Be Unbreakable | Easter At Crossroads

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- I'm Brian Tome, Senior Pastor at Crossroads.

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Happy Easter. It's great to be with you today.

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I am in a desert.

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This might be a bit what you feel like.

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If we've ever needed Easter, we need it now.

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Some of us are dry, we're worn out.

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We want to encourage you.

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We want to give you a sense of hope.

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We've got some good teaching for you.

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We've got great music. We've got a lot of creativity.

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So let's get going.

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- Easter is a radical story of rescue,

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more meaningful today than ever.

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The past year has felt like a storm in the desert.

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It tried to break you.

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Isolation, loss, fear, a future out of your control.

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Sometimes it felt like you would not survive.

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But one man weathered the storm.

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One man suffered its wrath for you and beat death.

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Easter is the promise of that power now living in you,

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the power to survive the storm,

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the power to be unbreakable.

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I've been tested

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But not like you have

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Yet at every temptation

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You never gave in

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I've been broken

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But not like you were

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You laid in a grave still

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Three days later walked out

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All that I may face

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You've already seen

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You're my Red Sea parted

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The walls I've built, fallen

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Prison doors opened

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Bright light in the darkness

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My home when I've wandered

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A well in my desert

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No matter what comes

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You're my rock, my salvation

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Unbreakable

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With you I'm safe to

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Give up control

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Cause you're my strength when

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I have no strength at all

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You conquered every grave

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That might stand in my way

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Prison doors opened

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A well in my desert

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Unbreakable

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Prison doors opened

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A well in my desert

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Unbreakable

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- The idea of being unbreakable is so appealing,

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but how do you get there,

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how do you thrive in the desert?

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It starts by finding a new power source,

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the power that Jesus offers us through Easter.

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- I'm in a desert right now

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Deserts are difficult, dry, harsh terrain.

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I want to talk to those of us who might feel today

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like I'm in a desert, I'm in a difficult spot.

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There's a harshness to life.

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There's a dryness to life.

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Easter is about meeting us in those difficult positions,

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enabling us to keep going

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and come out better on the other side.

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Jesus had all kinds of desserts in His life.

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It was a difficult life He led.

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At the end of His life,

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that ends in an excruciating way,

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He is crucified,

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which is where we get the word for excruciating,

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because it's the most painful invention of death

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that humans have ever invented.

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After that desert on a cross,

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we'll talk about it a little bit,

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He's put into a tomb.

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It's a dark place. It's a desert of sorts.

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And then three days later,

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He literally, physically and historically

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comes back from the dead.

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The Book of Romans 8:11 says this:

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That verse says there was a power

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that enabled Jesus to be unbreakable

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and that power that brought Him back to life,

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that same power, that same spirit

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can actually dwell in you and I

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and not only enable us to be unbreakable,

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to actually thrive and go to a new place.

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The Bible is full of deserts where people

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are forced to learn that they actually are unbreakable.

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We saw a week or so ago,

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if you were in a previous series,

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that Moses was in a desert for 40 years

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waiting to hear the call of God.

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He was unbreakable.

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We also learned that the nation of Israel

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went a 40 year period through the desert

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waiting for their next era.

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Jesus had a period in the desert for 40 days

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before all the amazing stuff that's recorded

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about Him happens, before all the amazing teachings,

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all the amazing miracles, He first goes through a desert.

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Remember, when you're in the desert, you can do this.

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You have the ability to stay where you are

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and not be moved and not be turned into dust.

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Remember that there is a different thing

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on the other side and that the same Spirit

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that did that in Jesus can do that inside of you.

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I want to help you today, but I also want

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to help you by not blowing bubbles up your butt.

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I mean, I know as preachers we like doing that, right?

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We like just telling you that everything is good.

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Let's ignore all the bad stuff.

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Let's be happy, happy, happy, happy, happy.

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Christians have a real hard time with this.

