bible
       
    
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        known as the Wisdom Literature.
       
    
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        It starts with Job and then into
       
    
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        a collection of 101 poems
known as the Psalms.
       
    
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        - There's a chapter
in the Book of Psalms
       
    
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        that has really unlocked
for me a way to drown out
       
    
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        all that chaotic noise
       
    
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        and instead find
something better
       
    
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        that I can actually vibe
and live my life doing.
       
    
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        Today, I want to
show you where that is
       
    
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        and how that exactly works.
       
    
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        But first, quick
question for you:
       
    
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        What did you want to
be when you grew up,
       
    
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        like when you were a kid?
       
    
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        Like what did you want to be?
       
    
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        Did you want to
be like an astronaut,
       
    
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        a teacher, a firefighter?
       
    
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        Me? I wanted to
be all those things.
       
    
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        But as I got a little
older, I started to realize
       
    
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        what I really wanted to
do was I wanted to be a DJ.
       
    
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        Yeah, that's right.
       
    
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        I wanted to be
on the turntables,
       
    
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        making great noises,
       
    
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        you know, doing the whole thing.
       
    
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        [scratching] You
hear that? That's fun.
       
    
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        Now, these turntables
and this rig is interesting
       
    
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        because the technology
has, like, evolved over time.
       
    
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        So I'm going to try
to turn this thing on
       
    
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        and see if it actually
-- Oh, it works.
       
    
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        Oh, look at that. It
works. It really works.
       
    
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        Let's see if I can
actually, like, scratch.
       
    
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        I don't even -- I don't
even -- [scratching]
       
    
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        Oh, you hear that?
       
    
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        Oh, look at that.
       
    
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        Let's try something.
       
    
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        Let's try this. [song changes]
       
    
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        It worked. It work --
       
    
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        I'm not going to play
with these too much
       
    
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        because my DJ
friends will actually
       
    
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        be in the comment
section making fun of me.
       
    
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        But I wanted to be
a DJ as a kid, right?
       
    
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        And I had friends
around me at the time,
       
    
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        we had like a little
crew or whatever.
       
    
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        And my good friend, he
wanted to be a public speaker.
       
    
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        He wanted to inspire
people through his words
       
    
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        and through speeches. Right?
       
    
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        I had another friend who
was in culinary school
       
    
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        and he wanted to
make incredible foods
       
    
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        and that sort of thing.
       
    
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        And then had another friend
       
    
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        who was like a really
good rapper. Right?
       
    
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        Well, as life progresses,
my rapper friend,
       
    
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        he actually became
a school principal.
       
    
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        And so he's still inspiring
people through words,
       
    
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        but not necessarily
ones that rhyme. Right?
       
    
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        So he's leading thousands
of kids at a high school, right?
       
    
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        And my friend who
was in culinary school,
       
    
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        he actually became
a really good rapper.
       
    
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        And he's written
songs for artists
       
    
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        that are Grammy winners
and, you know, doing his thing.
       
    
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        And my friend who wanted
to be a public speaker,
       
    
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        he's actually traveled
the entire world deejaying.
       
    
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        And well, me, I'm
here with you. Right?
       
    
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        It's funny how life works.
       
    
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        There's one thing I've learned,
       
    
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        it's that life is
complicated and it's messy
       
    
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        and it's super intertwined,
       
    
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        and it never goes as planned.
       
    
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        But I got to be honest
with you, I tell you this,
       
    
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        I am at peace.
       
    
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        I am at peace with
God. I'm content.
       
    
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        And I believe that I am blessed
       
    
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        beyond what I
could ever imagine.
       
    
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        And as life never
goes as planned,
       
    
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        one thing we
can plan for is that
       
    
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        when we take God seriously
and we walk in His ways,
       
    
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        there are benefits.
       
    
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        So as we unpack Psalm 128,
       
    
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        I want you to see
this as a snapshot of
       
    
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        an ideal society, church,
family, and individuals
       
    
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        who are experiencing
peace and contentment.
       
    
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        Let's read it
together, Psalm 128:
       
    
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        Blessed is everyone
who fears the Lord,
       
    
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        who walks in His ways!
       
    
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        You shall eat the fruit of
the labor of your hands;
       
    
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        you shall be blessed, and
it shall be well with you.
       
    
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        Your wife will be like a
fruitful vine within your house;
       
    
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        your children will be like
olive shoots around your table.
       
    
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        Behold, thus shall the man
be blessed who fears the Lord.
       
    
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        The Lord bless you from Zion!
       
    
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        May you see the
prosperity of Jerusalem
       
    
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        all the days of your life!
       
    
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        May you see your
children's children!
       
    
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        Peace be upon Israel!
       
    
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        Now, I know, before
you go all wild on me,
       
    
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        a few things to note about this.
       
    
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        The word fear in this passage
       
    
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        is not what we talk about
when we talk about fear.
       
    
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        The word fear in
this passage is really
       
    
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        about respect,
reverence and awe.
       
    
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        You and I have this weird thing
like fear equals horror movie.
       
    
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        That's not what the
writer is talking about here.
       
    
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        They're talking about
respect and reverence
       
    
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        and taking seriously.
       
    
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        And this chapter shows
us what a thriving family
       
    
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        and society and individuals
and all aspects of life
       
    
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        looks like in a specific
snapshot in history.
       
    
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        It's different today,
we all know that.
       
    
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        We don't live in ancient Israel.
       
    
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        You probably don't
even like olives.
       
    
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        And most of us, right now,
       
    
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        we don't pick our
grapes off of a vine.
       
    
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        We drink our wine
out of a box. Right?
       
    
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        This Psalm is an
ideal, and it's okay
       
    
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        if your life doesn't look
exactly like that right now.
       
    
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        But this can be something
for us to strive for.
       
    
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        And in the same way,
       
    
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        we strive to be more
and more like Jesus.
       
    
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        Every day we can
strive for ideals.
       
    
      - 
        
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        So what does it really
mean to be blessed?
       
    
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        What does it really mean
for it to be well with you
       
    
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        and walk in the Lord's ways?
       
    
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        How do we actually get there?
       
    
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        Well, these six
verses break down
       
    
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        really in the four big
spheres of life, right?
       
    
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        It's the individual,
it's the family,
       
    
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        it's the church, and
it's all of society.
       
    
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        And after the break,
       
    
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        we're going to unpack
each of those four
       
    
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        and we're going to see
what a life of walking
       
    
      - 
        
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        in the ways of the
Lord actually looks like.
       
    
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        - That being said, let's
get back to the message.
       
    
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        - Okay, so this deejaying
thing is pretty sweet,
       
    
      - 
        
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        but we got to watch
out for the bots, right?
       
    
      - 
        
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        So I'll give you
just a little bit of --
       
    
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        remember this one? Classic.
       
    
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        You're not going
to catch us bots.
       
    
      - 
        
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        We're not doing it.
Not going to happen.
       
    
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        This is how deejaying
works. Right?
       
    
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        This rig right here
back in the day,
       
    
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        they would they would DJ
on these things called records,
       
    
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        right, vinyl. Right?
       
    
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        And so if you were
doing an event,
       
    
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        you'd have to walk in
there with like giant crates,
       
    
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        like milk crates
stacked to the ceiling
       
    
      - 
        
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        to be able to pick songs out of.
       
    
      - 
        
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        Now, it's a little
bit different, right?
       
    
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        With technology and whatnot,
       
    
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        we've got playlists
that you can pull from.
       
    
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        You can pull the
songs out of here,
       
    
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        so you have to walk around
       
    
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        and load up a plane or
whatever, or a car or a van.
       
    
      - 
        
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        And then from there,
from the software,
       
    
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        it comes into these these
turntables here. Right?
       
    
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        And so these turntables,
       
    
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        I learned on on
these right here.
       