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We don't like difficulty.

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We don't have a theology of difficulty.

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We always want to get the nice, happy bow.

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We want to make us believe that everything is going to be okay.

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It's one of the reasons why I generally

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don't like Christian movies at all.

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It's like 90 minutes of desert and difficult,

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then, oh, it's all solved now.

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Oh, nice little bow, everything's good.

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Accept Jesus and your life is always great all the time.

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It doesn't work that way. It doesn't work that way.

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Sometimes there's no pretty bow on the end of it,

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at least not for a long period of time.

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And you've got to know this because I know you can do this.

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You can, you can be unbreakable.

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You can keep going.

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Don't keep wondering when it's all going to end

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so much as wondering,

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"God, what are you doing in me right now?"

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One of the greatest Christian thinkers

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of the 20th century, C.S. Lewis.

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And he said this:

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I don't want to cut down your problems

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and minimize your problems.

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I want to bring you some fresh water in the desert

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in which you're in right now.

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Some of us are a desert of poverty.

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Some of us are in a desert of separation,

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a desert of loneliness, a desert of divorce,

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a desert of chemical dependency,

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a desert of bankruptcy,

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a desert of just confusion over what my future is like.

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You're in the desert,

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suck everything out of it that you can.

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You can do this.

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God has created you to be unbreakable.

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And with His Spirit, you can do things

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that you never thought that you could.

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I know that there's somebody else like you

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on the planet right now that's making it

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and you can make it.

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History is littered with spiritual greats

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who are spiritual greats because of the desert

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that they were in.

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The stats are telling us right now that we're in a desert.

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Mental illness is skyrocketing, suicide is skyrocketing,

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depression is skyrocketing.

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I ran across one study that talks about

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how younger folks are especially vulnerable

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and likely in a desert right now.

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The study says this:

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So says the Scientific American.

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Now, are younger people weaker than older people?

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No, no, but why are younger people tending

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to have more desert like situations right now?

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It's because the younger you are,

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the less you've been hit in the mouth.

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The younger you are, the less you've been fortified

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and actually learned that you are unbreakable,

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that the same Spirit that brought life to Jesus

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can bring life to you.

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But you'd only learn that when you go through a desert

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and you learn to hang on and you learn that

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I can do this and you learn that God is greater

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than all of my weaknesses.

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And as you go through deserts, you grow in confidence

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because you've seen what God's done in your past

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and you say, "I'm going to take this one.

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I don't like it, but I'm going to take it."

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People like you have not just survived,

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but they've actually thrived.

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- Throughout history, God's chosen people, Israel

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faced unimaginable hardship as they fought to survive.

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They longed for a Savior.

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They were enslaved by Egypt,

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and God promised He would rescue them,

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that soon He would send the Messiah.

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But they grew restless and impatient.

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They despaired that God would keep His promise.

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God felt far away.

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His people feared He had forgotten them.

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God saw their suffering so He sent a messenger.

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He called Moses as a prophet to remind His beloved

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of His promise to rescue them

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and to lead them to the Promised Land.

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He filled Moses with Ruaha, the very breath of God,

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and Moses went to Israel with God's words in his mouth

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and songs of rescue on his lips.

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I am an instrument,

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I am an instrument,

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I am an instrument of peace

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I am a messenger,

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voice in the wilderness,

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I am a mouth piece

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Prepare ye the way,

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prepare ye the way,

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prepare ye the way for the Lord.

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Prepare ye the way,

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prepare ye the way,

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prepare ye the way for the Lord.

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Comfort ooo comfort

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oh take comfort my love, my comfort.