    
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        I learned on these
guys right here.
       
    
      - 
        
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        But now DJs are getting smart.
       
    
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        They got a smaller,
more condensed pack.
       
    
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        It does all the same
great stuff, right?
       
    
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        It does all the awesome stuff,
       
    
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        but it's just a
little bit smaller.
       
    
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        And then from there,
       
    
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        the sound goes into
like this mixer, right?
       
    
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        And so this mixer
right here is, like,
       
    
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        where the central point
       
    
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        of all the different
noises coming in.
       
    
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        And then you get to take
the sound out of the mixer
       
    
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        and you send it
into the speaker.
       
    
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        And the speaker is
what the world hears
       
    
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        or what your
listeners hear, right?
       
    
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        So let's read Psalm 128
with that framework in mind.
       
    
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        Blessed is everyone
who fears the Lord,
       
    
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        who walks in his ways!
       
    
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        You shall eat the fruit of
the labor of your hands;
       
    
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        you shall be blessed and
it shall be well with you.
       
    
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        Your wife will be like a
fruitful vine within your house;
       
    
      - 
        
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        Your children will be like
olive shoots around your table.
       
    
      - 
        
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        Behold, thus shall the man
be blessed who fears the Lord.
       
    
      - 
        
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        The Lord bless you from Zion!
       
    
      - 
        
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        May you see the
prosperity of Jerusalem
       
    
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        all the days of your life!
       
    
      - 
        
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        May you see your
children's children!
       
    
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        Peace be upon Israel!
       
    
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        Six verses, but
unpack a lot of insight
       
    
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        on what a blessed and
peaceful world looks like.
       
    
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        And we're going to
unpack those four spheres.
       
    
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        But I want to do it in a way
       
    
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        that's been really
helpful for me
       
    
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        as I've been reading
Scripture, right?
       
    
      - 
        
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        And that's reading it backwards.
       
    
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        Like not backwards
in like this word
       
    
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        and this word in reverse order.
       
    
      - 
        
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        But I mean, taking the verses,
and reading them in reverse.
       
    
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        All right?
       
    
      - 
        
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        So the four spheres
in reverse order, right?
       
    
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        We're going to pull it back.
       
    
      - 
        
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        We're going to pull
back a little bit here
       
    
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        and unpack these.
       
    
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        The first one, right, verse six.
       
    
      - 
        
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        Verse six is talking
all about society.
       
    
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        And when we think about society,
       
    
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        it really is
interesting to me that
       
    
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        the noise that is coming
out of the speakers
       
    
      - 
        
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        of Culture right now,
       
    
      - 
        
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        it really strikes me as
uncomfortable, right?
       
    
      - 
        
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        Like hear how loud this is.
       
    
      - 
        
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        It could be a loud.
It could be annoying.
       
    
      - 
        
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        It could be frustrating.
It could be ugly.
       
    
      - 
        
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        It could be angry.
It could be divisive.
       
    
      - 
        
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        We've got a lot of things
coming out of the speakers
       
    
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        right now that need to
be addressed. Right?
       
    
      - 
        
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        But the way we're
going about it,
       
    
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        it feels like the speaker
itself might be broken.
       
    
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        I think we all agree
that a long life,
       
    
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        a peaceful life is
something that we want.
       
    
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        A peaceful nation is more
ideal than a non peaceful one.
       
    
      - 
        
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        And if we're going to change
       
    
      - 
        
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        what's coming out
of the speaker. Right?
       
    
      - 
        
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        We can't just move the
speaker around and tip it over
       
    
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        or or throw it out the window.
       
    
      - 
        
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        We have to look at
the other components
       
    
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        that make up what's
happening in culture,
       
    
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        because just like what's
coming out of a speaker,
       
    
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        it's comprised of all
the different elements.
       
    
      - 
        
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        What's coming out of
society is comprised of
       
    
      - 
        
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        a lot of different elements.
       