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(Hallelujah)

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Comfort ooo comfort

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(Hallelujah)

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The war you've been fighting will soon be over

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Prepare ye the way, the way for the Lord

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(Hallelujah)

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The road rises up, high in the desert,

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you'll wander no more, no more, no more

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Prepare ye the way, the way for Lord

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Prepare ye the way, the way for Lord

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And he shall reign forever and ever

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Hallelujah, Hallelujah, Hallelujah

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Hallelujah

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Comfort ooo comfort

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Comfort ooo comfort

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(Hallelujah)

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Prepare ye the way, Prepare ye the way,

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Prepare ye the way of the Lord

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(vocalizing)

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Prepare ye the way, Prepare ye the way,

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Prepare

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No matter how desperate the night has become,

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the rescue is coming as sure as the dawn.

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(Hallelujah)

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Prepare ye the way,

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Prepare ye the way,

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Prepare ye the way,

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Prepare ye the way,

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- Wow, after seeing something like that,

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you have to ask yourself, What am I watching?"

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- Oh, my gosh, yes. - Is this real life?

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- Absolutely. You know what?

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I'm here to tell you that this is real life.

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This is a church and you can be a part of it.

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- Hey, my name is Kyle.

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I'm the community pastor for Crossroads Church online.

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It's my job to take that thing you just watched

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and show you how you can be a part of it.

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- That's right. And my name's Hannah

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and I'm a part of the team that makes

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all of this stuff that you're experiencing today.

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- And this is Crossroads Church.

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It's an online community that you can be

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a full part of no matter where you live.

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- And that starts with watching the weekly online message.

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That message is there for you to get

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weekly inspiration, weekly hope,

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weekly truth, weekly encouragement.

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And throughout the week, there are different ways

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for us to connect anywhere as well.

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- That's step one, but don't stop there.

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There's a step two.

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There is so much more for you

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than just an inspiring, helpful episode every week,

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there's an entire community, experiences, connections,

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and more helpful content that you can

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have access to throughout your week.

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You can get everything just by signing up

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for our weekly newsletter.

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If you are in the desert right now,

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you need to know that you're not alone.

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Jesus isn't just powerful, He wants to meet you

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in your hard times and take you to a new place,

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just like He's done for so many people.

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- And I sat on the floor and I just started crying

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and I asked God, like, "Why do you hate me?

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Why are you doing this to me?

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Why would you take that away?"

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I had three surgeries in four years

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and all of them came from wrestling.

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Doctors had told me I had basically distorted my bones

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and they would pop out of place and pop back in.

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They told me I'm pretty much a danger

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to myself and others,

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something can break and it might be fatal.

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And they didn't want to have that liability

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out there and put that on other kids also.

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It just put me in a dark place for a long time.

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Wrestling for me at that point

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was a top tier priority for me.

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It was where I belonged

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and that was the only place I felt like I belonged.

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And so when I lost that, I lost a part of myself

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and I didn't know who I was.

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And it just took a toll on me mentally.

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I remember one night distinctly,

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this was the first time I was able

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to make it off the couch and up to my room

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in about three months.

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And I sat on the floor and I just started crying

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and I asked God, like, "Why do you hate me?

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Why are you doing this to me?

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Why would you take that away?"

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So I ran from God and I wanted nothing to do with Him.

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I think that turning point was when

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I met someone who really showed me what it means

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to follow God and truly trust in Him

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and that He's not just there for the good times

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and getting you through whatever you want,

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that He's there through all of it.

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And now I get the chance to do that same thing

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and coach and tell kids that they have a chance

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to do something different

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and sports doesn't make them who they are.

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Now, since I'm not wrestling,

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I've found a deeper love for God

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and just a better understanding for His Word.

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Just following His lead

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and doing what I can to further the Kingdom.

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- In Matthew 4 it says that Jesus was led

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by the Spirit into the wilderness, or desert,

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to be tempted.

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Now, the Spirit led Him into the wilderness,

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but it also says at the very end of the section

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that then God sent angels.

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Then God ministered to Him.

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So for 40 days in this desert, He didn't feel God.

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He was prompted by God to go there,

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but he didn't feel God while He was there.