    
      - 
        
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        I told you that the mixer
sends the sound of the speaker.
       
    
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        Right?
       
    
      - 
        
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        Well, that really takes
me back to verse five,
       
    
      - 
        
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        it talks about being
blessed from Zion.
       
    
      - 
        
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        Like what's Zion, right?
       
    
      - 
        
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        Not just the basketball player.
       
    
      - 
        
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        Like what is Zion?
       
    
      - 
        
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        Zion was referred to as
the holy city of Jerusalem.
       
    
      - 
        
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        And often times, like the
temple that sat on the hill.
       
    
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        Right?
       
    
      - 
        
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        It was a place where
all of the Israelites went.
       
    
      - 
        
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        It was the place where they met,
and they worship God together.
       
    
      - 
        
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        There's an ideal in this passage
       
    
      - 
        
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        that everyone who is blessed
       
    
      - 
        
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        and is walking in God's ways
       
    
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        is connected to a
body of believers.
       
    
      - 
        
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        And for us right now,
       
    
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        where the body of believers
meet is the local church.
       
    
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        And I encourage you to get
connected to a local church.
       
    
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00:11:04
        And this mixer is a lot
like the local church, right?
       
    
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        If you think about this
mixer as the place where
       
    
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        all the different
people come together
       
    
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        and they all try
to work together
       
    
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        to impact what's coming
out of the speaker.
       
    
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00:11:16
        There are a lot of different
components to this, right?
       
    
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00:11:18
        If you turn one side on too
loud, it's super annoying.
       
    
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        But if you don't
turn it on at all,
       
    
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        you don't hear it, right?
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:24
        You get nothing.
       
    
      - 
        
00:11:25
        Now, if this side tries
to fight with that side
       
    
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        and you get like all of this
back and forth going on,
       
    
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        all that jazz, it
becomes annoying
       
    
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00:11:34
        and nobody enjoys it, right?
       
    
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00:11:35
        No one is blessed by it.
       
    
      - 
        
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        But when both
sides of this mixer
       
    
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        are working the way
they're supposed to,
       
    
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        something is created, right,
       
    
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        that wouldn't normally be there.
       
    
      - 
        
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        And then the people who
are listening, they're blessed.
       
    
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        Society is blessed by the
church working together,
       
    
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        the body of believers.
       
    
      - 
        
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        But a church is not just
where it where it stops. Right?
       
    
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        Because the church
is made up of more
       
    
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        than just people
coming together.
       
    
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        It's made up of families.
       
    
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        And that takes me
to verse three. Right?
       
    
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00:12:06
        Verse three is all
about the family.
       
    
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        And it's important to
remember in the culture
       
    
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        that these people were
reading and studying this,
       
    
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        men did a lot of the
studying and reading
       
    
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        and women did not.
       
    
      - 
        
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        And I want to encourage you,
       
    
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        if you look at your
your home life right now
       
    
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        and you're like, "Ah, I hate it
when we talk about this stuff,"
       
    
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00:12:23
        because, you know, your
home life doesn't look like
       
    
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        that or you don't have to
two parents in the home
       
    
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        or, you know, you might even
       
    
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        live with your birth parents
or whatever that might be.
       
    
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        I want encourage
you with this. Okay?
       
    
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00:12:32
        Families are like
turntables. Okay?
       
    
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00:12:35
        They come in all shapes
and sizes. All right?
       
    
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00:12:38
        I learned on this, this is
what I had growing up.
       
    
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00:12:41
        Today I'm using these.
       
    
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00:12:42
        There have been
times where I've used
       
    
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        different models of
turntable and in the same way
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:47
        God uses families
that look like this,
       
    
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00:12:49
        that looks like this,
and that look like
       
    
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00:12:51
        something that we don't
even have on this table. Right?
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:53
        Every family is different.
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:54
        And if if you read this, and
you automatically feel shame,
       
    
      - 
        
00:12:58
        I want to take a quick pause
and talk to you real quick.
       