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I think that during that 40 days,

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Jesus learned that he was stronger than He thought.

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Now God was empowering Him. God was --

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God was doing things in and through Him.

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Okay, Jesus is God Himself,

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so there was some power He had there.

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But Jesus learned some things about Himself in that 40 days.

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That's the way it is with us in our desert.

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I came out of a desert not too long ago.

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We went into COVID and all the difficulties around COVID.

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I had all kinds of problems in my life that you may have,

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problems in my home life, problems with aging,

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problems of all kind of things.

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And then all the problems of COVID came on top of it.

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And I found myself some time in that desert

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was the beginning of me coming out of it was realizing,

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"Oh, my goodness, this thing called Crossroads

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that I'm a part of, that I've been

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a part of building for all this time.

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We didn't even have in building Easter services last year,

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which is kind of a big thing for churches.

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What is going on with it?

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People are dropping off.

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All the visual indicators are just not good

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because things are shut down."

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And I started going into this kind of pity party

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and in a difficult dry place.

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And beginning of the end of my desert was

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when I sensed God whispered to me, saying, "Brian,

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Brian, you can handle this."

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I'm not going to say that I am unbreakable

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and I have all the power.

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I'm not trying to say that.

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I just recognize that I'm stronger

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than I was giving myself credit for

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and other people before me and right now

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in modern times are doing things

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much more difficult than I am.

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I can endure.

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This is the story of Jesus.

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He not only endures while He's in the wilderness,

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but coming out of that He endures public persecution.

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He endures people not understanding Him.

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He endures feeling like people have abandoned Him.

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He endures an awful,

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excruciating experience on the Cross.

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Nails taken through His wrists, through His feet.

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He's been flogged. He's been beaten. He's been clubbed.

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He's had people spitting at Him.

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He's up on a cross

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and He's having to push up to exhale and drop down to inhale,

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push up, drop down, while His beaten back

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is going up and down a rough hewn cross.

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Friends, that is a desert.

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It is difficult. It's grueling.

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And we can take hope that our desert

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is never going to be like His desert

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and that there is a God who cares for us.

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And Jesus went through that difficulty on the Cross

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because God was thinking about you and me.

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He was thinking about taking all of our pain,

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all of our suffering, all of our sinfulness,

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and putting it on His back so we wouldn't have to bear

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that pain and suffering and sinfulness for all of eternity.

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That is the Good News.

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- Jesus has the power to rescue you

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and He will meet you where you are.

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You may not immediately be out of the desert,

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but you can have hope even in the hardest of times.

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- Ali was diagnosed with lung cancer.

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- Mike was diagnosed with neuroendocrine cancer

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and I was eight months pregnant,

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- Something like this was just like, "It's just too much."

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It was too much.

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It really starts in college.

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Leslie started dating her first husband, Mike, there,

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who was also a good friend of mine.

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And eventually Mike and Leslie get married.

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During that time, I got married to my first wife, Ali.

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A couple of years into mine and Ali's marriage,

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Ali was diagnosed with lung cancer.

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And we had just had our daughter, Olivia,

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and Olivia had just turned one when Ali passed away.

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- In 2012, Mike was diagnosed with neuroendocrine cancer

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and I was eight months pregnant.

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It was stage four and it had metastasized

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to his liver when he was diagnosed

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so I kind of saw the writing on the wall

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and knew that our story wasn't going to have a happy ending.

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Mike passed away November 10th, 2013.

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You have in your mind this picture

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of what you think your life is --

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how your life is going to play out.

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And I didn't know how to live that life.

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And it was at that point that I reached out

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to reconnect with Ben.

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- There's a comfort knowing that

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you don't have to explain it to this other person.

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You know, you feel kind of like

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you're all alone in the grief.

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And when you've got someone that's in it with you,

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it does so much to ease that loneliness.

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It's really hard to describe.

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- It just worked, like we would get together

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and go do things and our kiddos got along really well.