    
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        Like, I know traditionally
in Christendom
       
    
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00:13:04
        it's been like a one
size fits all for women
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:06
        and men are like, yeah,
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:07
        you can do all
these other things.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:09
        Women, you are called to
just do this one thing, right?
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:11
        And when you read
a verse like that,
       
    
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        it can automatically
trigger that feeling.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:15
        And so if you're a mom or
wife or a woman right now
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:19
        and you are called
to be in the home,
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:22
        if that's where you find
your family situation,
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:25
        I encourage you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:26
        You are being fruitful.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:28
        You are not missing
out on all the stuff
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:30
        that is happening outside.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:31
        You are being fruitful.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:32
        You are a fruitful
vine in your home.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:35
        And I also want to
encourage moms
       
    
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        who are in the workforce
and doing their thing,
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:39
        the single moms, the moms
who have decided to work,
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:42
        the moms who are
running businesses
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:43
        and doing the whole thing.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:45
        I want to encourage you too.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:47
        You aren't failing your family.
       
    
      - 
        
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        You are being a fruitful vine.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:52
        See, what fruitful means is that
       
    
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        you are not just providing wine,
       
    
      - 
        
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        you're providing shade,
you're providing nutrients,
       
    
      - 
        
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        you're providing
covering over your family.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:03
        And what that looks like
       
    
      - 
        
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        changes depending
on your situation.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:07
        You are being fruitful
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:08
        if you are taking
care of your family
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:10
        and you are taking
care of your home,
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:12
        whatever that might look like.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:14
        In my house, it's probably
not the same as yours, right?
       
    
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00:14:17
        Like my wife and I, you know,
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:19
        we decided a few years ago
that my wife would stay home.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:22
        Now, let me just
stop you right there.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:24
        My wife's earning
potential is, like,
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:27
        way higher than mine.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:29
        But we made a decision that
       
    
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00:14:31
        it would be more
fruitful for our family.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:33
        She decided she
wanted to stay home.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:34
        All good. You know
what that means?
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:36
        That means she's being fruitful
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:37
        as she cares for our
kids every single day.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:39
        That also means that I'm
going to have to be fruitful
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:42
        in getting some stuff
to bring home. Right?
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:44
        Getting some money.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:45
        It also means that we
can say yes to some things
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:50
        and we can say no to some things
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:51
        based on what we
were called to do
       