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- It was kind of just right in front of our face.

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- That was sort of the beginning of our romantic relationship.

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Two years from the point we started dating, we got married

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- And we found out we were pregnant.

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And then we found out that our baby

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was going to have Down syndrome.

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Yeah, we really felt like we had been through so much

00:36:04

and that something like this was just like,

00:36:08

it's just too much. It was too much.

00:36:11

- Yeah, I thought, "Goodness, we've --we've paid our dues."

00:36:15

- Yeah. And I think in the same way

00:36:17

that you can grieve the loss of a person,

00:36:20

you definitely grieve the loss of expectations that you have.

00:36:24

- Again, you have this vision of how

00:36:27

this blended family is going to play out

00:36:29

and that little extra chromosome wasn't part of that vision.

00:36:34

We wanted to get to a place where

00:36:35

we were excited to welcome our baby.

00:36:38

And in order to do that, we needed to take the time

00:36:41

to grieve and then educate ourselves

00:36:46

so that we understood, like, what does this really mean?

00:36:49

- We met with other families

00:36:51

that have kids with Down's syndrome.

00:36:54

And the more we learned

00:36:56

and the more we were exposed to it,

00:36:57

the more we realize like this isn't such a scary thing.

00:37:00

It's just not that terrible.

00:37:02

In fact, it's not terrible at all, you know?

00:37:04

And we had to get to that point.

00:37:08

- So Nash was born November 28th, 2016.

00:37:12

- He's awesome and he's brought so much joy into our lives.

00:37:16

And sometimes I feel shame for how we reacted

00:37:21

to that diagnosis and how much fear we had.

00:37:24

We just -- we had no idea how many positive things

00:37:28

would come from it.

00:37:31

All the twists and turns that we've had,

00:37:33

together and separately, I think

00:37:36

what we're able to do is look back on all that

00:37:40

and see how God has taken certain things

00:37:44

and used them to build us, to build our character,

00:37:49

to build our relationship.

00:37:50

And there were definitely times

00:37:52

where I felt a distance from God

00:37:55

and I questioned why I had to be going through this.

00:37:59

In my gut I just knew that there was

00:38:01

something on the other side of it

00:38:03

and that I just had to trust God.

00:38:06

- When Mike died, there was a moment

00:38:09

where I just kind of crawled up in bed with him

00:38:11

and I -- that moment was

00:38:16

the most connected to God I have ever felt.

00:38:19

I was overcome with this, like everything's going to be okay.

00:38:22

So I think even though I had moments

00:38:24

where I questioned why God had allowed me

00:38:28

to be in this situation, I had something to come back to.

00:38:34

- Nothing gets wasted. God doesn't waste anything.

00:38:36

And although it may be tragic, it may feel unfair,

00:38:41

when you have that perspective,

00:38:43

you can look at it from a different angle

00:38:45

and see that this is going to be used.

00:38:49

I'm sure other things will happen in our lives

00:38:51

that are going to be bad. You know?

00:38:53

We also know that those things are going

00:38:56

to be used for good in other ways

00:38:58

that we just don't know about

00:38:59

and we'll be patient and wait and see how they get used.

00:43:16

The book of Ephesians 1:18 says:

00:43:52

The reason why we know the name of Jesus

00:43:55

is because He went through the desert,

00:43:57

He went through the pain.

00:43:59

That's why we know His name.

00:44:04

The pain and difficulty of the desert

00:44:06

equips us for a future that is amazing.

00:44:08

We don't know what it's going to come,

00:44:10

but it is going to come.

00:44:11

And His name is above every other name.

00:44:13

What kind of names is his name above?

00:44:17

They're talking about the names of

00:44:20

depression and hopelessness, fear and anxiety,

00:44:27

credit card debt and bankruptcy,

00:44:30

uncertainty and confusion, malaise and status quo,

00:44:36

loneliness and rejection.

00:44:39

These are the names that we encounter

00:44:41

when we're in the desert

00:44:43

and these are the names that Jesus

00:44:46

trounces by His victory on the Cross.

00:44:49

These are the names, they're trying to call out to you

00:44:53

that God has forsaken you and He has abandoned you.

00:44:56

No, He has not, you're just in a desert.

00:45:00

And it's not unlike the desert Jesus went through

00:45:02

and all the greats of previous history.

00:45:04

You can do this. You can.

00:45:06

You can be unbreakable and the Spirit

00:45:08

that gave life to His body can give life to yours.

00:45:12

This dry, desolated place that you may find yourself in

00:45:17

leaves us with two choices:

00:45:21

Dry out and die by living on our own strength

00:45:25

or look for the waters of nutrition and nourishment

00:45:29

that He brings to us.

00:45:31

Psalm 50:15, He says:

00:45:42

We need delivered.

00:45:44

We need delivered from everything

00:45:46

that's gotten us inside the desert.

00:45:49

Some of us have got like capital P problems,

00:45:53

not just adult problems, but capital P problems.

00:45:59

The kind of problems that movies are made of

00:46:01

and we leave those movies feeling depressed.

00:46:03

The kind of problems that I don't even want to talk about

00:46:06

because other people are going to go,

00:46:08

"I didn't need to hear that on Easter."

00:46:10

You know that's you.

00:46:11

You know it if you're one of those folks like,

00:46:13

"Man, this is -- it's going to take more than

00:46:15

a little pick me up sermon to get me going."

00:46:17

I know. I know.

00:46:20

That's exactly why Jesus came and lived the life He lived

00:46:22

and died the death He did

00:46:24

and offers the Spirit that He offers.

00:46:27

Most Americans are on a self-improvement plan.

00:46:30

They believe that,

00:46:32

"I'm just an understandably flawed person

00:46:34

in need of a couple of helpful principles

00:46:37

just to get me over the edge."

00:46:39

When I say you got this, I'm trying to tell you

00:46:42

you are stronger than you think

00:46:44

and we're also not as strong as we think,

00:46:48

because we need Jesus to make a difference in our life.

00:46:53

We need Him. We need Him.

00:46:56

We need Him to have died the death He died for us.

00:46:59

And we need the resurrection power that He has.

00:47:02

That's the story of Easter,

00:47:05

that someone came back from the dead.

00:47:07

And if that power still exists today, and it does,

00:47:10

I've felt that power. I've sensed that power.

00:47:13

I am where I am today because of that power.

00:47:14

That power comes to normal, average people like you and I.

00:47:20

Easter is about the hope of the resurrection,

00:47:23

the hope of a new day,

00:47:25

the hope of a mist coming and moistening our skin,

00:47:29

the hope of an oasis that's just around the next craggy rock,

00:47:33

the hope that there is a beautiful life ahead of me.

00:47:37

And if there's not a beautiful life ahead of me,

00:47:39

there's a beautiful eternity ahead of me.

00:47:42

I don't know if you've ever reached out to Him

00:47:45

and actually asked Him for His Spirit

00:47:49

to come into your life where you are right now,

00:47:52

but I want to pray for you and I want to trust

00:47:55

that your desert is going to be survivable

00:47:58

and you are going to be able to get through your desert

00:48:01

through the resurrection of power

00:48:03

that comes through His Spirit.

00:48:05

Let me pray for you right now.

00:48:06

And if you want to pray this prayer,

00:48:08

I'll do a little pauses and you can just pray it out loud.

00:48:12

Muttered it if someone sitting next to you.

00:48:14

Romans 10:9says, If we believe with our hearts

00:48:16

that Jesus has been raised from the dead

00:48:18

and we confess with our mouth.

00:48:20

So confess it, make this a prayer.

00:48:22

It goes something like this: Jesus, I need Your power.