    
      - 
        
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        to be fruitful in our home.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:56
        And then I also want
to stop here real quick
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:58
        because we're talking
about family and stuff.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:00
        There's a lot of different
emotions that can come up.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:02
        There are folks out there
who are maybe you're single,
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:04
        maybe you've been
single for a long time
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:06
        and you're like, "Man,
I can't wait to make that,
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:08
        you know, have to deal with
those problems or whatever."
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:11
        Or maybe you don't have children
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:12
        or maybe you don't
have a biological family.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:14
        Be encouraged with this.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:15
        We are all spiritual
children of someone.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:19
        Everyone has a family,
that's not a biological family.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:23
        Maybe you have
a spiritual family.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:24
        And if you're following Jesus
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:26
        or you're a part of
pursuing who he is,
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:29
        you are the spiritual
child of someone.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:31
        I'm the spiritual child
of Kevin and David
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:35
        and the guys who had led them.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:38
        You are the spiritual
child of someone.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:39
        We all have a family.
We're all part of a family.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:43
        But families, right, families
are made up of what?
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:47
        Of individuals. Right?
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:49
        And that's where I think the
the most confusion comes
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:52
        when we talk about
a blessed world
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:54
        and a thriving world
and a thriving church
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:56
        and a thriving family, we
miss a really important part,
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:59
        and that is the individual.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:00
        And we think about a DJ rig,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:02
        the individual is a lot like
this software right here.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:04
        This software right here,
if this isn't functioning,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:07
        none of this stuff works,
nothing comes out.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:10
        This is one of the
most overlooked parts
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:12
        of a thriving world
is the individual.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:15
        Because a thriving society
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:17
        is made up of a thriving church,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:19
        that's made up
of thriving families,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:21
        that's made up of individuals
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:23
        who are taking God seriously
and walking in His ways.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:27
        You can't have a thriving world
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:30
        without people who are thriving,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:32
        and you can't have a godly
world without godly people.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:36
        It blows my mind how
we get so surprised
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:39
        when chaos hits,
when chaos ensues,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:41
        when we're not
taking God seriously.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:44
        It blows my mind that
we think that we can just,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:46
        you know, blame
this, that and the other
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:48
        and and make all these changes
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:49
        without changing
what's happening with us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:52
        And lastly, I want
to talk to the people
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:55
        who maybe you
don't know God, right?
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:58
        Maybe you're like, "Yeah,
this whole God thing,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:00
        I don't know if I really
am into it or whatever."
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:02
        Or maybe you're a little scared.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:04
        Maybe you take that
word fear and you're like,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:06
        "Yeah, I'm actually scared
of what might happen
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:07
        if I actually get to know God,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:09
        if I actually make
myself known to him
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:12
        and get real around him."
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:16
        I want encourage you with
this, when you do know God,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:18
        when you do know God
and walk in His ways,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:21
        you eventually realize
that He wants good for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:24
        He has a future for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:25
        He's actually invested
in your success
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:28
        and your family's success
and your church's success,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:31
        and your place in
society's success.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:33
        He wants all of
those things to thrive.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:35
        But it's got to start with you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:37
        We need more people
walking in the ways of God.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:42
        We need more people
who understand what it's like
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:45
        to take God seriously,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:46
        to bring it to the people
closest to their lives,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:49
        to let that impact
the local church,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:51
        to let that impact a society,
not the other way around.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:55
        So my challenge today is that
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:57
        you would examine your life,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:59
        take a hard look in the mirror
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:01
        and see if there's
anywhere in your life
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:03
        where you aren't
taking God seriously
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:05
        and see if there's
anywhere in your life
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:07
        where you need to
get to know God more,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:09
        you need to get to know
more about what He says
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:12
        about you, what he
says about your future,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:15
        what it says about your life.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:17
        Because you can thrive.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:19
        Society can thrive if
we take God seriously.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:23
        Let me pray for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:25
        God, I pray that we
would walk in your ways
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:27
        every single day and
that we would see the fruit
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:30
        of that decision
in our daily lives,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:33
        with our families,
with our friends,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:35
        with our churches, and
with the world around us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:37
        God, we don't want
to throw our hands up
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:40
        and give up and say,
"Yeah, it is what it is."
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:43
        No, God. We want
to we want to pursue.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:45
        We want to bring
your ways to the world.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:48
        We want to do what
you've called us to do, God.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:50
        So I pray for every
person watching this
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:52
        that they would be renewed
in their walk with you,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:56
        be renewed and their
understanding of who you are
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:58
        and they would see you
for just how amazing you are.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:02
        You are good and
we trust you. Amen.
       
    
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00:21:23
        - We're hoping you
enjoy the message today
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:25
        and hopefully you were
able to get something
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:27
        out of us going deeper
in the Book of Psalms.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:29
        - That's right. This entire
series is all connected
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:31
        with an initiative
that we've been doing
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:32
        this whole year called
the Bible Challenge.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:34
        - That's exactly right.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:35
        We as a community are
going through the Bible
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:37
        in the Crossroads
App all week, reading,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:40
        diving into Scripture.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:41
        I'm there, Kyle's
there, Brian's there.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:43
        - Everybody's there.
Your mom might be there.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:45
        - Everybody's there.
- A lot of people are there.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:47
        If you want to jump in,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:48
        just download the
app and you're all set.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:50
        - That's right.
So that's all we got for today.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:52
        We'll see you next
time on Crossroads
       
    
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00:21:54
        and happy 4th of July.