00:48:28

I'm not sure I can last in this desert, but I will continue,

00:48:33

but I need Your Spirit.

00:48:38

I ask forgiveness for my sin.

00:48:42

I asked that You would fill me with Your presence.

00:48:46

And I not only will stand in this desert to be unbreakable,

00:48:51

but I will follow You as best I can the rest of my life. Amen.

00:49:01

Man, that was good stuff.

00:49:03

Hey, for those of you

00:49:04

who received Christ for the first time,

00:49:06

you're going to have this new adventure

00:49:08

of the same Spirit that raised Him from the dead

00:49:10

working in and through you.

00:49:11

It's great having you part of the family.

00:49:15

Hey, I hope we've delivered by giving you

00:49:17

some encouragement or at least some awareness

00:49:20

of what it's like to be in the desert.

00:49:22

There is a God who loves you, cares for you and empowers you.

00:49:27

I hope you have an amazing Easter, the rest of your day.

00:49:30

And I hope to see you back next week.

00:49:31

We're here every week. We'll see you then.

00:49:35

- Man, what a great time that we've had today.

00:49:37

I hope you learned that you and I are unbreakable,

00:49:41

no matter what we're facing our lives.

00:49:42

And that's because Jesus beat death.

00:49:45

And that same power that raised Jesus from the dead

00:49:48

is in you and it's in me.

00:49:50

And we've had such a good journey

00:49:51

learning about that today.

00:49:52

- Absolutely. Look, that's why we exist

00:49:54

to guide you forward on your journey with God.

00:49:57

And look, part of that journey is learning

00:49:59

to trust Him with everything in your life:

00:50:01

your career, your relationships, even your finances.

00:50:04

And I know right now you want to click away.

00:50:06

Please hang on for a second.

00:50:07

Look, learning to trust God with your money is a step

00:50:10

that every single person who wants to follow Jesus

00:50:13

has to pass through. And I'm telling you,

00:50:15

it's an incredible, incredible journey in which

00:50:18

you actually receive more than you give.

00:50:21

See, God actually says in the Bible that

00:50:23

when we trust Him with our finances,

00:50:24

He will bless our lives in ways and places

00:50:27

that money cannot buy.

00:50:29

And look, I know that might sound self-serving.

00:50:30

It does, right? - Yeah, just a little bit.

00:50:32

- For a church to say that,

00:50:33

but we've actually designed a way around that.

00:50:35

- That's right. We've made something just for you

00:50:37

called the 90 Day Title Test.

00:50:39

In this 90 days, we want you to test God with your finances,

00:50:42

because if He's not moving in your life,

00:50:44

we'll give you all your money back.

00:50:46

That's how strong we believe in this tithe.

00:50:48

That's how strong we believe

00:50:50

that God will bless you in every area.

00:50:53

So you can try this out by going to Crossroads.net/tithetest.

00:50:57

- And when you do that,

00:50:58

you'll be prompted to submit a prayer request.

00:51:00

We would love to just partner with you, us and our team,

00:51:03

and pray for that thing, that place

00:51:04

that you want God's breakthrough in your life.

00:51:06

- That's right. You can connect with me

00:51:08

by going to hannah.sheppard@crossroads.net.

00:51:11

You can email me. That's me. I'm going to respond.

00:51:14

- She actually will, or you can email me,

00:51:16

kyle.ranson@crossroads.net.

00:51:17

We would love to connect with you.

00:51:19

- Come back next week where we're going to be exploring

00:51:21

what it means to take on life

00:51:23

and have the endurance to last.

00:51:27

- If you liked what you saw today,

00:51:29

there's actually way more to this story.

00:51:31

God has more to say about getting you

00:51:33

out of the desert that you're in.

00:51:34

And if you want that, go to Crossroads.net/unbreakable

00:51:38

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	Jesus Paid It All	27:35
	Feeling Broken?	33:33
	Conquered Grave 🪨	39:12
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